{"id":26717,"date":"2019-10-25T11:27:22","date_gmt":"2019-10-25T11:27:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26717"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:20:48","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:20:48","slug":"ti-ha-perdonato-ma-non-vuole-avere-nulla-a-che-fare-con-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/ti-ha-perdonato-ma-non-vuole-avere-nulla-a-che-fare-con-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Ti ha perdonato ma non vuole avere niente a che fare con te"},"content":{"rendered":"

Non avrebbe mai pensato di <\/span>trovare la forza di perdonarti<\/span><\/a> for all the hell you\u2019ve put her through. She never thought she would be able to forgive you for all the harm you\u2019ve done to her. <\/span><\/p>\n

Non avrebbe mai immaginato di poterti perdonare per tutte le lacrime che ha pianto per te. Per il modo in cui l'hai trattata o per come l'hai fatta sentire.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ma eccola qui, a fare esattamente questo. <\/span>Yes, that\u2019s right\u2014you\u2019ve heard it well. This is her forgiving you.<\/b><\/p>\n

But she isn\u2019t doing it for your sake. No, the only person she is doing it for is herself.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quando hai lasciato questa ragazza, hai lasciato anche tutta la tua negativit\u00e0. \u00c8 stato come se avessi trasferito su di lei tutta la tua tossicit\u00e0 e il tuo pessimismo.<\/span><\/p>\n

After you left, anger and resentment started to consume her completely. She was pissed and furious at you for everything you\u2019d done.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 a cui riusciva a pensare erano i modi per <\/span>vendicarsi dolcemente di te<\/span><\/a> perch\u00e9 pensava che questo fosse l'unico modo per ritrovare la pace. <\/span><\/p>\n

Voleva vendicarsi di te e voleva che tu ti sentissi come si sentiva lei, perch\u00e9 pensava che fosse l'unico modo per guarire il suo cuore e il suo ego spezzati.<\/span><\/p>\n

But then, it hit her. She had become a prisoner of her hatred toward you. And you still had power over her, even though you were gone. You were still a huge part of her life, even though you weren\u2019t physically present in it.<\/b><\/p>\n

She realized that she had become everything she swore she\u2019d never be. Her hatred and anger made her become a bitter, negative and toxic person. Her negative emotions caged her and didn\u2019t let her be free.<\/span><\/p>\n

She realized that she was actually holding on to you as long as she was holding grudges. And that is why she finally let you go, together with all the bitterness and pessimism you\u2019d left behind.<\/b><\/p>\n

She decided it was time for her to forgive you because you didn\u2019t deserve to still have an impact on her. You weren\u2019t that important for her to dedicate her time or energy to hating you.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Ti<\/p>\n

Ti ha perdonato perch\u00e9 ha finalmente accettato tutto quello che era successo. Ha accettato che non avrebbe mai potuto fare nulla per renderti diverso e che le cose dovevano semplicemente essere come erano.<\/span><\/p>\n

Decise che era giunto il momento di accettare le scuse che non aveva mai ricevuto perch\u00e9 era l'unica cosa che l'avrebbe resa libera. Perch\u00e9 era l'unico modo per andare avanti con la sua vita e perch\u00e9 tu ne fossi davvero fuori.<\/span><\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean that her forgiveness is an invitation back into her life. Because it is anything but that. <\/b><\/p>\n

Yes, she forgave you but she still doesn\u2019t want anything to do with you.<\/b><\/p>\n

The truth is that she forgave you but she definitely didn\u2019t forget about everything you did to her. <\/b>By forgiving you, she is letting go of you but it doesn\u2019t mean that she is approving your actions or sending you the message that you didn\u2019t do anything wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n

Solo perch\u00e9 ha un cuore gentile e perch\u00e9 <\/span>lei \u00e8 indulgente<\/span><\/a>, it doesn\u2019t mean she is stupid. It doesn\u2019t mean that she doesn\u2019t see you for who you really are and it doesn\u2019t mean she thinks of you in any better way than she did before. <\/span><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that she hasn\u2019t learned her lesson and it definitely doesn\u2019t mean she is ready to repeat her mistakes.<\/b><\/p>\n

By forgiving you, she isn\u2019t giving you another chance to screw her up once more or to break her heart again. She isn\u2019t giving you a green light or an opportunity to finish her off.<\/span><\/p>\n

Instead, she is giving herself another chance to rise from the ashes you\u2019ve put her in. She is giving herself a chance to completely move on from you and from all the pain you\u2019ve made her experience. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si sta dando la possibilit\u00e0 di ricominciare da capo e di avere un futuro senza di te.<\/b> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

She never thought she would find the strength to forgive you for all the hell you\u2019ve put her through. She never thought she would be able to forgive you for all the harm you\u2019ve done to her. She never imagined that she could forgive you for all the tears she cried for you. For the…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":26718,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26717","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/megan-te-boekhorst-1116023-unsplash-6.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26717","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26717"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26717\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26718"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26717"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26717"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26717"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}