{"id":26580,"date":"2021-01-02T08:01:45","date_gmt":"2021-01-02T08:01:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26580"},"modified":"2022-02-22T16:25:46","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T16:25:46","slug":"5-motivi-per-cui-le-donne-indipendenti-attraggono-gli-uomini-emotivamente-non-disponibili","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-motivi-per-cui-le-donne-indipendenti-attraggono-gli-uomini-emotivamente-non-disponibili\/","title":{"rendered":"5 motivi per cui le donne indipendenti attraggono uomini emotivamente non disponibili"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 sempre la stessa storia. Una donna bella e forte si innamora di un uomo che le d\u00e0 tutto, tranne la cosa pi\u00f9 importante: l'amore.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t need flowers, she doesn\u2019t need fancy things. All she needs is your attention and someone to love her.<\/p>\n

La storia si conclude con una rottura immediata o con il tentativo di prolungare qualcosa che \u00e8 destinato a fallire.<\/p>\n

In ogni caso, il cuore spezzato \u00e8 certo. La donna finir\u00e0 per piangere e cercare di ricomporsi.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll be angry with herself for falling for the tricks of an uomo emotivamente non disponibile<\/a>.<\/p>\n

To all those who are strong and in a happily ever after relationship, this is just BS. They can\u2019t accept that it\u2019s possible for such a man to choose such a woman.<\/p>\n

Ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che, uomini emotivamente non disponibili<\/a> don\u2019t choose strong women\u2014strong women choose them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9?<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Li vedono come convenienti<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Quando scelgono uomini emotivamente non disponibili, li scelgono per un motivo.<\/p>\n

And that is that as long as they are with them, they can rest assured that these men won\u2019t question their authority.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t do anything to compromise their power. These men don\u2019t have the guts to do it.<\/p>\n

They won\u2019t stand up to them and they won\u2019t question their decisions. They will go with the flow every time.<\/p>\n

Although this seems like an upside, it\u2019s not. Over time, although their authority is unquestionable, these women wish for their emotionally unavailable men to change.<\/p>\n

Vogliono che mostrino pi\u00f9 affetto, che dimostrino che ci tengono.<\/p>\n

Di solito questo non accade mai, ergo si ripete sempre la stessa storia con due possibili esiti.<\/p>\n

2. Pensano che questi uomini non siano rischiosi<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Cio\u00e8, con loro sono al sicuro. Non si faranno male, sono troppo forti per farlo.<\/p>\n

But what they don\u2019t see is that love sneaks up on them, blinds them and they end up getting hurt either way.<\/p>\n

Independent women promise themselves they won\u2019t become the girl who is waiting by the phone, waiting for him to call her back.<\/p>\n

They promise themselves they won\u2019t wait around or suffer for anyone.<\/p>\n

So they tend not to get too close to anyone. They\u2019ve all done this in the past and it didn’t end well. It ended with them getting terribly hurt.<\/p>\n

3. Anche se nel profondo vogliono sicurezza emotiva<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Nessuno di loro lo ammette perch\u00e9 sembra che siano deboli. Non c'\u00e8 nulla di debole nel voler essere amati.<\/p>\n

Ma di solito li fa sentire vulnerabili e quindi esposti al rischio di essere feriti.<\/p>\n

Nel profondo, le donne forti vogliono e hanno bisogno di compassione e amore incondizionato, ma scelgono uomini emotivamente non disponibili, uomini distanti e incapaci di mostrare ci\u00f2 che provano perch\u00e9 sembra pi\u00f9 sicuro per loro.<\/p>\n

It seems like they aren\u2019t getting hurt.<\/p>\n

4. Sanno che gli uomini emotivamente non disponibili manterranno le distanze<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Strong women are so good at pretending everything is okay. They will put on their \u2018I don\u2019t give a shit\u2019 face and keep calm when they are on the verge of breaking down.<\/p>\n

Costruiscono muri emotivi<\/a> intorno a loro per proteggersi.<\/p>\n

They treat this man the same way. They always have a serious face on because that way the man won\u2019t get close to her. He will keep his distance.<\/p>\n

E per mantenere viva la relazione, di tanto in tanto si concedono un sorriso o un appuntamento galante. Solo per far andare avanti le cose.<\/p>\n

5. Li scelgono perch\u00e9 \u00e8 pi\u00f9 facile<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Apprezzano la loro capacit\u00e0 di tenere tutto sotto controllo. E se la solitudine \u00e8 il prezzo da pagare, accettano l'accordo.<\/p>\n

They choose these men because they know they won\u2019t get emotionally involved and they won\u2019t question their abilities or their authority.<\/p>\n

Per una donna forte non c'\u00e8 niente di peggio che scendere a compromessi, lasciare che il partner veda il suo lato vulnerabile e prendere decisioni reciproche.<\/p>\n

The only people they trust is themselves. So the ideal choice for a relationship is a man who won\u2019t get involved too much. Because he doesn\u2019t care.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, the heart makes its own decisions and their mind gets overwhelmed with questions like: \u201cWhat if he hurts me?\u201d, \u201cWhat if I let him love me and he doesn\u2019t know how?\u201d, \u201cwhat if he tries to manipulate me?\u201d<\/p>\n

Si metteranno in discussione, ma alla fine non si arrenderanno mai. Non permetteranno mai a nessuno di compromettere la loro libert\u00e0 o indipendenza.<\/p>\n

Underneath it all, they are so scared to lose what it took them so long to build. That\u2019s why women choose emotionally unavailable men. Because they choose to.<\/p>\n

\"5<\/p>\n

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