{"id":26762,"date":"2020-04-26T09:33:43","date_gmt":"2020-04-26T09:33:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26762"},"modified":"2022-06-21T00:00:35","modified_gmt":"2022-06-21T00:00:35","slug":"questo-e-il-vero-significato-dellessere-spezzati-perche-e-piu-di-un-colpo-al-cuore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/questo-e-il-vero-significato-dellessere-spezzati-perche-e-piu-di-un-colpo-al-cuore\/","title":{"rendered":"Ecco cosa significa davvero essere spezzati (perch\u00e9 \u00e8 molto di pi\u00f9 di un dolore al cuore)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Le rotture di cuore sono un disastro emotivo e un dolore immenso, ma essere spezzati \u00e8 ancora peggio.<\/p>\n<p>Essere spezzati significa avere l'anima a pezzi, la fiducia persa e i sogni inesistenti.<\/p>\n<p>Essere distrutti significa perdere la voglia di vivere. Significa non riuscire ad alzarsi dal letto perch\u00e9 non se ne vede l'utilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Essere distrutti significa pensare che non si sar\u00e0 mai in grado di rimettersi insieme. Si crede di essere danneggiati in modo irreparabile.<\/p>\n<p>Il vostro spirito \u00e8 distrutto e non avete forza di volont\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ogni giorno che trascorrete con qualcuno che vi maltratta emotivamente, vi spezzate un po' alla volta. Purtroppo lo so troppo bene.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84207\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-sitting-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Non siete consapevoli di amare qualcuno che non \u00e8 degno di essere amato, qualcuno che abusa della vostra buona natura, qualcuno che trova facile manipolarvi perch\u00e9 \u00e8 consapevole di quanto siano forti i vostri sentimenti per lui.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>How could I be so blind? Why didn\u2019t I see all the red flags waving in front of my face?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Era quasi come se mi avessero fatto il lavaggio del cervello. E ora che ci penso, probabilmente lo ero. Con tutti i giochi mentali che mi faceva, non riuscivo a ragionare.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>La cosa peggiore \u00e8 che lo amavo. L'ho amato con tutta me stessa, anche quando ho visto quello che mi stava facendo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i> Ho abbellito la verit\u00e0. Ho continuato a mentire a me stessa che non era poi cos\u00ec male.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84208\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"donna preoccupata seduta alla finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-sitting-by-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-sitting-by-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-sitting-by-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Che sarebbe cambiato. Che dovevo solo essere paziente e aspettare che si rendesse conto di quanto impegno stavo mettendo nella relazione.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Volevo cambiarlo. Volevo tanto cambiarlo. Ma le persone come lui non cambiano mai, peggiorano soltanto. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Staying by his side too long made me broken and believe me when I say that is more than a heartbreak. It\u2019s the worst thing that can happen to you emotionally.<\/p>\n<p><b>Si perde il controllo sulla propria vita.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You become unable to function properly. It\u2019s like you are looking at your life from afar but you are not actively participating in it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84209\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-staring-at-one-point.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste che fissa un punto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-staring-at-one-point.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-staring-at-one-point-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-staring-at-one-point-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t maintain your focus on anything you do. You fall behind at work and in life because all you can think about is the things you went through.<\/p>\n<p><b>Non riuscite a respirare correttamente e l'ansia vi butta gi\u00f9.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Vi svegliate nel cuore della notte perch\u00e9 lui \u00e8 il protagonista dei vostri incubi. Tutto sembra cos\u00ec reale e tu sei tornata nel crudele abbraccio del tuo passato.<\/p>\n<p><b>L'autostima \u00e8 distrutta.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Si diventa cos\u00ec <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/rinunciate-alluomo-che-vi-fa-sentire-insicure\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> insicuro <\/a> and you find yourself unable to make a decision. You listen to everyone but yourself because you don\u2019t trust yourself either anymore.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84210\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna triste seduta sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-young-woman-sitting-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Siete arrabbiati con voi stessi perch\u00e9 avete lasciato che tutto questo continuasse per cos\u00ec tanto tempo.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You are mad because you couldn\u2019t find the strength to leave sooner. You can\u2019t believe just how much you went through and what you endured in the name of love.<\/p>\n<p>Pensarci non fa che acuire il dolore. <b>You can\u2019t stop the tears from falling. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Diventate cos\u00ec vulnerabili che il solo pensiero della vostra relazione passata vi riempie gli occhi di lacrime.<\/p>\n<p>Vorresti essere pi\u00f9 forte e poter gestire meglio le cose, ma tutto sembra cos\u00ec difficile e insopportabile.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84211\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"donna depressa seduta sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/depressed-woman-sitting-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Ma nonostante la rottura, si respira ancora. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Every day is a struggle, that\u2019s true. You struggle to get out of bed. You struggle to go to work. You struggle with your thoughts, pain and occasional numbness.<\/p>\n<p><b>Ma si sopravvive. Si ricuciono le parti rotte di s\u00e9 e si diventa pi\u00f9 forti ogni giorno che passa. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>You became guarded, you became cautious and unable to trust anyone, you became someone you didn\u2019t recognize but who you still were deep down.<\/p>\n<p>Il vostro cuore batte ancora nella vostra rottura.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84219\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-young-woman-looking-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"giovane donna triste che guarda attraverso la finestra\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-young-woman-looking-through-the-window.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-young-woman-looking-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-young-woman-looking-through-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Vi renderete conto che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/caratteristiche-della-rottura\/\">essere rotto<\/a> \u00e8 un'esperienza dolorosa e straziante, ma ti trasforma nella persona che hai sempre voluto essere.<\/p>\n<p>You learn just how strong you really are. You didn\u2019t know you even had that much strength in you.<\/p>\n<p>Iniziate una nuova vita con una prospettiva completamente nuova e con nuovi orizzonti davanti a voi.<\/p>\n<p>Respirate e ringraziate Dio perch\u00e9 siete finalmente liberi dalle sue catene.<\/p>\n<p>Fidatevi di me quando vi dico che anche quando siete completamente a pezzi, guarirete. Fidatevi di me perch\u00e9, contro ogni previsione, anch'io sono guarito.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-84206\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/This-Is-What-Being-Broken-Really-Means-Because-Its-More-Than-A-Heartbreak-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ecco cosa significa davvero essere spezzati (perch\u00e9 \u00e8 molto di pi\u00f9 di un dolore al cuore)\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/This-Is-What-Being-Broken-Really-Means-Because-Its-More-Than-A-Heartbreak-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/This-Is-What-Being-Broken-Really-Means-Because-Its-More-Than-A-Heartbreak-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Heartbreaks are an emotional mess and enormous pain but being broken is even worse. Being broken means having your soul ripped apart, your confidence lost and your dreams non-existent. Being broken means losing your lust for life. It means not being able to get up out of your bed because you see no point. Being&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":84234,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26762","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/This-Is-What-Being-Broken-Really-Means-Because-Its-More-Than-A-Heartbreak-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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