{"id":26553,"date":"2020-06-23T10:28:38","date_gmt":"2020-06-23T10:28:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26553"},"modified":"2022-02-22T15:47:27","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T15:47:27","slug":"ho-bisogno-che-tu-scelga-me-e-non-smetta-mai-di-lottare-per-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ho-bisogno-che-tu-scelga-me-e-non-smetta-mai-di-lottare-per-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Ho bisogno che tu mi scelga e non smetta mai di lottare per me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Attraverso tutte le mie passate rotture di cuore e disgrazie d'amore, ho imparato (inconsciamente) ad alzare un muro intorno al mio cuore.<\/p>\n<p>Un muro che \u00e8 molto difficile da attraversare, ma una volta che lo si fa, si vede uno scorcio della ragazza di prima di tutto il dolore e la sofferenza.<\/p>\n<p>Il vero me stesso.<\/p>\n<p>Una volta attraversato quel muro, sarete in grado di vedere la ragazza che ero prima che il mondo mi schiacciasse e con ogni <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/11-modi-per-tornare-a-essere-se-stessi-dopo-un-colpo-di-fulmine\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> crepacuore <\/a>mi ha fatto perdere un pezzetto di me.<\/p>\n<p>I need you to break through that wall and show me that all of my heartbreak wasn\u2019t for nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Ho bisogno che sia tu a raccogliere tutti i pezzi del mio puzzle perduto e a completarmi.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96789\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-smiling-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che abbraccia una donna sorridente\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-smiling-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-768x509.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-smiling-woman-150x99.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em>You\u2019re well on your way but I fear I might scare you away.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ho la sensazione paranoica che lei si accorga che sono troppo danneggiata e smetta di lottare per me.<\/p>\n<p>Vi renderete conto che sono troppo e scapperete dall'altra parte.<\/p>\n<p><b>Please, don\u2019t. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ricordate il weekend che abbiamo trascorso al lago? In quel piccolo cottage, senza elettricit\u00e0 e senza nessuno nel raggio di 5 miglia?<\/p>\n<p>Eravamo solo noi due ed \u00e8 stata la sensazione pi\u00f9 bella del mondo. Mi sono sentita cos\u00ec legata a te.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96790\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"coppia seduta sul molo in riva al lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-sitting-on-the-pier-by-the-lake-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ricordate quando siamo rimasti a letto fino a mezzogiorno, parlando, coccolandoci e raccontandoci tutto quello che ci passava per la testa?<\/p>\n<p>Mi sono aperta con te come mai prima d'ora ed \u00e8 stata la prima volta in tanto tempo che mi sono sentita abbastanza a mio agio da<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/guardia-amare-qualcuno-come\/\"> abbassare la guardia con qualcuno.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Hai sempre avuto le tue braccia cos\u00ec strette intorno a me che mi sembrava che nessuno potesse farmi del male. Eri il mio rifugio sicuro (lo sei ancora).<\/p>\n<p>So che posso essere <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uscire-con-una-donna-complicata-puo-essere-difficile-ma-ne-vale-la-pena\/\">una donna difficile da amare<\/a>. I know that when I fall, it can seem as if I\u2019m never getting back up.<\/p>\n<p>I promise I\u2019m trying to change that. I promise I\u2019m trying to not let all of my past experiences shape me as a person and define our relationship.<\/p>\n<p>But I need YOU to help me get there. I can\u2019t do this alone.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96791\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che abbraccia una donna sul molo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-hugging-woman-on-the-pier-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I hope this doesn\u2019t frighten you. I hope you won\u2019t go searching for someone \u2018less\u2019 damaged. I hope you can see past my walls.<\/p>\n<p><b>I\u2019m still here, I just need you to find me along the way and never let me go back to that sunken place.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><em>Se l'amore fosse cos\u00ec facile, ne varrebbe davvero la pena?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Solo quando si lotta per qualcuno con ogni fibra del proprio essere, ci si rende conto di quanto lo si ami e lo si apprezzi.<\/p>\n<p>Solo quando si passa attraverso tanti guai con qualcuno e si riesce ad arrivare dall'altra parte, si impara a tenerlo cos\u00ec vicino al cuore e a proteggerlo a tutti i costi.<\/p>\n<p>Le difficolt\u00e0 ci insegnano questo.<em> Dovrei saperlo.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96794\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che consola una donna triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-comforting-sad-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When it starts getting scary, that\u2019s when you know it\u2019s worth fighting for. That is when you know you have something real.<\/p>\n<p><em>So I am begging you to stay with me. Let me be the mess that I am and help guide me to the place we both know I can get to. I feel like I\u2019m worth it and I know you feel it too.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I feel it every time you\u2019re near me. I feel it in your every kiss and your every embrace.<\/p>\n<p>When you kiss me, I feel the ground beneath me slipping away and it\u2019s as if I\u2019m on a cloud that is making me feel like the luckiest girl in the world.<\/p>\n<p>But at the same time, it\u2019s scary. I feel like I can fall at any time. It\u2019s like I\u2019m so happy and I know something is going to come and ruin it for me.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96796\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna abbracciata a un uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-woman-in-man-hug-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A questo punto ho bisogno che vi facciate avanti e mi dimostriate che la mia paranoia non \u00e8 reale.<\/p>\n<p>Che quando mi baci, fai sul serio e non hai intenzione di andartene.<\/p>\n<p>Ho bisogno di sentire che stai lottando per me quando comincio a scivolare via.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 accadr\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>At times, I will feel insecure. But with your love and guidance, I feel like the safest gal in the world. Just don\u2019t quit on me and I promise I will learn to give you my all.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96788\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Need-You-To-Choose-Me-And-Never-Stop-Fighting-For-Me-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ho bisogno che tu mi scelga e non smetta mai di lottare per me\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Need-You-To-Choose-Me-And-Never-Stop-Fighting-For-Me-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Need-You-To-Choose-Me-And-Never-Stop-Fighting-For-Me-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Need-You-To-Choose-Me-And-Never-Stop-Fighting-For-Me-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Through all of my past heartbreaks and misfortunes with love, I have (subconsciously) learned to put up a wall around my heart. A wall that is very hard to get through but once you do, you will see a glimpse of the girl from before all of the pain and suffering. The real me. Once&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":96799,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26553","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/I-Need-You-To-Choose-Me-And-Never-Stop-Fighting-For-Me.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26553","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26553"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26553\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96799"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26553"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26553"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26553"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}