{"id":27028,"date":"2018-11-01T09:10:00","date_gmt":"2018-11-01T09:10:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27028"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:26:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:26:15","slug":"5-fatti-sorprendenti-che-ho-imparato-sui-bravi-ragazzi-dopo-aver-inseguito-quelli-cattivi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-fatti-sorprendenti-che-ho-imparato-sui-bravi-ragazzi-dopo-aver-inseguito-quelli-cattivi\/","title":{"rendered":"5 fatti sorprendenti che ho imparato sui bravi ragazzi dopo aver inseguito quelli cattivi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lo ammetto. Ho sempre avuto un debole per i cattivi. Forse perch\u00e9 riescono a farti sentire protetto come nessun altro.<\/p>\n

Sanno semplicemente mostrare il loro lato maschile e mescolarlo con il loro lato tenero, in modo che sembri perfettamente equilibrato. Ma questo equilibrio mi \u00e8 costato i nervi e ha creato ferite nel mio cuore.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve decided that I\u2019m done chasing bad guys because this time, I want something different. I want to feel appreciated, respected and loved.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to fight for love anymore. I am tired of it.<\/p>\n

After chasing the bad ones, I\u2019ve forgotten how it feels to be with the nice ones. I\u2019ve forgotten how it feels to be someone\u2019s priority and not just another play doll.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s taken time for me to get used being around nice guys, and it was really hard in the beginning. I didn\u2019t know how to feel or if this was the right decision.<\/p>\n

Ma \u00e8 emerso che i ragazzi gentili danno un altro significato all'amore e all'affetto.
\nHere are 5 surprising facts that I\u2019ve learned about nice guys after chasing the bad ones.<\/p>\n

1. Apprezzano il vostro tempo.<\/h2>\n

While bad guys don\u2019t give a shit if you\u2019re going to wait on them for a couple of hours to show up on a date night, nice guys are completely different. Nice guys will make sure that they arrive earlier because they appreciate your time and don\u2019t want you to wait on them.<\/p>\n

Nice guys will always find time to answer your calls, no matter what they\u2019re doing at the moment. They may be at work or at a meeting, but they\u2019ll never miss a chance to call you back after it finishes.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t want you to worry about them or to think that something bad has happened to them.
\nThey want to make sure you\u2019re safe and sound because your well-being is their number one priority.<\/p>\n

2. Vogliono compiacervi in ogni modo possibile.<\/h2>\n

Nice guys are not selfish when it comes to pleasing you in bed. They are more concerned with appeasing you than themselves. Nice guys will always make sure that you\u2019ve finished first because their unselfish nature orders them to do so.<\/p>\n

So, you don\u2019t have to worry that they will only want to get the job done. They will invest their entire body and soul into what they\u2019re doing at the moment, and they\u2019ll make you feel like you\u2019re the only girl in the world.<\/p>\n

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3. Non sono interessati a fare giochi mentali.<\/h2>\n

If there\u2019s one thing nice guys really hate, it is giochi mentali<\/a>. Hanno un'avversione per qualsiasi tipo di manipolazione e autorit\u00e0 imposta.<\/p>\n

Nice guys want you to feel worthy and appreciated, no matter what you do or say. Even if you\u2019re not right, they will not hold grudges against you just to make you feel bad about yourself for something you did or didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n

Non sono interessati a farvi sentire di merda. Il loro secondo fine \u00e8 la vostra felicit\u00e0 e la spensieratezza.
\nThat is why it\u2019s so easy to fall in love with them because you can never have any doubts regarding their loyalty.<\/p>\n

4. They\u2019re doers and not talkers.<\/h2>\n

Nice guys don\u2019t say one thing and then don\u2019t bother if you think it\u2019s true or not. If they say something to you, they will make damn sure that they\u2019ve proven it with their actions.<\/p>\n

They know that actions speak louder than words, and they\u2019ll do anything to prove this to you.
\nIf a nice guy tells you that he loves you, he will follow it up by playing your favorite song on his guitar, or he\u2019ll scream from the nearest skyscraper how much he loves you.<\/p>\n

I bravi ragazzi si sforzeranno sempre di dimostrarvi anche l'impossibile. Ci proveranno finch\u00e9 non ci riusciranno, ed \u00e8 questo che li rende perfetti.<\/p>\n

5. They\u2019ll always treat you like a lady.<\/h2>\n

I ragazzi gentili vi apriranno le porte. Si alzeranno per portarvi un bicchiere d'acqua nel cuore della notte, vi compreranno la spesa, cucineranno piatti deliziosi e vi faranno sentire come a casa. Si prenderanno sempre cura di voi e vi metteranno al primo posto, indipendentemente dalla situazione.<\/p>\n

I ragazzi gentili vi daranno il loro cuore e non chiederanno mai nulla in cambio. Vi tratteranno come meritate e vi ameranno come nessun altro potrebbe fare.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I admit. I\u2019ve always had a thing for bad guys. Maybe it\u2019s because they can make you feel protected in a way that nobody else can. They simply know how to display their masculine side and mix it with their tender side, so that it seems perfectly balanced. But, this balance has cost me my…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":27029,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27028","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/krists-luhaers-583876-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27028","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27028"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27028\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27029"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27028"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27028"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27028"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}