{"id":2690,"date":"2020-09-18T12:21:26","date_gmt":"2020-09-18T12:21:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2690"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:52:26","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:52:26","slug":"5-cose-che-le-persone-tossiche-distruggono","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-cose-che-le-persone-tossiche-distruggono\/","title":{"rendered":"5 cose che le persone tossiche fanno per distruggervi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tutti noi abbiamo una persona nella nostra vita per la quale ci pieghiamo come una corda nel tentativo di compiacerli. <\/a>These are the people that are sucking the life out of us\u2014toxic people.<\/p>\n

Every time a problem occurs, you end up questioning yourself\u2014is it something you did wrong? You end up thinking it was your fault for the disagreement you had.<\/p>\n

But, it\u2019s their fault. The only thing that makes the difference is that they have the power to make you believe you\u2019re the one to blame.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve had enough of their negative energies and their bad attitudes, you have to cut them off from your life\u2014tear them off like bandages, fast. That\u2019s the only way to get rid of those negative people.<\/p>\n

You mustn\u2019t support their toxic behavior because they will capture you in their vicious never-ending circle of toxicity.<\/p>\n

Ci sono molte cose che le persone tossiche fanno per manipolare gli altri e per manipolare le situazioni a loro vantaggio. Eccone alcune:<\/p>\n

1. Sono manipolatori<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Avete la sensazione di essere l'unico che sta facendo progressi nello sviluppo della vostra relazione<\/a>\u2014and you are right!<\/p>\n

These people have the power to make you think you are the one to blame for all the bad that is happening to you, even though they are the main initiators for planting the \u2018seed of evil\u2019 in your relationship.<\/p>\n

They will trick you into doing something you don\u2019t want to or something that will hurt you and in the end, they will convince you it was for your own good.<\/p>\n

They will convince you their plan was brilliant and it was your fault that you failed. Due to the fact you failed you are hurting\u2014you are the one to blame.<\/p>\n

2. They don\u2019t listen<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Did you ever have the feeling you\u2019re talking but your words don\u2019t seem to be getting through to the person you\u2019re talking to? Well if you did, you were probably talking to a toxic person.<\/p>\n

They have absolutely no interest in what you\u2019ve got to say.<\/p>\n

Sono interessati solo a ci\u00f2 che hanno da dire e alle cose che li riguardano.<\/p>\n

No matter how urgent or important the thing you have to say is, they won\u2019t be interested.<\/p>\n

Even if you\u2019ve got their attention for a while and it looks like they are listening to you, they will interrupt you while you\u2019re talking and start talking about something that is important to them.<\/p>\n

3. Stanno proiettando i loro sentimenti su di voi<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Avete la costante sensazione che qualcosa non vada e che voi ne siate la causa principale.<\/p>\n

That person who is next to you is angry all the time, but he or she acts as if everything is ok and he or she forces you to believe you\u2019re the angry one.<\/p>\n

They are making you believe it\u2019s your problem. It\u2019s hard to get out from these situations because they have so much ability to make you believe what they want you to believe.<\/p>\n

This is similar to manipulating but actually it\u2019s projecting their emotions on to you and making you believe you\u2019re the core of the problem\u2014you end up being in the emotional state they are actually in.<\/p>\n

4. They have no respect for you and they think they\u2019re better than you<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

They discard everything you\u2019ve got to say and they don\u2019t care for what you want and what you do. They have double standards when it comes to your dreams and aspirations.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, hanno due pesi e due misure in generale. Per loro va bene fare qualcosa, ma se voi fate la stessa cosa, c'\u00e8 un problema.<\/p>\n

Nel complesso, pensano di essere migliori di voi.<\/a> They have the ability to make you feel worthless\u2014like shit.<\/p>\n

Continueranno a dire cose che vi fanno sentire piccoli e insignificanti, solo per mettersi al di sopra di voi.<\/p>\n

5. Vi stanno trascinando verso il basso<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Il problema delle persone tossiche \u00e8 che ti trascinano verso il basso.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t bring out the best in you\u2014your potential is decaying because there is no one there to encourage you to do what you want. You have no support whatsoever.<\/p>\n

Troveranno sempre un modo per buttarti gi\u00f9, quindi stai zitto per non dar loro la possibilit\u00e0 di farlo. Esiste un modo pi\u00f9 astuto di questo per controllare qualcuno?<\/p>\n

Getting rid of the toxic people in your life will only make your life more beautiful, so don\u2019t be afraid to do that step and exclude them from your life.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/strong> Ecco come ci si sente ad amare qualcuno che \u00e8 tossico<\/a><\/p>\n

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We all have that someone in our lives for whom we bend ourselves around like a wire in an attempt to please them. These are the people that are sucking the life out of us\u2014toxic people. Every time a problem occurs, you end up questioning yourself\u2014is it something you did wrong? You end up thinking…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":107589,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2690","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/5-Things-Toxic-People-Do-To-Destroy-You.jpg",1000,667,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2690","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2690"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2690\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/107589"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2690"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2690"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2690"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}