{"id":26951,"date":"2018-10-31T10:30:54","date_gmt":"2018-10-31T10:30:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26951"},"modified":"2022-03-18T00:29:06","modified_gmt":"2022-03-18T00:29:06","slug":"4-motivi-per-cui-sei-dipendente-dai-cattivi-ragazzi-e-dagli-uomini-che-ti-feriscono","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/4-motivi-per-cui-sei-dipendente-dai-cattivi-ragazzi-e-dagli-uomini-che-ti-feriscono\/","title":{"rendered":"4 motivi per cui sei dipendente dai cattivi ragazzi e dagli uomini che ti fanno del male"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s broad daylight. You\u2019re standing in the middle of the street, furious with the rage you\u2019ve been holding inside for far too long, arguing with someone your life currently revolves around.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t call you, and he promised he would. This happens all the time, and you\u2019re just fed up with it. All of this is happening and the possible love of your life is sitting in the coffee place across the street watching you, nodding his head and sipping his macchiato.<\/p>\n

Mentre tu sei l\u00e0 fuori a sprecare la tua vita con un uomo che \u00e8 destinato a farti del male prima o poi (un ragazzo cattivo<\/a> that doesn’t want to commit), the love of your life is standing right in front of you, but you don\u2019t even notice him.<\/p>\n

But the thing is, these almost extinct creatures, these nice guys are so hard to find because they\u2019ve been outshined by Tinder guys and creatures of the modern dating world.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s really almost impossible to find a man who\u2019ll treat you right, who\u2019ll genuinely care for you, so you settle for an idiota immaturo<\/span><\/a> and you hope for the best – you hope he is not a jerk.<\/p>\n

But surprise, surprise. He is just one more in the sea of men who\u2019ll hurt you. It\u2019s like they are everywhere, and they are spreading so fast, like a plague.<\/p>\n

Siamo cos\u00ec abituati a rimpinzarci di gelato mentre piangiamo lacrime enormi e a parlare con i nostri amici al telefono ripetendo costantemente una parola, un'eterna domanda. – <\/span>PERCH\u00c9? <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

That\u2019s what we do. That\u2019s what these modern men have made us do. <\/b><\/p>\n

The bottom line is, we seem to be living a life of pain, true heart-wrecking pain because it\u2019s been a year you\u2019re dating, and he still doesn\u2019t know whether he\u2019d like to take things seriously or not.<\/p>\n

Avere una relazione impegnata \u00e8 cos\u00ec difficile? Chiediamo troppo? Al giorno d'oggi sembra proprio di s\u00ec.<\/p>\n

So, I’ve been thinking, and I had to ask myself why do we always fall for bad boys, men who\u2019ll definitely hurt us in the end, and I came to a conclusion. This is what you\u2019re doing, you and me both:<\/p>\n

1. Volete ripararli<\/h2>\n

Il nutrimento \u00e8 scritto nel vostro codice genetico. Avete questo istinto profondo di aiutare le persone che sembrano rotte. E chi \u00e8 pi\u00f9 perfetto per il ruolo di vittima ai vostri occhi di un cattivo ragazzo, un uomo che ha chiaramente bisogno di essere aggiustato.<\/p>\n

So you roll up your sleeves and you begin your quest – to save his poor, little, wounded soul. How does it all end? With you barely getting up from your bed in the morning, and he partying away \u2018to forget\u2019. Clearly, he is having such a hard time. Boohoo!<\/p>\n

You choose these men because real men don\u2019t need to be fixed; ergo they are not as attractive.<\/p>\n

2. You\u2019re scared of commitment<\/h2>\n

Well, isn’t this surprising? Women fobici dell'impegno<\/span><\/a>? S\u00ec, questa \u00e8 una cosa. S\u00ec, esiste. Quindi, quando arriva l'uomo giusto, vuole fare sul serio con te. Vuole avere un futuro con te e questo ti spaventa a morte.<\/p>\n

Naturally, you won\u2019t take any risks, so you go running to a man who is also scared of commitment. You know you\u2019re safe. You know he won\u2019t be asking you to take your relationship to a new level.<\/p>\n

Although, there is one thing you weren\u2019t counting on and that\u2019s the scenario where you fall for him hard, and you change your mind about commitment fear, but he doesn\u2019t. In this case, you get hurt, and you didn\u2019t plan things on going that way.<\/p>\n

3. Scappate dagli uomini prevedibili<\/h2>\n

Normal men seem too stable. There is no chaos around them which gives you the sense that they\u2019re boring.<\/p>\n

D'altra parte, chi dice che il caos che i cattivi ragazzi creano intorno a loro significa che sono divertenti ed eccitanti? Di solito il caos \u00e8 interessante una o due volte, ma dopo qualche tempo diventa frustrante.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 lei, come tutte noi, vuole sentirsi al sicuro e protetta. E questo \u00e8 qualcosa che un cattivo ragazzo non vi dar\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019re paralyzed by his hotness<\/h2>\n

They are d-bags. They are everything a woman should never fall for, but you have to give them one thing and that is they are freakin\u2019 hot!<\/p>\n

E la cosa peggiore \u00e8 che sanno sono caldi<\/a>, and they use it every day to get whatever they want. Not a lot of us can say \u2018no\u2019 to big blue dreamy eyes and the body of a Greek god, I\u2019ll give you that.<\/p>\n

Cosa fare a questo proposito?<\/b><\/p>\n

Women crave stability, safety, and kindness the same way they crave excitement, adventure, and attraction. Normal, ordinary guys have all of those things, but most of the time all of us get blinded by those superficial \u2018bad boy\u2019 traits that fade soon.<\/p>\n

Look for a man who is down to earth. Look for a stable guy and you won\u2019t be sorry. He is not boring or predictable. He is just not all over the place. But that doesn\u2019t mean a bit of \u2018badness\u2019 is hidden underneath the \u2018good\u2019 exterior. That doesn\u2019t mean he is not as fun and adventurous as a bad boy.<\/p>\n

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