{"id":26614,"date":"2018-10-24T09:51:28","date_gmt":"2018-10-24T09:51:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26614"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:50:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:50:17","slug":"8-cose-di-cui-ti-rendi-conto-quando-esci-di-nuovo-con-il-tuo-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-cose-di-cui-ti-rendi-conto-quando-esci-di-nuovo-con-il-tuo-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"8 cose di cui si diventa consapevoli quando si esce di nuovo con il proprio ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c8 una buona idea uscire di nuovo con il proprio ex? In 9 casi su 10 direi di no. Ma ci sono sempre delle eccezioni alla regola.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes people are too immature and unprepared for a relationship. Sometimes there are so many \u2018what-ifs\u2019 left between two people that they crave one more chance.<\/p>\n<p>A volte l'amore \u00e8 ancora vivo nonostante tutto. In quei momenti, le persone decidono di fare un altro tentativo.<\/p>\n<p>A volte le persone sono disposte a rischiare di essere ferite di nuovo perch\u00e9 provano ancora sentimenti troppo profondi. A volte ce la fanno contro ogni previsione.<\/p>\n<p>Uscire di nuovo con il proprio ex pu\u00f2 essere un'esperienza agrodolce. Ci sono alcune cose di cui ci si rende conto quando si decide di fare questo salto di qualit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Il dolore cambia le persone<\/h2>\n<p>Una volta che il cuore \u00e8 spezzato, non pu\u00f2 pi\u00f9 essere come prima. Ora sei una persona diversa. Hai imparato molto e sei diventato pi\u00f9 forte.<\/p>\n<p>Dating your ex again will be a way of getting to know each other all over again. Don\u2019t fool yourself into thinking you will pick up where you left off, and everything will be the same.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Il sentimento di familiarit\u00e0 sar\u00e0 molto presente<\/h2>\n<p>Even though you\u2019ve both changed, everything will feel familiar. You will know stuff about each other such as your likes and dislikes.<\/p>\n<p>You have a history together that can be both a positive and negative thing for you\u2014positive because you will feel comfortable around that person; negative because in the back of your mind, you will fear that the same bad things will happen all over again.<\/p>\n<h2>3. You can\u2019t undo the damage that was already done<\/h2>\n<p>Avevate un motivo per cui vi siete lasciati e questo vi ha lasciato l'amaro in bocca. Potreste ritrovarvi <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/alla-ragazza-con-problemi-di-fiducia-non-tutti-gli-uomini-sono-uguali\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">diffidente<\/span><\/a> and fearing that the same things will happen again even though you\u2019ve both changed.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t leave the past in the past and forgive all that has been, there are slim chances you will make it this second time around.<\/p>\n<h2>4. I vostri cari potrebbero non essere d'accordo con la vostra riconciliazione.<\/h2>\n<p>Don\u2019t blame them; they are just worried. They have been with you through your breakup, and they don\u2019t want to see you hurt again.<\/p>\n<p>They wiped away your tears. They listened to you. They were there for you to lean on, and it\u2019s only natural that they are distrustful of your partner.<\/p>\n<p>Vogliono che siate felici. Fate capire loro che siete ben consapevoli del rischio e che apprezzate il loro amore e la loro preoccupazione.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Alcune cose avranno finalmente pi\u00f9 senso<\/h2>\n<p>La maggior parte delle rotture avviene senza una chiusura, e ci sono milioni di domande nella vostra testa che rimangono senza risposta.<\/p>\n<p>Ora avete la possibilit\u00e0 di parlarne, di capire come si sentiva il vostro ex e perch\u00e9 ha fatto le cose che ha fatto.<\/p>\n<p>Just be careful\u2014talking about your past is not good for your future. That\u2019s why that talk should be limited to one or two conversations at the most.<\/p>\n<p>If you keep rubbing the past up their noses and constantly making them feel guilty, you will always be stuck, and your relationship won\u2019t be able to move forward.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Cose nuove per un nuovo inizio<\/h2>\n<p>You have an opportunity to start fresh here, so don\u2019t go back to your old patterns. Be more open and ready to communicate. Be more creative with how you spend your days.<\/p>\n<p>There are always new things to do and new places to see. Don\u2019t fall back into the rut you left behind. Try harder this time. Both of you.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Sono pi\u00f9 maturi ora<\/h2>\n<p>Assuming that you haven\u2019t given a chance to someone who was manipulative, narcissistic, toxic or in any way abusive, you probably were with someone who was not ready for a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>L'impegno \u00e8 la parola che li fa infuriare. Mancavano di sforzi e investimenti. Non c'erano mai quando ne avevi bisogno. In pratica, erano solo a met\u00e0 strada.<\/p>\n<p>They are all in now, and you can clearly feel the difference. They call and text regularly. You don\u2019t have to beg for their time or affection. Everything flows freely.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Hanno finalmente imparato a stimarvi<\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s like some kind of curse in people that they don\u2019t see someone&#8217;s value in their life until they lose them. It was probably a long time coming, but they finally see your worth.<\/p>\n<p>Sarete in grado di vedere che si sono veramente pentiti delle loro azioni. La seconda volta si impegner\u00e0 di pi\u00f9 perch\u00e9 vorr\u00e0 rimediare a tutti i torti subiti e vi far\u00e0 sentire al sicuro.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-26617 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-13-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"8 cose di cui si diventa consapevoli quando si esce di nuovo con il proprio ex\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-13-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-13-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-13.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is it a good idea to date your ex again? In 9 out of 10 cases, I would say NO. But there are always exceptions to the rule. Sometimes people are too immature and unprepared for a relationship. Sometimes there are so many \u2018what-ifs\u2019 left between two people that they crave one more chance. 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