{"id":26960,"date":"2020-10-31T10:52:48","date_gmt":"2020-10-31T10:52:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=26960"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:57:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:57:51","slug":"amarmi-non-e-uno-stato-danimo-e-un-impegno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/amarmi-non-e-uno-stato-danimo-e-un-impegno\/","title":{"rendered":"Amarmi non \u00e8 uno stato d'animo - \u00e8 un impegno"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Being committed to someone is not something to take lightly. It\u2019s not something that depends on your mood or current state of mind. Commitment means that you will choose me and be there for me, regardless of any outside factor that might make it hard for you to love me that day.<\/p>\n<p>Being committed means more than just love. It means more than just labeling someone your \u2018boyfriend\u2019 or \u2018girlfriend\u2019. This is something you shouldn\u2019t rush into, unless you are fully ready and aware of everything it entails. Commitment is a big deal and it\u2019s much more than just a label.<\/p>\n<p>Impegnarsi significa non fare mai pi\u00f9 nulla a met\u00e0. Significa andare fino in fondo e dare il massimo.<\/p>\n<p><b>Commitment means being completely dedicated and faithful to one person. It means no longer weighing up your other options or looking at anything other than me. You are fully invested in making us a priority and don\u2019t have anywhere else to be.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Commitment means you are not going to cheat on me. You are not even going to think about kissing anyone else, nor giving another girl false hopes. You are a taken man, dedicated to your partner and you make that perfectly clear wherever you are. And it doesn\u2019t scare you. That is when you know it\u2019s real.<\/p>\n<p>You are already with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, so you really don\u2019t have any need to go around and engage in meaningless flings. You knowhow hurtful that would be and you love me too much to even think about it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123086\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-in-love-hugging-each-other.jpg\" alt=\"coppia di innamorati che si abbraccia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-in-love-hugging-each-other.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-in-love-hugging-each-other-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-in-love-hugging-each-other-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-in-love-hugging-each-other-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-in-love-hugging-each-other-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-in-love-hugging-each-other-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-in-love-hugging-each-other-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/couple-in-love-hugging-each-other-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Impegno significa che sei pronto a essere completamente trasparente con me. Anche se sei abituato a tenere certe cose per te, sai che impegnarti con me significa condividere le cose belle e quelle che non ti piacciono. <i>e <\/i>male con me.<\/p>\n<p>Sapete che non c'\u00e8 altro modo di lavorare se non condividendo l'uno con l'altro le parti peggiori di noi stessi.<\/p>\n<p><b>Non c'\u00e8 giudizio. Non c'\u00e8 rabbia. Solo onest\u00e0 e una spalla su cui piangere.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Commitment means always putting our relationship first. It means always putting in the effort, even when it\u2019s not convenient for you.<\/p>\n<p>Significa sapere che, a prescindere da ci\u00f2 che la vita ci riserva, troveremo sempre un modo per far funzionare le cose. Apprezzate troppo il nostro amore per lasciarci <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/sciocco-che-si-lascia-sfuggire\/\">scivolare via<\/a> al primo segno di difficolt\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Impegno significa essere pronti a <b>compromesso.<\/b> Significa che prendiamo insieme tutte le decisioni che riguardano la nostra vita. Significa imparare a lasciarmi fare a volte a modo mio, sapendo che un giorno far\u00f2 lo stesso per te.<\/p>\n<p>You know that the decisions we make impact both of us, so you know it\u2019s important to always find the middle ground. It\u2019s not always going to be comfortable but in the long run, you know we\u2019re worth it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123087\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/silhouette-of-couple-hugging-beside-sea.jpg\" alt=\"sagoma di coppia abbracciata in riva al mare\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/silhouette-of-couple-hugging-beside-sea.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/silhouette-of-couple-hugging-beside-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/silhouette-of-couple-hugging-beside-sea-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/silhouette-of-couple-hugging-beside-sea-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/silhouette-of-couple-hugging-beside-sea-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/silhouette-of-couple-hugging-beside-sea-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/silhouette-of-couple-hugging-beside-sea-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/silhouette-of-couple-hugging-beside-sea-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Commitment also means accepting that neither one of us is perfect. We are all flawed and it\u2019s only a matter of accepting and loving each other despite and <\/b><b><i>a causa di<\/i><\/b><b> our flaws and quirks. It\u2019s what makes us all different and unique!<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Commitment means that you will always stand up for me when I am being wronged. Be that in a room full of people or in private when it\u2019s just the two of us. It means you will always defend me and stick up for me and never make me question your loyalty. And knowing that I\u2019d do the exact same for you.<\/p>\n<p><i>Commitment means realizing that, yeah, there will be fights, we will come to blows at times\u2026 but at the end of the day, you know that it\u2019s not you against me. <\/i><b><i>It\u2019s you and me against the problem.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>And finally, commitment means knowing how to apologize when you are wrong. We are not always both going to be right. And it\u2019s extremely important to be able to apologize to one another when we realize we are in the wrong about something.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e0 all'altra persona la sensazione di essere apprezzata e dimostra la capacit\u00e0 di ammettere le proprie colpe.<\/p>\n<p>Se vogliamo costruire un futuro insieme, \u00e8 importante che tu capisca che non c'\u00e8 futuro senza tutte queste cose. \u00c8 questo che costruisce una relazione buona, stabile e a lungo termine.<\/p>\n<p><b>If you aren\u2019t ready for this, you know where the door is&#8230; but if you are, then let\u2019s start working on making our forever as happy as possible.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123082\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Loving-Me-Isnt-A-Mood-\u2013-Its-A-Commitment-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Amarmi non \u00e8 uno stato d&#039;animo - \u00e8 un impegno\" width=\"1587\" height=\"2245\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Loving-Me-Isnt-A-Mood-\u2013-Its-A-Commitment-Pinterest.jpg 1587w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Loving-Me-Isnt-A-Mood-\u2013-Its-A-Commitment-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Loving-Me-Isnt-A-Mood-\u2013-Its-A-Commitment-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Loving-Me-Isnt-A-Mood-\u2013-Its-A-Commitment-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Loving-Me-Isnt-A-Mood-\u2013-Its-A-Commitment-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Loving-Me-Isnt-A-Mood-\u2013-Its-A-Commitment-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Loving-Me-Isnt-A-Mood-\u2013-Its-A-Commitment-Pinterest-150x212.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1587px) 100vw, 1587px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Being committed to someone is not something to take lightly. It\u2019s not something that depends on your mood or current state of mind. Commitment means that you will choose me and be there for me, regardless of any outside factor that might make it hard for you to love me that day. Being committed means&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":123083,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26960","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Loving-Me-Isnt-A-Mood-\u2013-Its-A-Commitment-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26960","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26960"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26960\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123083"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26960"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26960"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26960"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}