{"id":26558,"date":"2020-09-24T06:52:12","date_gmt":"2020-09-24T06:52:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26558"},"modified":"2022-01-19T11:21:57","modified_gmt":"2022-01-19T11:21:57","slug":"non-ha-piu-bisogno-di-te-perche-le-hai-insegnato-a-stare-da-sola","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-ha-piu-bisogno-di-te-perche-le-hai-insegnato-a-stare-da-sola\/","title":{"rendered":"Non ha pi\u00f9 bisogno di te perch\u00e9 le hai insegnato come stare da sola"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Non sei pi\u00f9 la sua priorit\u00e0. Fattene una ragione. \u00c8 colpa tua, comunque. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>You are not the person she can count on when she needs support. You\u2019re not the man she can call in the middle of the night if she can\u2019t sleep or if she\u2019s anxious.<\/p>\n<p>L'averla ignorata e messa all'ultimo posto della lista ha avuto il suo peso. Il tuo comportamento, il tuo lato freddo e indifferente l'hanno allontanata.<\/p>\n<p><b>Le hai insegnato a non contare mai su di te.&nbsp;<\/b>You\u2019ve made sure that she will go through every moment in life, whether happy or bad, alone.<\/p>\n<p>But you weren\u2019t aware that you were doing her a favor. You had no idea that one day, she\u2019ll be so independent that she\u2019ll wonder what the hell she is doing with you.<\/p>\n<p>Ogni fase della vostra relazione, ogni ostacolo \u00e8 stato affrontato da sola. Le uniche persone con cui poteva parlare erano le sue amiche.<\/p>\n<p>So now, don\u2019t be surprised if her friends mean so much more than you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118330 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"gruppo di amici in spiaggia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/party-group-of-friends-on-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>You taught her you\u2019ll never be around.<\/b> She wasn\u2019t even bothered by the fact that she couldn\u2019t come to you or count on your help and support.<\/p>\n<p>It became so mundane. At first, it hurt, but after you pulled the same thing over and over again, she just didn\u2019t care anymore.<\/p>\n<p><em>Sapeva che l'unica persona su cui poteva contare era se stessa.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><b>Le hai insegnato che la sua voce non ha suono,<\/b> come in un brutto sogno. Gridava, ma non usciva nulla.<\/p>\n<p>You never heard a thing. You didn\u2019t want to hear a thing. It was so much easier to ignore her and let her deal any way she knows how.<\/p>\n<p><b>You taught her you don\u2019t care about her.<\/b> With every reckless move and every indifferent look, you\u2019ve shown her how selfish you are.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s okay to love yourself. But usually, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/da-uomo-a-donna-limportanza-di-amare-prima-di-tutto-se-stessi\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">amare se stessi<\/span><\/a> vi permette di amare gli altri ancora di pi\u00f9. Ma non nel vostro caso. Eri troppo egoista.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll move on without you. It\u2019s just a matter of time. <b>Le hai insegnato a fare progetti da sola.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118331 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"una donna determinata in camicia bianca si affaccia alla finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-determined-woman-in-a-white-shirt-stands-by-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Le avete insegnato a guardare al futuro senza di voi. Le avete insegnato a essere indipendente, ma non avevate idea che alla fine vi avrebbe escluso dalla sua vita.<\/p>\n<p>One day, she\u2019ll be sick of you. She won\u2019t think twice about leaving you.<\/p>\n<p>And you know what\u2019s going to happen? You\u2019ll stay miserable, and she\u2019ll know you miss her, but she won\u2019t give a fuck. <b>Lei le ha insegnato cos\u00ec.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be surprised if she goes no contact with you. Don\u2019t act like you haven\u2019t been ignoring her for as long as you were together.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be surprised if she doesn\u2019t want to have anything to do with you. <b>Le hai insegnato a essere egoista e a pensare solo a se stessa.<\/b> Lo hai fatto ogni singolo giorno.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 sempre stata quella che teneva la bocca chiusa e faceva tutto quello che volevi.<\/p>\n<p>She was always the one who walked around on eggshells just so you didn\u2019t get all worked up. She wanted you to be happy, and you couldn\u2019t care less how she felt.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be surprised if she changes. <b>Le hai insegnato solo a prendersi cura di se stessa.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118332 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"una bella bionda sorridente con una felpa gialla cammina per strada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/a-beautiful-smiling-blonde-in-a-yellow-sweatshirt-walks-down-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You did that to her day after day. She now knows it\u2019s alright to act like that.<\/p>\n<p><em>Don\u2019t be surprised if she turns to herself and becomes the person she was before she met you. Just a heads <\/em>up\u2014you\u2019re<em> non piacer\u00e0.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll open her eyes and see that you\u2019ve been treating her less than she deserves. She\u2019ll slowly realize that all she\u2019s ever been to you is your <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/la-verita-rifiuta-il-piano-di-riserva\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">piano di backup<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Slowly, she\u2019ll realize that she is completely invisible in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Prepare to be hurt. Prepare for her to treat you the same as you\u2019ve treated her.<\/p>\n<p>She\u2019ll look you in the eye, and she won\u2019t feel a thing. You\u2019re going to be a stranger she passes by and not the person she once was in love with.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t be surprised when she leaves. Don\u2019t be surprised <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ti-ha-perdonato-ma-non-vuole-avere-nulla-a-che-fare-con-te\/\">she doesn\u2019t need you<\/a> perch\u00e9 non hai mai fatto uno sforzo per tenerla.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-118333 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/She-Doesnt-Need-You-Anymore-Because-You-Taught-Her-How-To-Be-Alone-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Non ha pi\u00f9 bisogno di te perch\u00e9 le hai insegnato come stare da sola\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/She-Doesnt-Need-You-Anymore-Because-You-Taught-Her-How-To-Be-Alone-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/She-Doesnt-Need-You-Anymore-Because-You-Taught-Her-How-To-Be-Alone-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/She-Doesnt-Need-You-Anymore-Because-You-Taught-Her-How-To-Be-Alone-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/She-Doesnt-Need-You-Anymore-Because-You-Taught-Her-How-To-Be-Alone-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/She-Doesnt-Need-You-Anymore-Because-You-Taught-Her-How-To-Be-Alone-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019re not her priority anymore. Deal with it. It\u2019s your fault, anyway. You are not the person she can count on when she needs support. You\u2019re not the man she can call in the middle of the night if she can\u2019t sleep or if she\u2019s anxious. Your ignoring her and placing her last on the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":118329,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26558","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/She-Doesnt-Need-You-Anymore-Because-You-Taught-Her-How-To-Be-Alone-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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