{"id":27340,"date":"2020-04-07T07:55:04","date_gmt":"2020-04-07T07:55:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27340"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:56:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:56:37","slug":"se-fa-queste-8-cose-e-un-narcisista-e-non-e-la-tua-persona-per-sempre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-fa-queste-8-cose-e-un-narcisista-e-non-e-la-tua-persona-per-sempre\/","title":{"rendered":"Se fa queste 8 cose, \u00e8 un narcisista e non \u00e8 la vostra persona per sempre"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ti fa sentire come se fossi tu quella pazza<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87455\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-yelling-at-woman-1.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che urla contro una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-yelling-at-woman-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-yelling-at-woman-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-yelling-at-woman-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se il vostro uomo vi fa costantemente sentire in colpa per ogni problema che ha nella sua vita, \u00e8 probabile che non sia <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/40-segni-che-indicano-una-persona-per-sempre\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> la tua persona per sempre <\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>In realt\u00e0, non \u00e8 altro che un narcisista che vuole solo abusare di voi, per sentirsi bene.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t give a damn about you, but in some moments, he will act like the sweetest man of them all just to get what he wants.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Controlla ogni tua mossa<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87456\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/jealous-man-looking-at-woman-phone.jpg\" alt=\"uomo geloso che guarda il telefono di una donna \" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/jealous-man-looking-at-woman-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/jealous-man-looking-at-woman-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/jealous-man-looking-at-woman-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se vuole sapere dove siete e con chi siete ogni secondo, allora \u00e8 un vero maniaco del controllo.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t trust you, and he thinks that you will cheat on him whenever you are not with him.<\/p>\n<p>Pensa in questo modo perch\u00e9 lo farebbe anche se fosse senza di te.<\/p>\n<p>E dimentica tutto ci\u00f2 che di buono avete fatto per lui nel momento in cui uscite di casa.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need to mention that he will call you a hundred times until you come home just to check where you are.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ti illumina con il gas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87457\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/serious-woman-looking-at-man-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"donna seria che guarda l&#039;uomo al bar\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/serious-woman-looking-at-man-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/serious-woman-looking-at-man-at-cafe-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/serious-woman-looking-at-man-at-cafe-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il gaslighting \u00e8 un metodo che tutti i narcisisti usano per attorcigliare facilmente le loro vittime intorno al loro dito.<\/p>\n<p>Se vi convince che avete torto e che lui ha sempre ragione, allora c'\u00e8 qualcosa che non va nella relazione.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you actually saw him cheating on you, he will try to convince you that you didn\u2019t see it accurately.<\/p>\n<p>User\u00e0 tutti i mezzi necessari <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/6-modi-in-cui-chi-tradisce-fa-la-vittima\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> per fare la vittima <\/a> o eroe e di incolparvi per tutto ci\u00f2 che di negativo accade nella vostra relazione.<\/p>\n<p>A guy like this doesn\u2019t feel any remorse for doing this, and in fact, that is the only way he knows how to function in a relationship.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vi maltratta<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87458\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/angry-man-yelling-at-crying-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo arrabbiato che urla contro una donna in lacrime\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/angry-man-yelling-at-crying-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/angry-man-yelling-at-crying-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/angry-man-yelling-at-crying-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let him get away with his abuse just because he doesn\u2019t use his fists.<\/p>\n<p>A volte, l'abuso emotivo pu\u00f2 essere molto peggiore di quello fisico.<\/p>\n<p>Le ferite sul corpo guariranno, ma le parole che vi ha detto rimarranno sempre impresse nella vostra testa.<\/p>\n<p>So, if he uses tricks and tactics to make you stay with him and if he plays the victim every time you say you will leave him, you should know that you are dealing with a serious narcissist and that he won\u2019t let you go just like that.<\/p>\n<p>Quindi, non appena vi accorgete che qualcosa non va all'inizio di una relazione, scappate il pi\u00f9 lontano possibile.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He is using \u2018love bombing\u2019<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87459\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-hugging-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che abbraccia donna triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-hugging-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-hugging-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-hugging-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If your guy treats you badly throughout all your relationship but only for a short period of time he acts like the world\u2019s greatest partner, then he is using one of a narcissist\u2019s favorite tactics also known as <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/7-signs-its-love-bombing-and-not-real-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> bombardamento d'amore <\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Ti d\u00e0 deliberatamente tutto il suo amore solo perch\u00e9 tu possa diventare dipendente da lui.<\/p>\n<p>E nei momenti in cui si comporter\u00e0 male con voi, resterete comunque con lui perch\u00e9 state aspettando un'altra dose del suo amore.<\/p>\n<p>Ma dovete sapere che lui \u00e8 incapace di amare e che quello che vi d\u00e0 sono solo le briciole della sua tavola.<\/p>\n<p>He pretends to be someone he is not because he doesn\u2019t want to lose the only person who would do anything for him.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Vi interrompe ogni volta che volete esprimere la vostra opinione.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87460\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-couple-arguing-in-bedroom.jpg\" alt=\"giovane coppia che discute in camera da letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-couple-arguing-in-bedroom.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-couple-arguing-in-bedroom-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/young-couple-arguing-in-bedroom-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se avete una relazione con un uomo che rivolge ogni conversazione a se stesso e non vi lascia esprimere la vostra opinione, allora avete a che fare con un narcisista serio.<\/p>\n<p>He does that because he can\u2019t stand when you are in the spotlight, and he will do anything to make himself feel good.<\/p>\n<p>Interrupting you means that he doesn\u2019t respect you and that he actually doesn\u2019t give a damn about you.<\/p>\n<p>Si preoccupa solo di se stesso e vuole sentirsi bene facendovi stare male.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Si comporta come se fosse lui il dominante in una relazione<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87464\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dominant-man-arguing-with-woman.jpg\" alt=\"Uomo dominante che discute con una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dominant-man-arguing-with-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dominant-man-arguing-with-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dominant-man-arguing-with-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Besides the fact that he doesn\u2019t let you say what you think, he takes all the rights in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Prende tutte le decisioni perch\u00e9 pensa di essere pi\u00f9 bravo di voi.<\/p>\n<p>He never listen to what you have to say, and he doesn\u2019t care about your feelings at all.<\/p>\n<p>Vuole stare sempre in cima perch\u00e9 \u00e8 l'unico posto in cui si sente al sicuro.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/if-he-really-loved-you-he-would-have-never-hurt-you\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> Vi far\u00e0 persino del male <\/a> or make you feel bad just so he would feel good. He doesn\u2019t like when you are happier than him because he has a twisted idea of love.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Manca di empatia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87468\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/handsome-man-driving-a-car.jpg\" alt=\"uomo affascinante alla guida di un&#039;auto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/handsome-man-driving-a-car.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/handsome-man-driving-a-car-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/handsome-man-driving-a-car-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A narcissist is someone who can\u2019t feel empathy toward others.<\/p>\n<p>Se vedete che il vostro uomo non capisce mai i vostri problemi e il vostro dolore, \u00e8 probabile che sia solo un narcisista che si preoccupa solo di se stesso.<\/p>\n<p>Dovete sapere che un uomo del genere non potr\u00e0 mai darvi l'amore che meritate e che con lui non sentirete mai la pace dentro di voi.<\/p>\n<p>He will just abuse you in all possible ways. He will suck you dry and in the end, abandon you. And the worst thing is that he won\u2019t even feel bad for doing all that.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-87454\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/If-He-Does-These-8-Things-He\u2019s-A-Narcissist-And-Not-Your-Forever-Person-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se fa queste 8 cose, \u00e8 un narcisista e non \u00e8 la vostra persona per sempre\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/If-He-Does-These-8-Things-He\u2019s-A-Narcissist-And-Not-Your-Forever-Person-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/If-He-Does-These-8-Things-He\u2019s-A-Narcissist-And-Not-Your-Forever-Person-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/If-He-Does-These-8-Things-He\u2019s-A-Narcissist-And-Not-Your-Forever-Person-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>He makes you feel like you are the crazy one If your guy constantly makes you feel bad for every problem he has in his life, chances are that he is not your forever person . In fact, he is nothing but a narcissist who just wants to abuse you, so he would feel good&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":87476,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27340","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/If-He-Does-These-8-Things-He\u2019s-A-Narcissist-And-Not-Your-Forever-Person.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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