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<\/p>\nI narcisisti possono ingannare chiunque non sia mai stato a contatto con questo tipo di persona.<\/p>\n
They can sell all kinds of stories and make up all kinds of lies to victims tangled in their webs, but they can\u2019t fool someone who has already been through their terror.<\/p>\n
So, in light of this, I\u2019m going to use my experience with a narcissist and share it with you, so one day if, God forbid, a narcissist crosses your path, you\u2019ll be ready to defend yourself.<\/p>\n
I never wanted to really talk about what happened to me because I was ashamed. I didn\u2019t want to admit to anybody, including myself, that I fell for the lies and tricks of one vicious man.<\/p>\n
Me lo sono tenuto dentro cos\u00ec a lungo, imbottigliato. Mi rimproveravo di essere stata cos\u00ec stupida, di aver tenuto gli occhi chiusi, di aver ignorato tutto ci\u00f2 che stava accadendo proprio sotto il mio naso.<\/p>\n
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This went along for a long time until I decided to forgive myself. I\u2019ve realized that I\u2019m not perfect and because I made that mistake, I\u2019m not stupid either.<\/p>\n
It happened; it went down horribly wrong. I could have prevented it, but I didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
Me ne sono fatta una ragione e sono andata avanti. \u00c8 stato un viaggio spirituale coperto di sangue, sudore ed enormi quantit\u00e0 di lacrime, ma \u00e8 stata una strada che valeva la pena percorrere. <\/b><\/p>\n
So, I\u2019m here now offering you my help. I want you to know all the tricks narcissists have up their sleeves because I want to save you from the pain I went through.<\/p>\n
Continuate a leggere per scoprire i segreti e i trucchi narcisistici<\/a> non vogliono che tu lo scopra:<\/p>\n If you say anything that will shame him or give him a clue that you\u2019re up to what he\u2019s doing, he\u2019ll make your life impossible.<\/p>\n If you let him know that you\u2019re aware of his narcissistic traits, he\u2019ll bring out the big guns with the intention of destroying you.<\/p>\n In questo caso e in generale, ignorare un narcisista <\/a> \u00e8 la migliore e l'unica opzione che vi rimane. \u00c8 l'unico modo per scacciarlo.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t get caught in his provocations. In fact, don\u2019t show any emotions while talking to him.<\/p>\n Acting like that will make you unappealing and uninteresting, and eventually, he\u2019ll walk away because you\u2019ve cut off his supply.<\/p>\n Ogni volta che compie un qualsiasi tipo di abuso, cercate di registrarlo o di scriverlo. L'importante \u00e8 avere le prove delle molestie.<\/p>\n It\u2019s important because when you have tangible proof of abuse, he can\u2019t gaslight you.<\/p>\n He can\u2019t use various tactics to make you think you\u2019re crazy. and the abuse never happened. You just overreacted.<\/p>\n He\u2019ll try to go with it anyway, but since you have proof, you can always show it to someone you trust to really confirm that you\u2019re not imagining things, that the abuse actually happened.<\/p>\n I narcisisti hanno un'alta considerazione di s\u00e9 e la loro reputazione \u00e8 l'unica cosa a cui tengono. <\/b><\/p>\n So if they see that their reputation has been compromised, they will run from you like hell because you\u2019re too big of a risk.<\/b><\/p>\n Qualsiasi tipo di risposta gli si dia, anche sotto forma di vendetta, li alimenta.<\/p>\n Hanno bisogno di un'attenzione costante<\/a>\u2014good or bad, it doesn\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n Invece di escogitare piani per vendicarsi, concentratevi su voi stessi e cercate di rendere la vostra vita migliore.<\/p>\n If you choose to stay in contact with them for whatever reason, be prepared for constant attacks and guilt trips designed to get back their source of narcissistic supply – you.<\/p>\n On the other hand, if you\u2019re forced to stay in contact with your narcissist, make yourself as boring as you possibly can.<\/p>\n Limit your conversations to only what\u2019s necessary and never give them a single detail more than they need to know.<\/p>\n Making yourself appalling to a narcissist will definitely make him leave you alone, but you won\u2019t win that war without putting up a fight\u2014that\u2019s for sure.<\/p>\n If you discard him, he\u2019ll freak out. He can\u2019t stand that huge hit on his ego. So, his next step, only logical to him, is to try to come back to you.<\/p>\n He doesn\u2019t want to get back together because gli manchi <\/a> e vuole lavorare sulla vostra relazione.<\/p>\n Ti vuole indietro per ferirti e traumatizzarti per aver avuto l'ardire di lasciarlo per primo.<\/p>\n Vuole ravvivare la relazione, quindi diventa colui che la uccide. Naturalmente, in seguito, metter\u00e0 in giro voci su quanto tu sia una stronza pazza, su come hai distrutto la sua vita, ecc.<\/p>\nDon\u2019t confront him<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nHa paura di essere scoperto<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nHe can\u2019t stand your indifference<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nHe can\u2019t stand getting dumped first<\/h2>\n
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