{"id":27172,"date":"2020-11-05T09:04:30","date_gmt":"2020-11-05T09:04:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27172"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:50:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:50:16","slug":"lamore-ha-bisogno-di-un-duro-lavoro-non-puoi-andartene-quando-le-cose-si-fanno-difficili","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/lamore-ha-bisogno-di-un-duro-lavoro-non-puoi-andartene-quando-le-cose-si-fanno-difficili\/","title":{"rendered":"L'amore richiede un duro lavoro; non potete andarvene solo quando le cose si fanno difficili"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Quando si ama qualcuno, lo si ama fino in fondo. La si ama nei momenti buoni e in quelli cattivi, nelle difficolt\u00e0 e nelle difficolt\u00e0.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t love them only when everything is going smoothly and when life is beautiful. Because when you really love someone, you stay by their side, no matter what happens.<\/p>\n<p>You stick with them even when it&#8217;s not easy and even when the only impulse you have is to run and hide from everything.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, the truth is that love is beautiful and that it shouldn\u2019t make your life harder. But you need to have in mind that love isn\u2019t a real life fairytale and that it will always be far from perfect.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 a volte le cose succedono e basta.<\/p>\n<p>E quando succede, \u00e8 allora che viene messa alla prova la forza e la profondit\u00e0 del vostro amore per l'altra persona. Perch\u00e9 l'amore \u00e8 un viaggio, non una destinazione.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E ha bisogno di un duro lavoro. Bisogna lavorare e lottare per questo. Richiede impegno, energia e molti sacrifici.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122175\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia che guarda l&#039;oceano\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Couple-looking-at-the-ocean-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>E, soprattutto, richiede lo stesso impegno sia nei giorni buoni che in quelli cattivi.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Because you don\u2019t walk away from someone you love just like that.<\/strong> You don\u2019t leave them hanging when something becomes too much for you to handle.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t just turn your back on them the second things get rough.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ed \u00e8 esattamente quello che hai fatto a questa ragazza. L'hai abbandonata quando aveva pi\u00f9 bisogno del tuo sostegno. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Hai rinunciato a lei senza lottare e l'hai lasciata, quando l'unica cosa di cui aveva bisogno era che tu restassi. E questo non \u00e8 qualcosa che si fa a una persona che si ama.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because when you love someone, you go through life shoulder to shoulder with them. You show them that they can count on you and that you\u2019ll always be their partner in crime.<\/p>\n<p>When you love someone, you love all of them\u2014not just the parts you like and find convenient. You accept them with all of their flaws and imperfections.<\/p>\n<p>Accettate tutti i loro problemi come se fossero i vostri e vedete voi due come una squadra.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122173\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta sul pavimento\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-feeling-sad-sitting-on-the-floor-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you truly care about someone, you are aware that things between the two of you won\u2019t always be easy. You understand that your relationship will sometimes go through rough patches.<\/p>\n<p>E quando succede, invece di tirarvi indietro, \u00e8 il momento in cui lottate di pi\u00f9 per mantenere vivo il vostro amore. \u00c8 il momento in cui mettete tutto il vostro impegno e tutta la vostra energia per superare questa crisi.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 il momento in cui dimostrate al vostro partner che credete in voi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>Quando si ama qualcuno, lo si ama allo stesso modo quando \u00e8 al suo meglio e quando \u00e8 in grado di dare il meglio di s\u00e9. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/choose-man-will-love-worst\/\">quando sono al loro peggio<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You hold their hand through thick and thin, and you don\u2019t run away at the first sign of trouble.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t escape when they need to be taken care of, when they need help or just a shoulder to cry on.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t run away when they crave your support and when all they need is you assuring them you aren\u2019t going anywhere.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122172\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone.jpg\" alt=\"Una bella brunetta seduta da sola\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Pretty-brunette-sitting-alone-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Instead, you stand by their side, and you show them that you have their back. You don\u2019t act like their problems are none of your business, and you never even think of giving up on them.<\/p>\n<p>When you love someone, you don\u2019t disappear on them when they need your presence the most.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t chicken out on them, and you show them that the two of you will overcome every life difficulty and obstacle, as long as you are together.<\/p>\n<p>And this is something you\u2019ve never done for this girl. You\u2019ve never showed her that she can rely on you, and you\u2019ve never fought for your relationship.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You know, it is easy to remain in someone\u2019s life when everything is going great. It was easy for you to be with this girl while everything was sugar and spice. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ma ci voleva un vero uomo che fosse davvero presente per lei e che fosse la sua forza.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>And obviously, you weren\u2019t man enough for the job. Instead, you acted like a coward who ran away when she needed you to hold her hand.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Quindi no, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/il-lato-brutto-di-capire-che-non-mi-amera-mai-abbastanza\/\">non l'hai mai amata abbastanza<\/a>. Because you don\u2019t turn your back on the ones you truly love.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-122284\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Love-Needs-Hard-Work-You-Cant-Just-Leave-When-Things-Get-Rough-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"L&#039;amore richiede un duro lavoro; non potete andarvene solo quando le cose si fanno difficili\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Love-Needs-Hard-Work-You-Cant-Just-Leave-When-Things-Get-Rough-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Love-Needs-Hard-Work-You-Cant-Just-Leave-When-Things-Get-Rough-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Love-Needs-Hard-Work-You-Cant-Just-Leave-When-Things-Get-Rough-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Love-Needs-Hard-Work-You-Cant-Just-Leave-When-Things-Get-Rough-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/Love-Needs-Hard-Work-You-Cant-Just-Leave-When-Things-Get-Rough-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When you love someone, you love them all the way. You love them through good and bad times and through thick and thin. You don&#8217;t love them only when everything is going smoothly and when life is beautiful. Because when you really love someone, you stay by their side, no matter what happens. You stick&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":122174,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27172","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Love-Needs-Hard-Work-You-Cant-Just-Leave-When-Things-Get-Rough-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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