{"id":26499,"date":"2018-10-23T08:03:51","date_gmt":"2018-10-23T08:03:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26499"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:53:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:53:51","slug":"5-segni-che-ti-fanno-credere-di-essere-ancora-innamorato-del-tuo-ex-ma-in-realta-non-e-cosi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-segni-che-ti-fanno-credere-di-essere-ancora-innamorato-del-tuo-ex-ma-in-realta-non-e-cosi\/","title":{"rendered":"5 segni che ti fanno credere di essere ancora innamorato del tuo ex (ma in realt\u00e0 non lo sei)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Don’t worry, darling. We all feel the same way.<\/p>\n

It’s not unusual to still have feelings for someone with whom you’ve spent a certain amount of time. You still remember his scent, his touch, his voice, the sound of his footsteps and so on.<\/p>\n

Ma devi capire che questi sono solo i residui della sua presenza e non hanno nulla a che fare con il fatto che tu provi ancora affetto per lui. So che al momento \u00e8 confuso, ma alla fine questi segnali si attenueranno.<\/p>\n

Whatever you do, don\u2019t let them overwhelm you or confondere<\/a> you to start believing that you\u2019re still in love with him.<\/p>\n

These are the most common deceiving signs that may confuse you to think that you\u2019re still in love with him (but believe me, you\u2019re not):<\/p>\n

1. You don\u2019t want him to meet somebody else<\/h2>\n

This is the biggest misconception and it occurs at the very start of the break-up. You think you still love him just because you don\u2019t want him to be with somebody else.<\/p>\n

You still have that part of you saying that you\u2019re his and only his and him being with another woman is cheating on you. You still have these feelings that you\u2019re together but in reality this is not the case.<\/p>\n

This also means that you don\u2019t want him to be happy which is the biggest evidence that you\u2019re not in love with him. Real love means putting other people\u2019s happiness before yours.<\/p>\n

Ci\u00f2 significa che se la persona che amate \u00e8 felice, lo sarete anche voi e viceversa. Quindi, il vostro desiderio che lui rimanga per sempre solo o in una relazione infelice \u00e8 ben lontano dall'essere innamorati.<\/p>\n

2. You\u2019re constantly calling and texting him<\/h2>\n

This one may seem weird because we all think if a person is constantly calling and texting someone then she\u2019s madly in love with him. Unfortunately, this is not true.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s a difference between being madly in love and an obsession. An obsession starts when you reach the level where he constantly ignores you but you keep calling and texting him with no intention of stopping until he answers you.<\/p>\n

Ma se avesse voluto risponderti, lo avrebbe fatto molto tempo fa. Se lo amate davvero, rispetterete il suo desiderio di stare senza di voi.
\nConstantly calling and texting him is a desperate move and you know you\u2019re better than that.<\/p>\n

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3. Vi aspettate che vi chiami o vi mandi un messaggio<\/h2>\n

Aspettarsi che ti chiami o ti mandi un messaggio \u00e8 un'altra versione dell'ossessione. Quindi, ti aspetti che ti chiami ma ti rifiuti di chiamarlo tu stessa?<\/p>\n

The only logical reason why you would want such a thing is that you want to prove something to yourself. Perhaps you want to prove that you still own him or you\u2019re doing this for self-validation purposes.<\/p>\n

Evidentemente, questo non ha nulla a che fare con l'amore; si tratta di una questione di dominanza in una relazione e anche di altri fattori psicologici. Se eravate voi a dominare la relazione, questo potrebbe essere il vostro modo inconscio di preservare il vostro status per sentirvi di nuovo bene.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do this. You are a self-sufficient, amazing woman and you don\u2019t need a man to call you in order to prove what I\u2019ve just said.<\/p>\n

4. Prova sentimenti contrastanti quando lo vede<\/h2>\n

Sia che lo vediate sui social network o nel mondo reale, dovete sapere che \u00e8 del tutto normale che si mescolino sentimenti<\/a> about him. This doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you\u2019re still in love with him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll most likely get the same feeling even five years after the break-up and this is like a side effect that follows everyone who\u2019s in the same situation. You have to know that you cannot simply forget a person after ten days.<\/p>\n

These mixed feelings you get have nothing to do with you being in love; they are just your body\u2019s reaction to certain stimuli, e.g. when you were with him, your body learned to react a certain way and now it just imitates the same reaction without any specific reason.<\/p>\n

5. You can\u2019t stop talking about him<\/h2>\n

If you can\u2019t stop talking about your ex, it means you haven\u2019t resolved the situation in your mind. You still need to process what has happened and to do some mind cleansing in order to accept it.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re not in love if you can\u2019t stop talking about him because it means you\u2019re not ashamed to talk about him. When you\u2019re ashamed to talk about your ex, it means you\u2019re ashamed of the neglected feelings toward him or you\u2019re subconsciously fighting to forget him but don\u2019t want anyone to know it.<\/p>\n

Quindi, quando vi chiedono: <\/span>Come si sente?<\/span><\/i> Lei risponde semplicemente: <\/span>Oh, I\u2019m doing fine\u2026<\/span><\/i> Se \u00e8 cos\u00ec, potresti essere ancora innamorata di lui.<\/p>\n

But you\u2019re certainly not in love if you\u2019re constantly talking about him to make you feel better about yourself or to prove something to yourself and others. It means you\u2019ve accepted the situation but you only need some time to digest it.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Don’t worry, darling. We all feel the same way. It’s not unusual to still have feelings for someone with whom you’ve spent a certain amount of time. You still remember his scent, his touch, his voice, the sound of his footsteps and so on. But you have to understand that these are just the leftovers…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":26500,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29629],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26499","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-him-back"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29629,"label":"getting him back"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-4.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29629,"name":"getting him back","slug":"getting-him-back","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29629,"taxonomy":"category","description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. Here's how you'll do it the right way.","parent":29627,"count":51,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29629,"category_count":51,"category_description":"If you want to get your ex-boyfriend back, you need to avoid making the most common mistakes. Here's how you'll do it the right way.","cat_name":"getting him back","category_nicename":"getting-him-back","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26499","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26499"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26499\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26500"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26499"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26499"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26499"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}