{"id":27063,"date":"2020-08-02T07:38:39","date_gmt":"2020-08-02T07:38:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27063"},"modified":"2021-12-06T18:27:49","modified_gmt":"2021-12-06T18:27:49","slug":"5-modi-per-capire-se-e-un-narcisista-o-un-semplice-egocentrico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-modi-per-capire-se-e-un-narcisista-o-un-semplice-egocentrico\/","title":{"rendered":"5 modi per capire se \u00e8 un narcisista o un semplice egocentrico"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Di solito, essendo un narcisista e un <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-sconvolgenti-segnali-che-indicano-che-sei-una-persona-egoista\/\">essere egoisti<\/a> e l'egocentrismo sono considerati la stessa cosa.<\/p>\n<p>In pratica, entrambi i termini vengono solitamente utilizzati per descrivere una persona ossessionata da se stessa e che si ama troppo. Ma queste due cose sono in realt\u00e0 molto diverse.<\/p>\n<p>Anche se queste differenze non sono cos\u00ec evidenti a prima vista, sono piuttosto reali ed esistenti.<\/p>\n<p>Il fatto \u00e8 che il narcisismo \u00e8 un disturbo della personalit\u00e0, mentre l'egocentrismo \u00e8 un tratto della personalit\u00e0, ed ecco i modi in cui questi due termini differiscono.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">L'empatia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124855\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench.jpg\" alt=\"uomo serio che ascolta la donna sulla panchina\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-listening-woman-on-the-bench-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>La prima cosa che potrebbe aiutarvi a determinare se siete <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/dopo-aver-frequentato-un-narcisista\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> uscire con un narcisista <\/a> o semplicemente un uomo egocentrico \u00e8 il livello di empatia e compassione che prova per gli altri.<\/p>\n<p>Mentre un narcisista di solito manca di empatia e pensa solo al proprio benessere, le persone egocentriche sono diverse.<\/p>\n<p>Se il vostro ragazzo \u00e8 egoista, metter\u00e0 sempre al primo posto i suoi bisogni e i suoi desideri. La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che si prender\u00e0 cura di se stesso, ma contrariamente a un narcisista, avr\u00e0 la capacit\u00e0 di condividere la vostra felicit\u00e0 o tristezza.<\/p>\n<p>He will feel bad when he hurts your feelings, and he won\u2019t ignore your emotions completely.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, a narcissist doesn\u2019t care about the way anyone around him feels because he lacks empathy. A narcissist lacks understanding for other people\u2019s feelings, and he can never even pretend to be an empath.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ricerca di attenzione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124856\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror.jpg\" alt=\"uomo serio che si guarda allo specchio\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-mirror-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ci\u00f2 che accomuna le persone narcisiste e quelle egocentriche \u00e8 che entrambe desiderano attenzione e approvazione da parte degli altri.<\/p>\n<p>But there is a huge difference between ways in which they do this and the degree to which they seek attention. If your boyfriend is self-centred, he\u2019ll use every possible opportunity to talk about himself and be under the spotlight.<\/p>\n<p>But he\u2019ll still be able to devote his time and attention to you, when it\u2019s needed.<\/p>\n<p>D'altra parte, un narcisista non ascolter\u00e0 mai nulla di ci\u00f2 che avete da dire. Al contrario, cercher\u00e0 sempre un'occasione per parlare di s\u00e9, mostrandovi chiaramente che ci\u00f2 che sta accadendo a lui \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 importante di ci\u00f2 che state passando voi.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Valori morali<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124857\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"uomo serio che guarda in lontananza\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-looking-at-distance-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>From someone else\u2019s point of view, narcissists don\u2019t have moral values. Actually, they have their own standards and distorted values which they think are right.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t follow social norms, and in this case, this is not a good thing. He has a hard time distinguishing good from bad, and there is almost nothing he wouldn\u2019t for his own benefit.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, a self-centred person doesn\u2019t have any trouble with moral values. They have some values they follow and don\u2019t feel like life rules don\u2019t apply to them.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Relazione con gli altri<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124858\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting.jpg\" alt=\"uomo serio che sta all&#039;aperto e manda messaggi\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-standing-outdoor-and-texting-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se il <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/come-ferire-emotivamente-un-uomo-narcisista-6-modi-efficaci-per-farlo\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> l'uomo accanto a te \u00e8 narcisista <\/a>Vi tratter\u00e0 come se fosse al di sopra di voi, ma come se fosse allo stesso modo dipendente da voi. Ed \u00e8 proprio cos\u00ec che si sente.<\/p>\n<p>He feels like you are beneath him, but at the same time, he can\u2019t live without your admiration. Yes, you are his victim, but he is the one who needs you and the one who depends on you.<\/p>\n<p>Contrary to this, self-centred people don\u2019t look at the world like this. Instead, they are usually self-sufficient, and they don\u2019t consider it to be the end of the world if they don\u2019t have someone\u2019s approval.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Consapevolezza di s\u00e9<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124859\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window.jpg\" alt=\"uomo serio in giacca e cravatta che guarda attraverso la finestra\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/serious-man-in-suit-looking-through-the-window-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Un'altra enorme differenza tra un narcisista e una persona egocentrica sta nel livello di autoconsapevolezza e di autocoscienza delle proprie parole, azioni e comportamenti.<\/p>\n<p>To put things simply\u2013a narcissist will never admit or accept that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/guy-10-things-hes-serious-narcissist-disguise\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> \u00e8 un narcisista <\/a>. He is never aware that his actions aren\u2019t right, and he thinks he is entitled to break all moral norms and rules just because he is better than everyone else.<\/p>\n<p>A narcissist doesn\u2019t have a conscience, runs away from responsibility and always thinks he is right, no matter what he said or did.<\/p>\n<p>D'altra parte, una persona egocentrica di solito sa che l'egoismo non \u00e8 una qualit\u00e0 umana apprezzata e lo riconosce come tratto della sua personalit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Le persone egoiste sono diverse dai narcisisti per la loro consapevolezza di s\u00e9. A volte si sentono in colpa per il loro egoismo e cercano di lavorarci su.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-124861\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Ways-To-Tell-If-Hes-A-Narcissist-Or-Just-Self-Centred-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 modi per capire se \u00e8 un narcisista o un semplice egocentrico\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Ways-To-Tell-If-Hes-A-Narcissist-Or-Just-Self-Centred-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Ways-To-Tell-If-Hes-A-Narcissist-Or-Just-Self-Centred-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Ways-To-Tell-If-Hes-A-Narcissist-Or-Just-Self-Centred-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Ways-To-Tell-If-Hes-A-Narcissist-Or-Just-Self-Centred-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Ways-To-Tell-If-Hes-A-Narcissist-Or-Just-Self-Centred-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Usually, being a narcissist and being selfish and self-centered are considered to be the same thing. In practice, both of these terms are usually used to describe someone who is obsessed with themselves and who loves themselves too much. But these two things are actually quite different. Even though these differences are not so obvious&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":124860,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27063","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Ways-To-Tell-If-Hes-A-Narcissist-Or-Just-Self-Centred-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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