{"id":26874,"date":"2020-08-30T09:08:29","date_gmt":"2020-08-30T09:08:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26874"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:08:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:08:37","slug":"se-la-ami-sii-presente-per-lei","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-la-ami-sii-presente-per-lei\/","title":{"rendered":"Se la ami, sii presente per lei"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you love her, don\u2019t just say it. Words <i> sono <\/i> important&#8230; but ultimately hold no bearing if not backed up by actions.<\/p>\n<p>If you really love her, you can\u2019t just say it and never show it. She needs to see that your words aren\u2019t just empty, and she needs to <i> vedere <\/i> le dimostri, ancora e ancora.<\/p>\n<p><b>Dimostratele che siete un uomo di parola. Dimostratele che non siete come tutti gli altri ragazzi che ha avuto prima. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Show her that you\u2019re not just saying what you want her to hear. Show her that when you profess her your love, you feel it in every bone and in every fiber of your being.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sai, si sta stancando di sentire quelle tre parole magiche e di crederci come se fossero il frutto di un'esperienza di vita. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/28-segni-che-dimostrano-che-sei-un-romantico-senza-speranza\/\"> romantico senza speranza <\/a> che lei \u00e8, solo per vederseli mordere nel sedere dopo essere stata cos\u00ec aperta e affidabile.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 stufa di sentirsi dire una cosa e di doverla mettere in discussione per tutta la durata della relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Dire che la amate \u00e8 facile, ma essere presenti quando ha davvero bisogno di voi \u00e8 il momento in cui le dimostrate che quelle parole hanno un significato reale.<\/p>\n<p>Che davvero non riuscite a vedere la vostra vita senza di lei e <i> apprezzare <\/i> il suo valore. Ha bisogno di sentirselo dire ogni tanto.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107931\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace.jpg\" alt=\"una giovane coppia di innamorati che si bacia in terrazza\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-young-loving-couple-kissing-on-the-terrace-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Ha bisogno che tu sia fedele alla tua parola<\/b> . Ha bisogno di vedere che l'impegno che mette nella vostra relazione \u00e8 apprezzato, altrimenti inizier\u00e0 lentamente a rinunciare.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t see the point in continuing to water your relationship if you are going to let it die.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make her give up on you.<\/p>\n<p><i> Don\u2019t you dare tell her you love her and then leave her when it gets messy and complicated. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>When life happens and you have shit to worry about. Don\u2019t let all the burdens fall on her shoulders. She needs you to show her that you love her now more than ever.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t expect her to get you out of life\u2019s hardships on her own and then decide to join her when the coast is clear again.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s not love. That\u2019s <i> convenienza <\/i> . Conoscere la differenza e non deluderla mai.<\/p>\n<p><b>Se la amate, chiedetele come sta.<\/b> Don\u2019t assume that she\u2019s okay just because she is quiet.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107933\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking.jpg\" alt=\"una coppia di innamorati sul divano che parla\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-on-the-sofa-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 il momento in cui ha bisogno di te <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/friendship\/6-motivi-per-cui-lamico-cattivo-e-lamico-che-ci-tiene-di-piu\/\"> il pi\u00f9 <\/a> . Ask her, and don\u2019t let her fool you into thinking she\u2019s okay. She\u2019s not always going to be fine, and she is going to need you to see it and come to her rescue.<\/p>\n<p>Saperla leggere. <i> She\u2019s going to need you to <\/i> di volta in volta.<\/p>\n<p>Talk to her about the uncomfortable stuff. It\u2019s not all rainbows and butterflies.<\/p>\n<p>Le cose <i> volont\u00e0 <\/i> get difficult, and you will need to figure things out together. Don\u2019t bail on her when it stops being fun.<\/p>\n<p><b><i> Per godersi la vita insieme, bisogna affrontare insieme le tempeste.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Be consistent. Don\u2019t shower her with affection one day and then disappear the other.<\/p>\n<p>Devi essere affidabile per lei. Proprio come lei lo \u00e8 per te.<\/p>\n<p>Certo, non tutti i giorni saranno una passeggiata, ma ogni giorno \u00e8 una nuova opportunit\u00e0 per dimostrarle che siete impegnati con lei e che qualsiasi cosa stiate passando, non lascerete che metta in ombra il vostro amore reciproco.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107935\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"una coppia di innamorati seduta sul cofano verde di un&#039;auto a godersi il tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/a-loving-couple-sitting-on-the-green-hood-of-a-car-and-enjoying-the-sunset-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Siete pi\u00f9 forti di tutto ci\u00f2 che vi pu\u00f2 capitare.<\/p>\n<p>Soprattutto, dimostratele che la amate <b>quando smette di amare se stessa.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>There are going to be times when she won\u2019t know how to love herself anymore. She will be so hard on herself and let life get to her. She will probably try to chase you away as well.<\/p>\n<p><i> Don\u2019t let her! <\/i> This is when she\u2019s at her most delicate and vulnerable. This is when she is a complete mess, but this is when she needs your love, guidance and patience the most.<\/p>\n<p><b>All you need to do is just be there. When she tells you to leave \u2013 stay. When she tells you she wants to be alone \u2013 be there more than ever. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>And when she is on the verge of breaking things up \u2013 kiss her with such love and passion that she will be able to feel life coming back into her body and soul. Make her <\/b><b><i>sentire <\/i><\/b><b>il vostro amore e la vostra presenza.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Non dimenticher\u00e0 mai quei momenti. Non dimenticher\u00e0 mai come l'avete aiutata a ritrovare la sua sanit\u00e0 mentale.<\/p>\n<p>Non riuscir\u00e0 mai a dirvi quanto apprezza il vostro amore e il vostro impegno, anche quando era nel suo momento peggiore. Siete la sua ancora e siete tutto ci\u00f2 di cui ha bisogno per sentirsi di nuovo viva.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 l'amore. Le parole sono necessarie, <i> ma sono le azioni a farle superare la giornata. <\/i><\/p>\n<p>Sapere che lei ha tutto questo in te \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che le far\u00e0 superare qualsiasi cosa. Voi siete il suo <b>forza <\/b> quando \u00e8 pi\u00f9 debole.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t ever let her down. Don\u2019t ever make her regret trusting you with so much of herself.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t gamble away the love that she feels from you. If you keep being her anchor, she will never stop being your girl.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107939 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se la ami, sii presente per lei\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you love her, don\u2019t just say it. Words are important&#8230; but ultimately hold no bearing if not backed up by actions. If you really love her, you can\u2019t just say it and never show it. She needs to see that your words aren\u2019t just empty, and she needs to see you prove it to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":107929,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26874","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/If-You-Love-Her-\u2013-Be-There-For-Her.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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