Per fortuna, dopo un po' di esame di coscienza in seguito alla nostra rottura, ho capito che la tua visione distorta di me non ha nulla a che fare con come sono realmente. Riflette solo il tuo giudizio negativo su di me e la natura egoistica del tuo amore.<\/p>\n
First of all, I don\u2019t really believe you ever loved me. What you felt for me may have been lust, <\/b>al meglio<\/i><\/b>. You don\u2019t treat a girl who gives you her heart on a silver platter the way you treated me.<\/b><\/p>\n
You never saw me as anything more than just a piece of meat. A piece of meat that would listen to you, guide you, help you and give you all the other things that you just couldn\u2019t get enough of.<\/p>\n
E cosa ho avuto in cambio? Met\u00e0 delle tue attenzioni e la cura per me solo quando ero al meglio, cos\u00ec da potermi far sfilare davanti ai tuoi amici che mi giudicavano solo in base a quanto era corto il mio vestito e a quanto era sodo il mio sedere.<\/b><\/p>\n
Right now, I\u2019m disgusted at how I let you treat me. You never showed me any respect. You never bothered to be there when I was a mess. You were only there when YOU needed something from me. Che sciocco sono stato a confondere questo con l'amore.<\/em><\/p>\n But I thank God that he let you in my life. I really do. See, if not for you, this is how I would let everyone treat me. Because that is all I\u2019ve been shown. You showed me any attention and I put my best dress on and went running. And in return, when I called you, when I was in need, you never showed up. You never wanted to be there for me because you saw my emotional side as a flaw.<\/p>\n Non sei mai riuscito ad accettare che le relazioni sono pi\u00f9 di due persone che si godono la vita insieme e poi, quando diventa difficile, si tirano indietro. Quando i tempi erano buoni, andavamo a gonfie vele, ma quando la vita si metteva di mezzo, sparivi finch\u00e9 non sistemavo le cose da solo.<\/p>\n I\u2019m done letting you treat me this way. I refuse to be seen as needy, when all I wanted was your attention. I refuse to be seen as clingy, when all I wanted was to know my boyfriend loved me. I refuse to let you picture me as flawed, when all I really am is human.<\/p>\n All'epoca tutto questo mi sfuggiva, ma ora lo vedo pi\u00f9 chiaro che mai.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n You are no longer a factor in how I choose to see myself, or most importantly\u2014my worth. You are no longer relevant in my soul-searching. You no longer exist.<\/p>\n Ci\u00f2 che voi avete visto come bisognoso, qualcun altro lo vedr\u00e0 come una ragazza che ama cos\u00ec profondamente che ha semplicemente bisogno di vedere questo amore ricambiato.<\/p>\n What you saw as clingy, somebody else will see as a girl who loves spending time with her partner because he makes her happy. It\u2019s that simple.<\/p>\n Quello che voi vedete come un difetto, qualcun altro lo vedr\u00e0 come una gemma nascosta. Mi vedr\u00e0 come una ragazza gentile e di buon cuore, impegnata e fedele, aperta e affidabile e, soprattutto, genuina e reale.<\/p>\n I will not settle for anything or anyone less. If you want me, you get all of me. I\u2019m not going to pretend to be perfect to please you and be alone in my misery. I\u2019m not going to put on a brave face around you, only to come home and cry myself to sleep.<\/p>\n
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