{"id":26881,"date":"2023-10-18T09:13:00","date_gmt":"2023-10-18T09:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26881"},"modified":"2023-10-19T12:10:19","modified_gmt":"2023-10-19T12:10:19","slug":"anche-se-lui-se-ne-va-sei-tu-a-vincere","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/anche-se-lui-se-ne-va-sei-tu-a-vincere\/","title":{"rendered":"Anche se lui se ne va, siete voi a vincere"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>No matter how much in pain you are right now, believe me \u2013 you\u2019ve won. I know it sounds crazy, but the moment he decides to leave you, he loses, and you\u2019re the one who wins.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the one who wins because you were not afraid to love him with all of your heart.<\/p>\n<p>Eri reale e genuino in questo mondo pieno di menti false e di pregiudizi. Hai mostrato a tutti come amare in modo altruistico e hai reso il mondo un posto migliore.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t even dare to think otherwise. Your tears, big heart and soul full of life are all traits of a real soldier.<\/p>\n<p>You weren\u2019t afraid to fight for your dreams and beliefs. You weren\u2019t afraid to fight for the most dangerous thing \u2013 love.<\/p>\n<p>You knew that you might get hurt, but your beautifully stubborn heart simply didn\u2019t want to give up at the first obstacle. Obstacles have made you stronger.<\/p>\n<p>Eravate pronti a cadere e a rialzarvi come se nulla fosse. Eravate pronti a donarvi completamente a qualcun altro, che \u00e8 la cosa pi\u00f9 bella e stimolante che si possa fare.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98496\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap.jpg\" alt=\"donna felice sdraiata in grembo all&#039;uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/happy-woman-lying-in-man-lap-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So, even if he leaves, you\u2019re the one who wins. You\u2019re the one who will continue with your life with a head held high and your big, now even stronger, heart.<\/p>\n<p><b>Anche se ti dava per scontata, tu davi.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Anche se la sua natura egoista <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/not-rebuild-take-granted\/\"> ti ha dato per scontato <\/a> , your big heart was giving. You weren\u2019t afraid to give the most valuable thing in your possession \u2013 your heart, to a complete stranger.<\/p>\n<p>Can you ever imagine what a brave person you are? I\u2019m really proud of you, and you should be, too.<\/p>\n<p>Davi anche se non ricevevi quasi nulla in cambio.<\/p>\n<p>Avete sempre sperato che qualcosa cambiasse e siete stati generosi nel dargli una seconda possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98497\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1.jpg\" alt=\"una donna preoccupata e con una mente profonda\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/worried-woman-in-deep-minds-1-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even though he didn\u2019t appreciate you, you gave him your affection and were patiently waiting for him to reciprocate.<\/p>\n<p><b>Anche se vi ha mentito, siete stati onesti.<\/b><b><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Ci vuole una persona coraggiosa per rimanere onesti nel mare delle bugie. Sapevate che vi stava mentendo, ma avete deciso di rimanere sinceri.<\/p>\n<p>Even though his lies have haunted you every night in your sleep, you didn\u2019t let them change who you are. You stayed true to yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Non avete mai perso l'occasione di dirgli quanto lo amate o vi manca, anche se si rifiutava di rispondere alle vostre chiamate. Sei stata onesta.<\/p>\n<p>L'onest\u00e0 \u00e8 un dono molto costoso che voi avete fatto con tutto il cuore e che vi aspettavate anche da lui, pur sapendo che non ci si pu\u00f2 aspettare un dono cos\u00ec costoso da persone scadenti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98498\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"donna sola e triste con pensieri profondi\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-sad-woman-in-deep-thoughts-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ma voi avete scelto di credere diversamente perch\u00e9 cercate sempre di vedere il meglio negli altri.<\/p>\n<p><b>Anche se ti faceva sentire indegna, hai dato tutto quello che potevi.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You didn\u2019t care for his manipulative games that made you feel unworthy of love. He made you feel like you had to fight and deserve his love, and you gave everything you could.<\/p>\n<p>Hai combattuto come un vero soldato non perch\u00e9 lui ti ha costretto, ma perch\u00e9 credevi che se avessi dato tutto quello che avevi, alla fine avrebbe cambiato idea e avrebbe iniziato a trattarti come meritavi.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-piu-grande-errore-che-abbia-mai-commesso-e-stato-quello-di-dare-tutto-me-stesso-a-te\/\">Dare tutto quello che si ha<\/a> ti ha reso vulnerabile, ma tu continuavi a nuotare con orgoglio nel mare delle sue bugie fregandotene.<\/p>\n<p>You believed he would rescue you once you started drowning. He didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98499\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste in piedi accanto al muro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/sad-woman-standing-by-the-wall-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And you weren\u2019t afraid to continue fighting for his poisonous love even though you knew it would destroy you.<\/p>\n<p><b>Anche se lui ha scelto un'altra persona, voi avete scelto lui.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Avete scelto lui e avete deciso di lottare per lui. Dovresti essere orgogliosa di te stessa perch\u00e9 hai fatto tutto ci\u00f2 che era in tuo potere per conquistare il suo cuore.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s what brave people do. They don\u2019t like someone and then wait for them to magically appear on their doors and jump into their lives.<\/p>\n<p>Le persone coraggiose scelgono di combattere per qualcuno che amano, anche se sanno che potrebbero finire per farsi male. Non avete paura delle sfide.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t let life challenge you; instead you\u2019re the one challenging it, and sooner or later, you will reap what you sow.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/beautiful-woman-standing-in-sunlight.jpg\" alt=\"bella donna in piedi alla luce del sole\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/beautiful-woman-standing-in-sunlight.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/beautiful-woman-standing-in-sunlight-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/beautiful-woman-standing-in-sunlight-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/beautiful-woman-standing-in-sunlight-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I vostri sforzi saranno premiati in un modo o nell'altro, dovete solo crederci.<\/p>\n<p><b>Even though he left, you\u2019re the one who won.<\/b><b><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sapete di aver fatto del vostro meglio e di avergli dato una possibilit\u00e0, anche se lui l'ha data per scontata.<\/p>\n<p>Know that you\u2019re the one who won because your heart has gone through enormous pain and now it\u2019s even stronger.<\/p>\n<p>Il suo cuore rimarr\u00e0 lo stesso, anche se avete cercato di ripararlo. Ma il vostro grande cuore sar\u00e0 ancora pi\u00f9 grande e pi\u00f9 forte, e aspetter\u00e0 pazientemente qualcuno che vi meriti.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re the one who wins because you know how to love, and don\u2019t let anyone tell you differently.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98495\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Anche se se ne va, siete voi a vincere\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98494\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest.png\" alt=\"Anche se se ne va, siete voi a vincere\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest.png 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest-200x300.png 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest-683x1024.png 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins-pinterest-150x225.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No matter how much in pain you are right now, believe me \u2013 you\u2019ve won. I know it sounds crazy, but the moment he decides to leave you, he loses, and you\u2019re the one who wins. You\u2019re the one who wins because you were not afraid to love him with all of your heart. You&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":98501,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26881","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Even-If-He-Leaves-Youre-The-One-Who-Wins.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26881","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26881"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26881\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98501"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26881"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26881"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26881"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}