{"id":27350,"date":"2018-11-07T09:30:27","date_gmt":"2018-11-07T09:30:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27350"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:18:50","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:18:50","slug":"la-tragedia-di-vederlo-disinnamorarsi-di-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-tragedia-di-vederlo-disinnamorarsi-di-te\/","title":{"rendered":"La tragedia di vederlo disinnamorarsi di te"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you are in love, you are consumed by that feeling, and it is all you can think about. Even when you don\u2019t want to, you still find yourself daydreaming about him.<\/span><\/p>\n

L'amore \u00e8 una cosa buffa<\/span><\/i>. You don\u2019t really think you need it, but when you have it.. it consumes every fiber of your being, and you don\u2019t know how you could\u2019ve ever been without it. Your heart needs to feel his in order to keep beating. It\u2019s like fuel that is making your whole body function properly.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you\u2019ve lived without love for so long, you kind of get used to it, so much so that it feels like you can do this by yourself. You are perfectly fine being your own fuel and igniting your own spark. <\/span>Fino a quel giorno.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Until the day you meet that special someone who makes you question how you ever could\u2019ve thought of doing this solo. Now, it seems unimaginable. Now, you have <\/span>lui<\/span><\/i>, and the thought of ever living without him feels like knives…<\/span><\/p>\n

When he isn\u2019t near, you yearn for his touch. Even if he had just left, you covet his closeness. All you want is his lips touching yours, and his body intertwined with yours. You love his scent more than anything, and when he isn\u2019t there, you lie in his bed, feeling like he\u2019s there and longing for his return… Life is so good it feels like a dream.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

The universe has finally granted you with something so precious, and everyday feels like a fairytale that you get to relive every single morning when you wake up next to his face. The thought of it ending makes you physically sick and gets your gut churning\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

LA PERDITA DI LUI INIZIA GRADUALMENTE.<\/span><\/p>\n

One day, everything seems perfect…until suddenly, like changing seasons…a chilly breeze runs all over you and indicates an imminent change.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you wake up that day, everything seems normal at first glance, but then you look at him. You don\u2019t feel the instant warmth he exudes when your eyes meet, and he doesn\u2019t kiss you like every other morning.<\/span><\/p>\n

You feel uneasy, but you tell yourself it\u2019s all your imagination. Everything is okay.<\/span><\/p>\n

You feel like there is this weird wall between you all of a sudden, and he doesn\u2019t look at you the way he usually does. Something is missing, but you can\u2019t (or won\u2019t) quite figure it out.<\/span><\/p>\n

You brush it off. It\u2019s just your mind playing tricks on you.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

C'\u00c8 UN VUOTO NEL VOSTRO CUORE.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"LaYou are starting to feel hollow. Your heart feels like it\u2019s losing the most important thing it needs to keep beating.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whatever you do, you do it half-heartedly. You no longer feel like the main actor in the story of your life. You don\u2019t feel in control any longer.<\/span><\/p>\n

La maggior parte del tempo siete sull'orlo del pianto. La tristezza vi segue ovunque andiate e non potete sfuggirle. Vi vergognate di quanto <\/span>desiderare il suo amore<\/i><\/b>. Avete bisogno di sentirvi vicini a lui, ma lui sembra essere <\/span>scivolare via<\/span><\/a>\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Il processo \u00e8 molto lento. Le ferite diventano pi\u00f9 profonde ogni giorno che passa e il vuoto nel cuore comincia a far male fisicamente.<\/span><\/p>\n

STA SCIVOLANDO VIA.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ora potete davvero sentire la graduale perdita del suo amore. Non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 interessato a voi. <\/span>It\u2019s almost palpable how much it hurts.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

The sweet gentle kisses when he sees you are gone. The constant search for your hand to hold is gone. The tender embrace that leaves you so full of love and gratitude is gone. Any signs of affection that he used to display toward you are gone and forgotten\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

Cercate di avere amore per entrambi. Cerchi di dimostrargli affetto baciando le sue labbra due volte pi\u00f9 spesso. Gli tendi disperatamente la mano, sperando che la sua stretta sia abbastanza forte da dimostrarti che ci tiene ancora...<\/span><\/p>\n

Stai facendo tutto ci\u00f2 che \u00e8 in tuo potere per fargli capire quanto sei disperata per il suo tocco.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

TI SENTI COMPLETAMENTE SENZA SPERANZA.<\/span><\/p>\n

You are beating yourself up, wondering how you could\u2019ve salvaged this. What could you possibly have done to not let him slip away from you completely?<\/span><\/p>\n

Si sente <\/span>inutile<\/span><\/a>. Deve esserci qualcosa di sbagliato in te. Come pu\u00f2 essere diventato cos\u00ec distante e sfuggente se tutto ci\u00f2 che hai fatto \u00e8 stato dargli il tuo cuore su un piatto d'argento?<\/span><\/p>\n

Le lacrime scendono sul vostro misero viso mentre cercate di accettare il fatto che non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 nulla da fare. State finalmente realizzando che \u00e8 davvero finita e che il vostro cuore non si sentir\u00e0 meglio nel prossimo futuro.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Quello che credevi fosse il tuo <\/span>per sempre<\/span><\/i> \u00e8 lentamente scomparso dalla vostra vita, rendendola il pi\u00f9 difficile possibile con ogni singolo e sottile colpo.<\/span><\/p>\n

IL PENSIERO DI ESSERE DI NUOVO SINGLE VI FA RABBRIVIDIRE.<\/span><\/p>\n

Il pensiero di dover ripetere tutti gli appuntamenti su Tinder vi spaventa. Dover fare <\/span>aprire<\/span><\/a> to somebody again, after having your great love slip away so recently seems unbearable…<\/span><\/p>\n

Improvvisamente, vi ritrovate di nuovo nel mondo dei single. Invece di trovarlo ad aspettarvi ogni sera sotto una coperta sul divano, tornate a casa in un appartamento vuoto. Non riuscite a immaginare di essere di nuovo da sole dopo aver sperimentato questo amore profondo.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Si torna alla vecchia vita. Alla tua vecchia routine. Chiamate le vostre ragazze. Ti sfoghi. Iniziate a capire che, dopotutto, c'\u00e8 speranza per voi. Ci sono persone nella vostra vita che renderanno questo cambiamento improvviso il pi\u00f9 semplice possibile.<\/span><\/p>\n

Non starete bene tanto presto. Ma con il tempo, e circondati da coloro che amate, inizierete a tornare come prima.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

And when you do, you are not going to let yourself dwell in the past of what could\u2019ve been. No. You are going to be grateful for the beautiful love story you had, but one that had to come to its end.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sai che se fosse stato quello giusto per te, non ti sarebbe mai sfuggito cos\u00ec facilmente.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quindi, si continua a vivere. Si continua a lavorare su se stessi e ci si apre alla possibilit\u00e0 di un nuovo amore. Tutto pu\u00f2 accadere quando si ha fiducia in se stessi. E quando meno te lo aspetti, qualcosa di bello accadr\u00e0. <\/span><\/p>\n

Vi meritate quella grande storia d'amore che non ha un finale in vista. Siate pazienti e lasciatevi guarire. Le cose incredibili tendono ad accadere quando si \u00e8 meno preparati ad affrontarle. Non tutti gli amori fanno cos\u00ec male. <\/span><\/p>\n

Permettete a voi stessi di essere di nuovo felici e aprite il vostro cuore a nuove cose. Quando credete, <\/span>possono accadere cose magiche.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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