{"id":27177,"date":"2020-07-05T09:12:18","date_gmt":"2020-07-05T09:12:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27177"},"modified":"2022-02-26T12:02:46","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T12:02:46","slug":"non-abbiate-paura-di-amare-di-nuovo-non-tutti-saranno-come-il-vostro-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-abbiate-paura-di-amare-di-nuovo-non-tutti-saranno-come-il-vostro-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"Non abbiate paura di amare di nuovo: non tutti saranno come il vostro ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know you\u2019ve been through hell. Maybe you were a victim of abuse. Or you were involved with a narcisista manipolatore <\/a> .<\/p>\n

Or you got cheated on. Or you were with someone who never appreciated you and didn\u2019t love you enough.<\/p>\n

In ogni caso, il punto \u00e8 che avete lasciato entrare l'uomo sbagliato, pensando che fosse quello giusto per voi. Avete amato un uomo tossico con tutto il vostro cuore e lui ha usato il vostro amore solo contro di voi.<\/b><\/p>\n

Vi siete fidati di lui e lui ha tradito la vostra fiducia nel modo peggiore possibile. Avete progettato un futuro con un uomo che ha finito per distruggere tutti i vostri sogni e le vostre speranze.<\/p>\n

You gave him your best and he still thought it wasn\u2019t enough. You prioritized a man who didn\u2019t have the decency to choose you.<\/p>\n

Avete portato il vostro cuore sulla manica e lui l'ha spezzato, senza mai pensare alle conseguenze. Gli hai dato tutto te stesso senza ricevere nulla in cambio.<\/p>\n

All of this crushed you to pieces and it made you question your judgment. Everything this man did left deep wounds on your soul and now, you are convinced that you\u2019ll never mend your broken heart.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

I know that now you see all of this as the end of the world but these things simply happen. Everything doesn\u2019t always go as you planned.<\/p>\n

Le persone si rivelano diverse da come le si immagina.<\/p>\n

E ti si spezza il cuore. Ma tutto questo fa parte della vita.<\/p>\n

And a failed relationship doesn\u2019t equal a failed life. A broken heart doesn\u2019t have to mean that you are broken for good.<\/p>\n

I know that you think that you\u2019ll never recover from everything that has happened to you. I know that you\u2019ve lost all faith in people and that you don\u2019t believe in finding love again.<\/p>\n

Ad essere sinceri, per voi il solo <\/b>il pensiero di innamorarsi di nuovo fa una paura tremenda<\/b><\/a>. You are terrified of diving into a new relationship ever again and you are afraid of getting your heart broken once more because that is something you couldn\u2019t take.<\/b><\/p>\n

E siete pronti a fare qualsiasi cosa per assicurarvi che non accada mai. Tutto ci\u00f2 che volete fare \u00e8 proteggere il vostro cuore dal passare attraverso tutto questo dolore devastante che ha gi\u00e0 sperimentato.<\/p>\n

\"la<\/p>\n

Siete sicuri che l'unico modo per tenervi al sicuro sia rinunciare completamente all'amore. Che la cosa migliore per voi sia tenervi al riparo e agire senza cuore.<\/b><\/p>\n

Besides, you are convinced that you\u2019ve missed out on your chance to be happy. If things hadn\u2019t worked out with your ex-boyfriend, why would it be any different with anyone who comes after him?<\/p>\n

Siete convinte che tutti vi tratteranno come il vostro ex e che tutti gli uomini sono uguali.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ebbene, indovinate un po'? Non lo sono. E se vi permettete di continuare a pensarla cos\u00ec, significa che ha vinto lui.<\/b><\/p>\n

It means that he has managed to change you and that he succeeded in leaving a permanent mark on you. It means that he has impacted your entire life and that you\u2019ve allowed bitterness and fear to take over you completely. It means that you are still a prisoner of everything he did to you.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014this is not me trying to convince you that letting a new man in will be easy or that you are wrong or weak for being scared because that is a completely natural reaction to all the pain and disappointment you\u2019ve experienced. <\/b><\/p>\n

E non sono certo io a dirvi di buttarvi in una nuova relazione solo per dimostrare a voi stessi che avete davvero voltato pagina.<\/p>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Vi sto solo consigliando non rinunciare all'amore<\/a> solo perch\u00e9 hai amato un ragazzo sbagliato e non privarti della possibilit\u00e0 di essere felice solo perch\u00e9 in passato ti hanno spezzato il cuore.<\/b><\/p>\n

Vi dico di guardare a questa relazione fallita come a una dura lezione. Guardatela come un'opportunit\u00e0 per trovare un uomo che sia davvero destinato a essere vostro per sempre, perch\u00e9 tutto accade per una ragione.<\/b><\/p>\n

Vi sto dicendo che un uomo che pensa che tu sia degno verr\u00e0 <\/a> along, even though you don\u2019t believe it now. That you\u2019ll find un uomo che guarir\u00e0 il vostro cuore spezzato<\/a> and who\u2019ll show you what it means to be loved.<\/p>\n

And when he comes, he\u2019ll show you how wrong you were for thinking that everyone is the same. He\u2019ll show you how foolish you were for thinking you should give up on love.<\/p>\n

Because true love really does exist. And when it finally happens to you, you\u2019ll see that it is worthy of everything.<\/p>\n

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