{"id":26646,"date":"2018-10-25T06:36:10","date_gmt":"2018-10-25T06:36:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26646"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:49:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:49:40","slug":"e-cosi-che-ho-imparato-a-seguire-la-testa-invece-del-cuore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-cosi-che-ho-imparato-a-seguire-la-testa-invece-del-cuore\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco come ho imparato a seguire la testa invece del cuore"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s an everlasting debate: Devo seguire la mia testa questa volta o il mio cuore (chiss\u00e0 per quante volte spezzato)?<\/em> Se ci affidiamo troppo al nostro cuore, esso potrebbe influenzarci a prendere decisioni impulsive che potrebbero portare a gravi conseguenze.<\/p>\n

Di recente ho incontrato un affascinante sconosciuto al bar. Ci siamo scambiati i numeri e abbiamo continuato a mandarci messaggi nei giorni successivi. A prima vista, ho capito che c'era qualcosa di sospetto in lui.<\/p>\n

Con i suoi capelli neri e disordinati e i tatuaggi sulle braccia, aveva l'aspetto di un cattivo ragazzo (un vero cattivo ragazzo).fxv<\/p>\n

Ma i suoi occhi nocciola avevano quella scintilla che me lo diceva: I\u2019m just an innocent boy. I will never do you any harm.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ha reso il suo lato negativo cos\u00ec incredibilmente attraente<\/span> to me that I couldn\u2019t even think reasonably with my head. I instantly fell for him with my heart.<\/p>\n

Although I knew he was bad, I didn\u2019t let my mind interfere. I just wanted to feel carefree because I was sick of overthinking.<\/p>\n

Volevo solo seguire il mio cuore.<\/p>\n

Two weeks later I received a call. My friend told me that she saw him in a hospital. She told me that he OD\u2019ed. I immediately went there only to realize that his WIFE was there with her 3-year-old kid.<\/p>\n

Corsi fuori, rimanendo immobile per l'incredulit\u00e0. In quel momento capii che avrei dovuto seguire la testa invece del cuore.<\/p>\n

Ma almeno altri potranno imparare dai miei errori.<\/p>\n

Ecco il mio elenco di motivi perch\u00e9 seguire la testa invece del cuore:<\/b>
\n<\/b><\/p>\n

1. Siete pi\u00f9 ragionevoli<\/h2>\n

When you follow your head, you\u2019re more likely to think reasonably and not impulsively. You will weigh all the pros and cons of your decision.<\/p>\n

I know it kills all the joy, but that way, you don\u2019t have to be afraid or insecure about the outcome of your decision. You have to learn to divide reason from your feelings, so that you can switch whenever you want to.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard, but once you master it, you will be amazed how much this strategy helps.<\/p>\n

2. Si vedono pi\u00f9 chiaramente i suoi lati negativi e positivi<\/h2>\n

When you\u2019re thinking with your head instead of your heart, you\u2019ll more easily make a distinction between his good and bad sides. For example, if you know he\u2019s bad, you will not find excuses for such behavior.<\/p>\n

Your head will tell you to step away and think about your next move. You\u2019ll like him as a whole person and will not have second guesses about his bad side.<\/p>\n

That way, the bond will have more solid foundation, and it won\u2019t be that easy to destroy it.<\/p>\n

\"Ecco<\/p>\n

3. It\u2019s easier to evaluate the situation (when you\u2019re about to breakup with him)<\/h2>\n

When you\u2019re in doubt whether to breakup or not, your head will tell you one thing and your heart another. If you listen to your head, you\u2019ll evaluate the situation more easily.<\/p>\n

You will have a better insight into everything that happened. You will not have a guilty conscience about breaking up with him because you will be one hundred percent sure that you\u2019re doing the right thing for yourself.<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019re more stress-free<\/h2>\n

When you follow your head, if he tells you something insulting or hurts you one way or another, you will not take it too seriously. You will be more stress-free, and you won\u2019t give a shit about what others think of you.<\/p>\n

Essere pi\u00f9 liberi dallo stress aiuta ad essere pi\u00f9 produttivi nella vita quotidiana. Cos\u00ec, quando laverete i piatti, non penserete alle cose poco carine che vi ha detto in effetti.<\/p>\n

Le cose brutte non si attaccheranno al cuore perch\u00e9 la mente le mander\u00e0 subito via.<\/p>\n

Quando qualcosa si attacca al cuore, \u00e8 davvero difficile liberarsene.<\/p>\n

Your heart has to digest every single thought that is going on in your head. That\u2019s why you should be gentle with your heart.<\/p>\n

5. Lower chances that you\u2019ll end up with a broken heart<\/h2>\n

Se seguite la vostra testa e tutte le indicazioni di cui sopra, diminuirete le probabilit\u00e0 di ritrovarvi con un cuore spezzato<\/span><\/a>. Quando si ama qualcuno con la testa, si vedono le cose come sono.<\/p>\n

But, when you love someone with your heart, you\u2019re blinded. The phrase Love is blind exists for a reason.<\/p>\n

L'amore \u00e8 cieco quando si ama con il cuore. Ma quando il cuore si stanca di essere spezzato, si impara ad amare con la mente.<\/p>\n

\"Ecco<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s an everlasting debate: Should I follow my head this time or my (who knows for how many times broken) heart? If we rely too much on our heart, it could influence us to make impulsive decisions that may lead to serious consequences. I recently met a handsome stranger in the bar. We exchanged numbers…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":26647,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26646","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/kyle-frederick-1116004-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26646","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26646"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26646\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26647"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26646"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26646"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26646"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}