{"id":26585,"date":"2020-03-20T08:10:40","date_gmt":"2020-03-20T08:10:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26585"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:18:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:18:40","slug":"accettando-di-aver-finito","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/accettando-di-aver-finito\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c8 cos\u00ec che ho capito che avevamo finito"},"content":{"rendered":"

I held onto my foolish hopes about us for as long as I could. Regardless of everything, I\u2019ve always been the perpetual optimist when it comes to romance, and you are no exception.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mi aspetto sempre il meglio, anche quando l'evidenza che non \u00e8 cos\u00ec mi si presenta davanti agli occhi scoraggiati.<\/span><\/p>\n

Cosa posso dire? <\/span>I\u2019m a sucker for love. <\/b>Ho trovato tutte le scuse possibili per non perdere i contatti con te. <\/b><\/p>\n

Anche se non ci fosse assolutamente alcun motivo per comunicare, mi inventerei qualcosa, solo per poter continuare a sentire la tua presenza nella mia vita, in qualsiasi modo.<\/b><\/p>\n

Mi sono rifiutato di ammettere a me stesso che a quel punto mi avevi gi\u00e0 tagliato fuori dalla tua vita.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ci sono voluti molti <\/span>rabbia<\/span><\/a> and resentment on my part to accept the fact we were done. While I was trying to salvage what I believed was left of us, what I failed to see was that there was no \u2018us\u2019 left. <\/span><\/p>\n

It was just me and my desperate attempts to get us back to what we were, but hadn\u2019t been for a long time.<\/span><\/p>\n

I was so foolishly trying to make us overcome the obstacles that came our way that I didn\u2019t see you had already moved on. That was the final nail in the coffin for me. <\/span><\/p>\n

In quel momento ho capito ci\u00f2 che avevo avuto paura di ammettere a me stessa. <\/span>Era finita da un pezzo e tu mi avevi gi\u00e0 sostituito con un'altra persona.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u00c8 stato un brusco risveglio per me. Ho dovuto abbandonare la fantasia che tu provassi ancora dei sentimenti per me come io li provavo per te.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ero ancora cos\u00ec innamorato di te che vederti con un'altra persona era come un pugnale che mi veniva conficcato nel petto ripetutamente.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

All'epoca \u00e8 stato doloroso, ma oggi vedo che \u00e8 stato necessario per me perdere definitivamente l'idea di te nel mio futuro. <\/span>You didn\u2019t belong there anymore.<\/b><\/p>\n

And as much as it pained me to say, I thank God I saw you with her. I don\u2019t know if I would\u2019ve been able to pull through otherwise.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quella fu l'ultima volta che ebbi un contatto con te. Fu allora che decisi che era<\/span> abbastanza.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

A quel punto, ero l'unica che si stava causando dolore e infelicit\u00e0. Ero l'unica a negare a me stessa il processo di guarigione di cui avevo disperatamente bisogno.<\/b><\/p>\n

So, I finally took responsibility for my actions. I could no longer go on like that and be blaming you when I was the only one not moving on, still hung up on an old love who hadn\u2019t been in my life for months.<\/span><\/p>\n

I have to admit, even though I consciously decided I wouldn\u2019t contact you ever again, I still kept track of your new love life.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Avevo bisogno di sapere com'era e cosa c'era in lei che ti faceva dimenticare cos\u00ec facilmente di me.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Ma poi ho capito. Finch\u00e9 continuavo a prestarle attenzione con qualsiasi pensiero, non mi permettevo di andare avanti.<\/span><\/p>\n

Era evidente che eri andato avanti, era ora che ti cancellassi completamente dalla mia lista e non ti pensassi pi\u00f9.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ho fatto un male cane, ma l'ho fatto. Ho smesso di seguire la tua vita. <\/b>Ho smesso di chiedere di te agli amici comuni. <\/b><\/p>\n

Ho deciso di dimenticare la tua esistenza. Ed \u00e8 stata la decisione migliore che abbia mai preso.<\/b><\/p>\n

I know that our relationship was real. We had some good times. I\u2019m never going to <\/span>rammarico<\/span><\/a> qualsiasi cosa. <\/span>Credo che abbiamo fatto il nostro corso.<\/b> Si trattava solo di accettarlo. <\/span><\/p>\n

It took me a little longer than I would\u2019ve liked but here I am. Ready to get hurt again.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Sono uscito dalla buca che mi ero cos\u00ec inopportunamente scavato. Riesco a intravedere di nuovo la luce brillante. <\/span><\/p>\n

And most importantly, I accept that we weren\u2019t meant to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not the woman you were supposed to spend your forever with and now I can finally say it out loud and not break into a million pieces. I\u2019m finally okay.<\/span><\/p>\n

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