{"id":2713,"date":"2020-03-24T08:02:35","date_gmt":"2020-03-24T08:02:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2713"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:34:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:34:18","slug":"3-giochi-mentali-di-ogni-singola-persona-tossica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/3-giochi-mentali-di-ogni-singola-persona-tossica\/","title":{"rendered":"3 giochi mentali che ogni singola persona tossica fa con voi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Don\u2019t be fooled, you are not the exception.<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Come potete sapere se avete una persona tossica nella vostra vita? Vi presento i tre giochi mentali pi\u00f9 comuni delle persone tossiche e sentitevi liberi di giudicare voi stessi.<\/p>\n

Per favore, assicuratevi, una volta che questa persona si dimostra tossica, di non convincervi di poterla cambiare.<\/p>\n

Because, unless you are a professional therapist, it\u2019s hardly unlikely for you to impact his behavior.<\/p>\n

Hanno disturbi della personalit\u00e0 e mentali e hanno bisogno di un aiuto professionale.<\/p>\n

L'ultima cosa di cui avete bisogno \u00e8 rovinarvi cercando di capirlo e dando il massimo per aiutarlo.<\/p>\n

Ora che questo \u00e8 chiaro, ecco i tre giochi mentali che le persone tossiche fanno con voi.<\/p>\n

Gioco #1: Ottenere, conservare o acquisire il controllo<\/h2>\n

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Toxic people are all about control\u2014if they don\u2019t have control over other people, they have nothing.<\/p>\n

Se riescono a suscitare in voi una risposta particolare o a farvi fare ci\u00f2 che vogliono, questo d\u00e0 loro la sensazione di potere che cercano.<\/p>\n

Questo li fa sentire come se avessero il controllo della situazione e d\u00e0 loro la sensazione di avere potere su di voi.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s the story behind this? Toxic people need to have control everywhere, but if they can\u2019t get it wherever they want it, they\u2019ll double the dose on you.<\/p>\n

So if they can\u2019t have control at work, they\u2019ll search for it elsewhere\u2014ergo they\u2019ll make up for it with you.<\/p>\n

Pay attention if you\u2019re purposely giving the control to satisfy the person playing the mind game or Siete stati manipolati?<\/a><\/p>\n

Gioco #2: Guilt-Tripping<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Toxic people need to have you inferior since that\u2019s the only way to make them superior. By making you insecure, they feel more confident.<\/p>\n

Unless you do what toxic people want you to do, they\u2019ll make you guilty.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll call you names and they\u2019ll be able to bring you down or to make you believe that you\u2019re doing something wrong.<\/p>\n

Invece di dire apertamente: Per me \u00e8 un problema che tu lo faccia,<\/i> lui pu\u00f2 accusarvi di essere frigida per ottenere pi\u00f9 sesso o lei pu\u00f2 accusarvi di essere sessista per farvi comportare come vuole lei.<\/p>\n

Either way, it\u2019s an unhealthy way to express feelings or emotions and you don\u2019t want to be the victim of such a mind game.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/strong> 5 cose che le persone tossiche fanno per distruggervi<\/a><\/p>\n

Gioco #3: Svergognare e squalificare<\/h2>\n

 \"uomo<\/p>\n

Toxic people heal their complexes by bringing other people down. They only feel good if people they\u2019re surrounded by feel miserable and they\u2019ll do everything to build such an environment for themselves.<\/p>\n

Persone che fanno giochi mentali di vergogna<\/a> cercano di esprimere la loro rabbia cercando di beccarvi mentre fate qualcosa che considerano inappropriato.<\/p>\n

They\u2019re just waiting for you to make a mistake so they can shame you or point out how what you\u2019re doing is wrong.<\/p>\n

If you mention something related to religion, for example, it could be that\u2019s all they\u2019ve been waiting for to make you feel ashamed of your beliefs.<\/p>\n

Also, they are very good at disqualifying people. It\u2019s a method of saying something hurtful to someone and then, when they become hurt, doing a double-whammy by making it seem as if they didn\u2019t at all mean what you thought they meant.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s often followed by \u201cSometimes you\u2019re so over sensitive.\u201d or \u201cIt was just a joke, chill.\u201d. They are disqualifying you at first and after that, they\u2019re insulting you. It\u2019s like they purposely hurt you twice.<\/p>\n

Siete sicuri di voler gestire queste cose o di voler essere circondati da questo tipo di persone?<\/p>\n

Although you may be a victim of a toxic person, don\u2019t forget there is a huge possibility that a toxic person is a victim of another toxic person and it just goes round and round.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t change them, but you can try to help them because they truly need help.<\/p>\n

There are people qualified to deal with such issues and the best you can do, if you don\u2019t feel like losing that person, is to hold his\/her hand during the process of realizing they have issues.<\/p>\n

But, if they don\u2019t want help, don\u2019t stick around long enough to be intoxicated by toxic people. You owe yourself much more.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/strong> 4 modi eleganti per liberarsi delle persone negative<\/a><\/p>\n

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Don\u2019t be fooled, you are not the exception. How will you know if you have a toxic person in your life? Let me introduce to you the three most common mind games of toxic people and feel free to judge for yourself. Please, make sure, once this person proves to be toxic, not to convince…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":114553,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2713","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/3-Mind-Games-Every-Single-Toxic-Person-Plays-With-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2713","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2713"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2713\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/114553"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2713"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2713"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}