{"id":26766,"date":"2018-10-26T09:39:52","date_gmt":"2018-10-26T09:39:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26766"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:44:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:44:38","slug":"se-ci-tenesse-davvero-a-te-si-comporterebbe-come-tale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-ci-tenesse-davvero-a-te-si-comporterebbe-come-tale\/","title":{"rendered":"Se ci tenesse davvero a te, si comporterebbe come tale"},"content":{"rendered":"

So che sei pazza di questo ragazzo. E naturalmente l'unica cosa che vuoi \u00e8 che lui provi lo stesso sentimento per te. Desiderate che lui vi ami allo stesso modo in cui voi amate lui.<\/p>\n

But your hope blinds you from seeing the reality. This false hope is causing you to lie to yourself and to see things that aren\u2019t actually there.<\/p>\n

Because if you look at things realistically, you\u2019ll see the truth. And the truth is that this guy actually acts like he doesn\u2019t give a damn about you. And <\/b>if he treats you like he doesn\u2019t care, you better start believing him<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

So please, stop getting your hopes up and lying to yourself that this man has feelings for you. Look the truth in the eye and accept that if he truly cared about you, he\u2019d act like it.<\/p>\n

Please, stop justifying him mistreating you. Stop making false excuses even you don\u2019t believe in, just to justify his behavior and his lack of emotions.<\/b><\/p>\n

Stop convincing yourself that he is just emotionally unavailable right now and that things will change the moment he senses the depth of your love. That he lost faith in love and that you just have to prove to him that romance isn\u2019t dead.<\/p>\n

Stop telling yourself that he is just playing hard to get to make you fall for him even more. That he pretends to be this tough guy who doesn\u2019t want to express his emotions or show you his vulnerability.<\/p>\n

Smettete di convincervi che in realt\u00e0 ha solo paura di quanto gli piacete e che sta scappando dalle sue emozioni. Che sia troppo timido per essere se stesso e che voi dobbiate essere pazienti con lui.<\/p>\n

Smettete di convincervi che quest'uomo \u00e8 emotivamente rotto<\/span><\/a> or damaged and that you\u2019ll be his savior. That you\u2019ll be the one to heal his broken heart and make him fall for you.<\/p>\n

Stop telling yourself that he is treating you this way because he has trust issues and because he\u2019s been hurt in the past. That he just needs time to open up to you completely.<\/p>\n

Smettete di convincervi che, in fondo, quest'uomo vi ama a modo suo, in modo speciale.<\/b> Che questa \u00e8 la sua capacit\u00e0 massima e che questo \u00e8 solo il suo modo di essere.<\/p>\n

Stop dissecting his every move and analyzing his every word in the search for emotions that simply don\u2019t exist.<\/b> Smettete di cercare un significato nascosto nei piccoli gesti del suo affetto e di scambiarlo per vero amore. Smettete di cercare indizi nei suoi segnali contrastanti e nei suoi giochi mentali.<\/b><\/p>\n

If he wanted to call you, there doesn\u2019t exist an earthly power which could stop him from doing so. If he wanted to see you, he would do so, no matter how tired or busy he is.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 in realt\u00e0 le cose sono piuttosto semplici: se quest'uomo volesse stare con te, lo farebbe. Se vi amasse, ve lo dimostrerebbe.<\/b><\/p>\n

Because a man who loves you for real will never play with your mind. His feelings will always be clear and he\u2019ll always be completely honest about them. This man will never make you second-guess him and he\u2019ll never leave you wondering.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never have to ask yourself whether this man really cares about you or if you are just imagining things. You\u2019ll never have to decode his texts and phone calls, trying to read through his intentions and trying to find a sign of his emotions for you.<\/p>\n

Quando <\/b>un uomo ti ama davvero<\/b><\/a>, you\u2019ll never have to search for that love under layers of his indifference. Because you\u2019ll be able to see it and to feel it in every second of every day, with every atom of your body and soul.<\/b><\/p>\n

Stop lying to yourself and accept the bitter truth. This man doesn\u2019t love you, never did and never will.<\/p>\n

E sapete perch\u00e9 dovreste farlo?<\/p>\n

Because you are better than that. And you deserve more than to settle for someone who doesn\u2019t give you the love you deserve or need. And because you are strong enough to look the truth in the eye, no matter how harsh or painful it might get.<\/b><\/p>\n

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I know that you are crazy about this guy. And naturally, the only thing you really want is for him to feel the same way about you. You wish for him to love you back the same way you love him. But your hope blinds you from seeing the reality. This false hope is causing…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":26767,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26766","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/matheus-lira-1113014-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26766","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26766"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26766\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26767"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26766"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26766"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26766"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}