{"id":26650,"date":"2018-10-25T06:46:08","date_gmt":"2018-10-25T06:46:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26650"},"modified":"2022-01-24T15:40:04","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T15:40:04","slug":"non-tornare-al-tuo-vecchio-amore-sai-gia-come-va-a-finire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-tornare-al-tuo-vecchio-amore-sai-gia-come-va-a-finire\/","title":{"rendered":"Non tornate al vostro vecchio amore: sapete gi\u00e0 come finisce"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vi manca. So che \u00e8 cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

Vi manca il suo sorriso carino e fanciullesco e il modo in cui sorrideva adorabilmente da un orecchio all'altro quando cercavate di rimanere arrabbiati con lui per avervi infastidito con qualcosa che ora vi sembra cos\u00ec ridicolo.<\/p>\n

Vi mancano quei piccoli e preziosi momenti con lui, dopo una lunga giornata, e lui che vi illuminava appena entravate in casa. Vi manca il fatto che il solo pensiero di lui che vi aspettava su quel divano vi rendeva cos\u00ec felici.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s all those small things that you may have taken for granted at the time, but that now make you feel so empty and hollow. You feel like there is a genuine part missing from yourself, and you don\u2019t know how to fill that void that is churning in your chest.<\/p>\n

E you\u2019re sick and tired of feeling this way<\/a>. \u00c8 sufficiente che si fermi.<\/p>\n

Let me tell you something. The thing you miss the most is not HIM. It\u2019s how you felt when you knew you had him around. But remember this. You broke up for a reason. A good reason. You just need to remind yourself of all the ways he made you feel insufficient and inadequate and stop idealizing him in your head. If it were REALLY that good, don\u2019t you think you would still be together?<\/b><\/p>\n

Avete fatto del vostro meglio. Avete fatto tutto quello che potevate per salvare la vostra relazione, e alla fine.., your best just wasn\u2019t enough<\/a> pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t beat yourself up now that the story has come to an end. There is nothing left to be written. Let it go; give yourself a chance to heal.<\/p>\n

Quando ti viene voglia di mandargli un messaggio, please don\u2019t<\/b>.<\/span> When you feel yourself wanting to talk to him, call your bestie instead! But whatever you do, don\u2019t give him so much space in your head and your heart.<\/p>\n

Il suo posto non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 l\u00ec<\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Questa attuale sensazione di fragilit\u00e0 non durer\u00e0 per sempre. Questo \u00e8 solo il modo in cui vi sentite in questo momento. \u00c8 assolutamente comprensibile, ma dovete sapere che passer\u00e0. Avete appena perso qualcosa che era parte integrante della vostra vita e dovete darvi il tempo di imparare a vivere senza.<\/p>\n

It is insane to think that going back to him would change anything. Don\u2019t be tempted. He is still the same person that made you feel so shitty at times. He\u2019s still the same person who couldn\u2019t find the time for you when you needed him the most! And he is still the person who didn\u2019t FIGHT for you when your relationship was going to hell. It was all you and your effort.<\/b><\/p>\n

Aren\u2019t you tired of always being the only one giving it your all?<\/p>\n

It is normal to miss him sometimes. After all, you spent a significant amount of life together. You were so used to having him by your side that now you just don\u2019t know how to function any other way.<\/p>\n

But don\u2019t live in the past. It\u2019s there for a reason. For as long as you keep clinging onto that tiny glimmer of hope that things MIGHT get better someday and that he might change, you will be doing yourself a huge disservice by not allowing yourself to live your life in the present, e rivivere continuamente momenti del passato, momenti che in realt\u00e0 sono solo <\/b>punti salienti<\/i><\/b> di una relazione che non aveva pi\u00f9 senso.<\/b><\/p>\n

Tesoro, tu meriti molto di pi\u00f9 di quello che lui potrebbe mai offrirti! Meriti di vivere la tua vita ORA e di trovare la tua felicit\u00e0 nel tuo presente.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t deserve to have you still hung up on him when there are so many guys out there that could be your ONE.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let memories of your past diminish the light that you deserve in your present.<\/p>\n

Il futuro pu\u00f2 essere cos\u00ec luminoso. Basta lasciarlo risplendere di nuovo.<\/p>\n

Lui \u00e8 il vostro passato. Lasciatelo l\u00ec!<\/p>\n

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You miss him. I know you do. You miss his cute, boyish smile and the way he would adorably grin from ear to ear when you would try and stay mad at him for annoying you with something that seems so ridiculous now. You miss those precious, little moments with him, after having had a…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":26651,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26650","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/alicia-petresc-1115833-unsplash.jpg",800,535,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26650","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26650"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26650\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26651"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26650"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26650"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26650"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}