{"id":26592,"date":"2020-03-24T08:43:16","date_gmt":"2020-03-24T08:43:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26592"},"modified":"2022-04-26T13:27:03","modified_gmt":"2022-04-26T13:27:03","slug":"5-motivi-piu-comuni-per-cui-i-ragazzi-diventano-improvvisamente-distanti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-motivi-piu-comuni-per-cui-i-ragazzi-diventano-improvvisamente-distanti\/","title":{"rendered":"5 ragioni pi\u00f9 comuni per cui i ragazzi diventano improvvisamente distanti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Solo un mese fa eravate la coppia pi\u00f9 felice del mondo e tutti i vostri amici erano gelosi dell'uomo fantastico che avevate.<\/p>\n<p>Faceva sempre in modo di sorprenderti con piccoli gesti per dimostrarti quanto ci tenesse a te.<\/p>\n<p>Or you\u2019ve just been on a few dates and you two seem like the perfect match. He keeps calling you, keeps initiating conversations and you think everything is going to plan\u2026<\/p>\n<p><b>E all'improvviso si sente che qualcosa \u00e8 cambiato.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s no longer the same person you used to know. He becomes <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/men-get-distant-want\/\"> distante <\/a> in every sense of its meaning and you start questioning yourself, thinking that you\u2019re the reason for such behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Avete paura che vi ignori se cercate di parlargli. Non avete idea di cosa fare o a chi chiedere consiglio.<\/p>\n<p>Ecco alcune delle ragioni pi\u00f9 comuni del suo comportamento distante che possono aiutarvi a capire cosa sta succedendo esattamente nella sua testa.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">He is going through something stressful (but doesn\u2019t want to talk to you about it)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75328\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-man-sitting-alone.jpg\" alt=\"uomo preoccupato seduto da solo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-man-sitting-alone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-man-sitting-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-man-sitting-alone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nella maggior parte dei casi, il fatto che lui diventi distante \u00e8 legato a una situazione di stress sul lavoro, in famiglia o simili. Gli uomini pensano di non poter parlare di situazioni stressanti.<\/p>\n<p>They think that they have to deal with it on their own because if they don\u2019t, they\u2019re not <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/i-veri-uomini-proteggono-le-loro-donne-non-le-maltrattano\/\"> uomini veri <\/a> .<\/p>\n<p>Non riescono a sopportare il fatto di non avere il controllo della propria vita.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 il motivo per cui scelgono di nascondersi nella loro caverna maschile fino a quando non trovano una soluzione per quel problema specifico. Per quanto possiate cercare di entrare, non vi lasceranno entrare.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, se vi dice che si tratta del suo lavoro o di qualcos'altro, l'unica cosa che potete fare \u00e8 aspettare che trovi una soluzione e fargli capire che lo capite.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ha bisogno di un po' di tempo per s\u00e9<b><\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75329\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-watching-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che guarda il tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-watching-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-watching-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-watching-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>No matter how madly in love you guys are, we all need some time for ourself. If he\u2019s acting like he no longer enjoys your company, you may suspect that it is because he needs some time and space in order to recharge himself.<\/p>\n<p>This has nothing to do with his love for you. It is completely normal and you shouldn\u2019t be concerned that he no longer enjoys your company.<\/p>\n<p>Lasciatelo stare per un po' di tempo e ditegli che va bene se ha bisogno di un po' di tempo per s\u00e9.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pensi che possa essere geloso?<b><\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75330\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-man-sitting-on-bed-while-woman-sleeping.jpg\" alt=\"uomo preoccupato seduto sul letto mentre la donna dorme\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-man-sitting-on-bed-while-woman-sleeping.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-man-sitting-on-bed-while-woman-sleeping-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-man-sitting-on-bed-while-woman-sleeping-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Is he constantly questioning you when you tell him that you\u2019re going out?<\/p>\n<p>Do you have the feeling that he\u2019s acting strangely when you start talking to other guys or when you mention them? Is he trying too hard to impress you?<\/p>\n<p>Se la risposta \u00e8 s\u00ec, il motivo per cui <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-distante-ma-continua-a-mandare-messaggi\/\">il suo essere distante<\/a> potrebbe essere la gelosia.<\/p>\n<p>If you know that you didn\u2019t do anything to make him feel this way, try simply asking him whether jealousy is the reason for him being distant.<\/p>\n<p>If his answer is yes, ask him to explain it to you and reassure him that there\u2019s no reason for him to feel that way.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Commitment, commitment\u2026<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75331\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-man-in-deep-thoughts-while-woman-sleeping.jpg\" alt=\"Uomo preoccupato e pensieroso mentre la donna dorme\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-man-in-deep-thoughts-while-woman-sleeping.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-man-in-deep-thoughts-while-woman-sleeping-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-man-in-deep-thoughts-while-woman-sleeping-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ti sta inviando segnali contrastanti?<\/p>\n<p>Have you just started dating and you have the feeling that one day he is being awesome while the next day he\u2019s the complete opposite?<\/p>\n<p>Men tend to do this when they\u2019re afraid of commitment. He likes you, he thinks you\u2019re funny and special but he\u2019s still afraid of commitment.<\/p>\n<p><b>Perch\u00e9 avrebbe dovuto fare una cosa del genere a qualcuno che gli piace?<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Nella vita gli uomini hanno paura di due cose: la morte e l'impegno. Nella loro mente, impegnarsi significa rinunciare alla propria libert\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>In order for them to \u2018give up their freedom\u2019, they have to be one hundred percent sure that they\u2019re going to be happy with their choice.<\/p>\n<p>If a man is not sure that he\u2019ll be happy with you, he will have second thoughts about entering into a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>All you can do is make sure that you\u2019re not pushing him and that you\u2019ve left him enough space to make a wise decision on his own.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vuole rompere con te?<b><\/b><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75332\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-man-laying-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"uomo preoccupato sdraiato a letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-man-laying-in-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-man-laying-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-man-laying-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Is he ignoring you lately, to the extent that you don\u2019t remember the last time you had a productive conversation? Is he the one initiating all the fights?<\/p>\n<p>Sta trascurando completamente voi e i vostri desideri? Vi sta mentendo?<\/p>\n<p>Ti sta tradendo?<\/p>\n<p>The chances are that he wants to break up with you. Perhaps the passion you once had is gone and he doesn\u2019t know how to revive it.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps he\u2019s cheating on you and by ignoring you he\u2019s subconsciously pushing you away from him because he knows that he\u2019s the one to blame.<\/p>\n<p>In questo caso, la cosa pi\u00f9 intelligente da fare sarebbe semplicemente chiederglielo: <i> Puoi dirmi per favore cosa diavolo ti sta succedendo?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-75326\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/5-Most-Common-Reasons-Why-Guys-Become-Distant-All-Of-A-Sudden-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 ragioni pi\u00f9 comuni per cui i ragazzi diventano improvvisamente distanti\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/5-Most-Common-Reasons-Why-Guys-Become-Distant-All-Of-A-Sudden-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/5-Most-Common-Reasons-Why-Guys-Become-Distant-All-Of-A-Sudden-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/5-Most-Common-Reasons-Why-Guys-Become-Distant-All-Of-A-Sudden-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Only a month ago, you were the happiest couple in the world and all of your friends were jealous of such a great man that you had. He would always make sure to surprise you with small gestures to show how much he cared about you. Or you\u2019ve just been on a few dates and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":75333,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26592","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/5-Most-Common-Reasons-Why-Guys-Become-Distant-All-Of-A-Sudden.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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