{"id":27399,"date":"2020-06-07T11:42:25","date_gmt":"2020-06-07T11:42:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27399"},"modified":"2022-01-10T02:51:15","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T02:51:15","slug":"al-ragazzo-che-non-ha-ancora-capito-cosa-ha-perso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/al-ragazzo-che-non-ha-ancora-capito-cosa-ha-perso\/","title":{"rendered":"Al ragazzo che non ha ancora capito cosa ha perso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Probabilmente in questo momento siete in un bar a controllare il vostro prossimo obiettivo e a pensare ai modi per manipolarla. <\/span><\/p>\n

Oppure siete a un appuntamento galante con una ragazza che state cercando di impressionare con il vostro senso dell'umorismo. <\/span><\/p>\n

Or you are sleeping peacefully next to some random girl you picked up last night, whose name you don\u2019t even remember.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019re confident and full of yourself. You are having the time of your life and everything is going as planned.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can even say that you are happy. After all, there is nothing and nobody bothering you and you don\u2019t think much about what tomorrow will bring you.<\/span><\/p>\n

But this won\u2019t last for long because soon, you\u2019ll start hearing a tiny, quiet voice in the back of your head. <\/b><\/p>\n

A voice telling you that you\u2019ve blown it. Telling you that you\u2019ve ruined your only true chance of happiness.<\/b><\/p>\n

A voice telling you that you\u2019ve let go of the best thing that ever happened to you. A voice telling you that you\u2019ve lost a lot.<\/span><\/p>\n

At first, you\u2019ll manage to shut it out but with time, the voice will become louder and louder.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Soon, you\u2019ll wake up in the middle of the night and you\u2019ll realize that you dreamed of her\u2014of the only <\/span>ragazza che ti ha amato davvero<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see her clear image in front of your eyes and everything you did to her will start to haunt you.<\/span><\/p>\n

And then, for a moment, you\u2019ll admit to yourself that you still miss her. You\u2019ll admit that you miss the way she loved you and the way she took care of you.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll look the truth in the eye and you\u2019ll see that you miss having someone who thinks that you are worthy and someone who believes in you. <\/span><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll see that you miss someone loving you unconditionally and without asking for anything in return.<\/span><\/p>\n

All of a sudden, you\u2019ll see that you\u2019ve spent all these years missing everything about her.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll admit to yourself that you still think of her and that you regret chasing her away more than anything. You\u2019ll be consumed by guilt and there will be nothing you can do to shake it off. <\/span><\/p>\n

And just like that, for the first time ever, you\u2019ll really see what you\u2019ve lost.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando ci\u00f2 accade, sarete pronti a fare qualsiasi cosa pur di tornare indietro nel tempo e sistemare le cose. You\u2019ll want just one more chance with her<\/a>. But you won\u2019t get it.<\/span><\/p>\n

When that happens, you\u2019ll start begging and chasing her, the same way she chased you. You\u2019ll start looking for her and you\u2019ll see that she is nowhere to be found.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quando inizi a pensare a lei, <\/b>she\u2019ll have forgotten all about you<\/b><\/a>. Her soul will have healed completely and she\u2019ll have picked up the broken pieces of her shattered heart.<\/b><\/p>\n

When you realize what you\u2019ve lost, it will be too late because she\u2019ll be long gone and you\u2019ll be completely forgotten.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sai, questa ragazza ha visto il suo valore prima di te. Ha visto che era sempre abbastanza e che tu non l'hai mai meritata.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ha visto che era abbastanza forte da farcela senza di te e ti ha superato, anche se tu eri convinto che non l'avrebbe mai fatto. <\/span><\/p>\n

Si \u00e8 tolta gli occhiali rosa e ha finalmente visto il vero te. E proprio cos\u00ec, ti ha lasciato nel passato ed \u00e8 andata avanti con la sua vita.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, when you finally realize everything and when you understand the mistake you made, don\u2019t get your hopes up because this girl will be happy, far away from you.<\/span><\/p>\n

E una volta iniziato <\/span>cercarla in tutte le altre donne<\/span><\/a>, she\u2019ll have someone worthy of being by her side. <\/span><\/p>\n

She\u2019ll have someone who never takes her for granted and who saw how special she is from the moment she walked into his life. Someone who will never let her go.<\/span><\/p>\n

Once you realize what you\u2019ve lost, she\u2019ll have someone who will treat her the way she deserves and the way you never did. <\/b><\/p>\n

She\u2019ll finally have the love she never got from you and for her, you\u2019ll be nothing more than a distant memory and a tough lesson.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Al <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You are probably in some bar right now, checking out your next target and thinking about the ways to manipulate her. Or you are on a fancy dinner date with some girl you are trying to impress with your sense of humor. Or you are sleeping peacefully next to some random girl you picked up…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":27400,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27399","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/benjamin-ranger-1136614-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27399","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27399"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27399\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27400"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27399"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27399"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27399"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}