{"id":26523,"date":"2019-10-23T09:25:22","date_gmt":"2019-10-23T09:25:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26523"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:27:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:27:16","slug":"7-cose-che-accomunano-quasi-tutte-le-donne-con-il-cuore-spezzato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-cose-che-accomunano-quasi-tutte-le-donne-con-il-cuore-spezzato\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cose a cui quasi tutte le donne con il cuore spezzato possono pensare"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vi \u00e8 mai capitato di avere il cuore spezzato? Se lo avete fatto, sapete che un cuore spezzato \u00e8 uno dei sentimenti pi\u00f9 devastanti che si possano provare.<\/p>\n<p>E quando succede, tutti ti dicono che la tristezza e il dolore iniziali passano con il tempo. E hanno ragione.<\/p>\n<p>Ma nessuno vi dice che il cuore in frantumi lascia sempre delle cicatrici emotive indelebili su tutto il vostro essere. Nessuno vi dice che ogni cuore spezzato vi cambia per sempre.<\/p>\n<p>Even though every emotionally wounded woman deals with her pain differently, there are some things you\u2019ll definitely relate to if you\u2019ve ever had your heart broken and here are 7 of them.<\/p>\n<h2>1. You\u2019ve lost faith in love<\/h2>\n<p>If you\u2019ve been hurt too many times in the past, it is natural for you to stop believing in true love and for you to think it is nothing but a fairy tale.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve simply lost all hope that someday you\u2019ll meet a guy who will show you that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/alla-ragazza-con-problemi-di-fiducia-non-tutti-gli-uomini-sono-uguali\/\">non tutti gli uomini sono uguali.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>After all those heartbreaks, you\u2019ve started thinking about love as something with an expiration date. You\u2019ve lost hope that someday, you\u2019ll find a man with whom you\u2019ll want to spend the rest of your life and that you\u2019ll find a man who will love you, no matter what.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Rifiutate di accordarvi<\/h2>\n<p>Some might think that all of the emotional pain you\u2019ve been through has made you become too picky when it comes to men but the truth is that you just refuse to settle.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t plan on wasting any more years of your life on guys who clearly don\u2019t deserve you or on someone whom you don\u2019t see yourself with.<\/p>\n<p>Ora sapete cosa volete e non vi accontenterete mai di qualcosa di meno.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Avete abbracciato la vostra vita da single<\/h2>\n<p>Another thing that your heartbreaks havebrought you is the ability to completely embrace your single life. It\u2019s not that you\u2019ve become selfish\u2014you\u2019ve just learned to put yourself first and to enjoy every moment of your one-on-one time.<\/p>\n<p>You learned that you are the only one who can make yourself happy and that you don\u2019t need a man to do so. So, you\u2019ve decided to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/6-motivi-per-cui-una-donna-forte-rimarra-single-finche-non-arrivera-luomo-giusto\/\">rimanere single finch\u00e9 non arriva l'uomo giusto.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-26525 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-108.png\" alt=\"7 cose a cui quasi tutte le donne con il cuore spezzato possono pensare\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-108.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-108-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-108-683x1024.png 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>4. You don\u2019t let people in<\/h2>\n<p>When you\u2019ve had your heart broken in the past, it is natural that you lose trust in people.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 naturale che sentiate il bisogno di proteggere il vostro cuore e l'unico modo per farlo \u00e8 diventare guardinghi e costruire muri emotivi spessi e alti intorno a voi.<\/p>\n<p>After everything you\u2019ve been through, you assume that everyone who enters your life only has the intention of hurting you. So, you\u2019ve become emotionally unavailable and you refuse to give people the chance to break your heart all over again.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Fai affidamento solo su te stesso<\/h2>\n<p>One of the things that hurts the most about every heartbreak is the fact that the person you loved the most betrayed you. And this is something you don\u2019t want to go through ever again.<\/p>\n<p>Per questo motivo avete deciso inconsciamente di non aspettarvi che qualcun altro vi copra le spalle. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/why-sometimes-even-self-sufficient-women-fall-for-emotionally-unavailable-men\/\">You\u2019ve become self-sufficient<\/a> and you\u2019ve realized you are the only person you can rely on because this is the only way to save yourself from other disappointments.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Le persone vi hanno dato del cinico<\/h2>\n<p>Have you ever heard comments about yourself saying that you\u2019ve become too cynical, especially when it comes to love?<\/p>\n<p>Well, if you have, this happened due to your heartbreaks and because you can\u2019t force yourself to believe that others are in love.<\/p>\n<p>It is simple\u2014you\u2019ve experienced a lot of emotional pain and one of the ways to deal with it was through cynical and sarcastic behavior and comments about your own and other people\u2019s life and love situations.<\/p>\n<p>Il cinismo \u00e8 diventato il vostro meccanismo di difesa.<\/p>\n<h2>7. You\u2019ve become numb<\/h2>\n<p>Quando si attraversa l'inferno emotivo, si impara a convivere con la tristezza e questa diventa parte di noi. Ci si porta dietro questo dolore ovunque si vada e, con il tempo, ci si abitua ad esso.<\/p>\n<p>Con il tempo, si smette di essere consapevoli di ci\u00f2 che si prova e si diventa insensibili. Quando si \u00e8 a pezzi, quasi nulla pu\u00f2 pi\u00f9 avere un impatto su di noi.<\/p>\n<p>Imparate a ignorare tutti i vostri sentimenti, compresi quelli di tristezza e felicit\u00e0, perch\u00e9 questo \u00e8 diventato l'unico modo per affrontare tutto il dolore che altrimenti vi consumerebbe. <!--codes_iframe--> <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever had your heart broken? If you have, you know that a heartbreak is one of the most devastating feelings you can experience. And when it happens, everyone tells you that the initial sadness and pain go away with time. And they are right. But what nobody tells you is that your heart&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":26524,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29617],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26523","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-heartbreak"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29617,"label":"heartbreak"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/niki-sanders-754457-unsplash-7.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29617,"name":"heartbreak","slug":"heartbreak","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29617,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Recovering after having your heart broken is tough. 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