{"id":27360,"date":"2020-04-07T09:58:30","date_gmt":"2020-04-07T09:58:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27360"},"modified":"2022-01-10T02:49:24","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T02:49:24","slug":"le-10-cose-piu-comuni-che-dice-se-ti-sta-manipolando","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-10-cose-piu-comuni-che-dice-se-ti-sta-manipolando\/","title":{"rendered":"Le 8 cose pi\u00f9 comuni che dice se ti sta manipolando"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. \u201cIt isn\u2019t a big deal.\u201d<\/h2>\n

Non vede mai il motivo di tutto questo trambusto, il motivo per cui siete arrabbiati o il modo in cui le sue azioni vi hanno ferito. L'unica cosa che gli interessa \u00e8 liberarsi dal senso di colpa per avervi trattato male.<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che nessuno pu\u00f2 dirvi come sentirvi in certi momenti. Se vi ha ferito, dovrebbe mettersi nei vostri panni e pensare a come si sentirebbe se le cose fossero al contrario.<\/p>\n

2. \u201cYou are being too emotional.\u201d<\/h2>\n

Your relationship should make you feel comfortable enough to express your emotions; however, he fails to realize that he made you upset or sad. He doesn\u2019t want to see or hear you cry.<\/p>\n

Cerca un colpevole e prova piacere nel vedere le vostre emozioni esagerate, invece di affrontare il fatto che \u00e8 lui il motivo che vi fa sentire cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier than reassuring you that everything is OK, or – God forbid – apologize for something he has done.<\/p>\n

3. \u201cYou must have heard it wrong, I never said that.\u201d<\/h2>\n

He will basically make you question your sanity. He will deny his own words up to the point where you perhaps start to think \u201cMaybe I actually heard it wrong.\u201d<\/p>\n

No, there\u2019s nothing wrong with your hearing or your memory, you are simply emotivamente esaurito<\/a> and are letting things slide because you can\u2019t ponder over them forever.<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 il suo modo di mantenere il controllo su di voi e di distorcere la realt\u00e0. Con il tempo non fa che peggiorare!<\/p>\n

4. \u201cWhy can\u2019t you trust me for once?\u201d<\/h2>\n

If he is the sole cause and responsible for your trust issues, if he lied, cheated or betrayed you in any way, why is he so surprised that you don\u2019t trust him?<\/p>\n

Broken trust is not something that can be mended overnight. To be honest, it\u2019s difficult to ever repair it.<\/p>\n

But he is not working on gaining your trust. It\u2019s easier to shift the focus on you and your lack of trust, instead of putting in actual effort to prove and show you that he has changed.<\/p>\n

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5. \u201cIt seems like I can\u2019t do anything right.\u201d<\/h2>\n

Fare la vittima \u00e8 una delle tattiche di manipolazione pi\u00f9 comuni utilizzate dalle persone tossiche. Sanno che siete empatici e che prima o poi comincerete a dispiacervi per loro.<\/p>\n

Vi sentirete chiedere scusa, anche quando sapete di avere ragione, perch\u00e9 vi ha fatto sentire come se foste irragionevoli e lo faceste sentire in colpa.<\/p>\n

In queste situazioni vi far\u00e0 sentire come se foste una persona cattiva, mentre lui \u00e8 innocente in tutto questo.<\/p>\n

6. \u201cYou did the same exact thing.\u201d<\/h2>\n

When he does something he knows he never should – texting his ex, saying that he had been some place when he hadn’t or lie, he will remember that offense is the best defense.<\/p>\n

Interpreter\u00e0 un gioco delle colpe<\/a>. Ricorder\u00e0 e amplificher\u00e0 ogni vostro errore del passato.<\/p>\n

Equiparer\u00e0 il tuo ex che ti augura un buon compleanno a lui che manda messaggi alla sua ex per mesi, o la tua bugia bianca ad alcune delle sue famose bugie.<\/p>\n

7. \u201cI didn\u2019t lie, I just didn\u2019t tell you. It must have slipped off my mind.\u201d<\/h2>\n

Withholding the truth, especially when it\u2019s something important is as good as telling lies.<\/p>\n

He will defend himself by telling you that he told you all about a particular thing, when you asked and for him, it wasn\u2019t so important and the matter slipped from his mind and so on.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is if he hasn’t told you something that directly affects your relationship, he is to blame. He will attempt to manipulate you into thinking he isn’t.<\/p>\n

8. \u201cI\u2019m going to bed.\u201d<\/h2>\n

He has no problem falling asleep during the middle of an argument. You might be upset, crying or asking him questions – but he doesn’t care!<\/p>\n

He knows very well that you won\u2019t be able to fall asleep and twill probably think about all that has happened during the entire night.<\/p>\n

You will be unable to function properly in the morning while he will be well-rested. He knows you won\u2019t be able to spend more energy to continue an argument and that things will, in all probability, be left unresolved permanently.<\/p>\n

L'uomo giusto ti rassicurerebbe e troverebbe una soluzione al tuo problema, invece di girarsi dall'altra parte e mostrare solo quanto poco gli importi di te.<\/a><\/p>\n

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