{"id":27433,"date":"2018-11-08T08:32:17","date_gmt":"2018-11-08T08:32:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27433"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:17:34","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:17:34","slug":"6-motivi-sconvolgenti-per-cui-si-finisce-sempre-per-essere-una-quasi-fidanzata","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-motivi-sconvolgenti-per-cui-si-finisce-sempre-per-essere-una-quasi-fidanzata\/","title":{"rendered":"6 ragioni sconvolgenti per cui si finisce sempre per essere una quasi-fidanzata"},"content":{"rendered":"

Being an \u201calmost girlfriend\u201d sucks. It is really frustrating to wonder whether things will go in the right direction or you\u2019ll end up in an \u201cquasi relazione<\/span><\/a>\u201d every single time you meet a great guy.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 uno schifo quando si deve sempre contemplare il proprio stato di relazione, perch\u00e9 uccide tutta la gioia. E nessuno merita di vivere nella paura di essere rifiutato. Nessuno merita di vivere in una falsa speranza per poi rendersi conto che le cose non sono come si pensava che fossero.<\/p>\n

There are endless reasons for this phenomenon, and sometimes it\u2019s kind of your fault. Here are 6 reasons that will help you understand why you always end up being an almost girlfriend and never the real deal.<\/p>\n

1. You\u2019re too yearning<\/h2>\n

You can\u2019t stop thinking about him, and you do everything in your power to show him. If he sees that you\u2019re all about him, he might get confused and even scared of you.<\/p>\n

Anche se vi piace davvero tanto, non \u00e8 mai una buona idea sommergerlo di affetto. La scelta migliore \u00e8 mostrare il proprio affetto in modo pi\u00f9 sottile.<\/p>\n

Gli uomini in genere hanno paura delle emozioni e se gliene date troppe, finiranno per scappare perch\u00e9 non sono in grado di digerirle. Ecco perch\u00e9 cambiano idea su di voi all'improvviso.<\/p>\n

2. You\u2019re not giving him space<\/h2>\n

If you\u2019re constantly texting him and calling when he doesn\u2019t text you back, he will feel like you\u2019re forcing him to act the way you want him to. If a guy senses that you\u2019re too into his personal space, he will run for his life.<\/p>\n

You should always make sure to give him some space, so that he can recharge himself. Even if he doesn\u2019t text you immediately, there\u2019s no need to freak out about it.<\/p>\n

If you do freak out, things will only get worse, and from a potential girlfriend you\u2019ll end up being an almost girlfriend. Don\u2019t let that happen.<\/p>\n

3. Non si notano le bandiere rosse<\/h2>\n

Sometimes a guy is clearly showing that he\u2019s not interested in you, but you\u2019re too infatuated to realize it. If he\u2019s constantly making excuses, doesn\u2019t have time for you or all of a sudden goes on multiple trips, maybe he is trying to tell you that he doesn\u2019t want any kind of a relationship with you.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re head over heels for him, you might start making excuses for his behavior, and that way, you\u2019ll miss the red flags that were in front of you this whole time. Always have your eyes wide open, and believe what you see.<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019re too compliant<\/h2>\n

If you let him do whatever he wants and however he wants it, you\u2019ll most surely not get what YOU want. It is okay to give him some space for himself, but you shouldn\u2019t let him delete you from his priority list.<\/p>\n

Se giocare ai videogiochi, uscire con gli amici o bere birra nei pub sono le sue priorit\u00e0, voi diventate immediatamente la sua seconda scelta. Diventi una quasi-fidanzata perch\u00e9 sei stata troppo accondiscendente.<\/p>\n

Abbiate sempre dei limiti. Non permettete mai che vi trattino in modo diverso da quello che meritate.<\/p>\n

5. You\u2019re beating around the bush<\/h2>\n

One day you overwhelm him with affection, and the day after you\u2019re not sure if he\u2019s the one you want to be with. If you\u2019re not sure about what you want, he will notice it and act accordingly.<\/p>\n

Also, if you\u2019re one hundred percent sure that you want to be with him but you haven\u2019t shown him, he might start dating others as well because he\u2019s not sure about your intentions.<\/p>\n

Se volete stare con lui, dovete dirlo ad alta voce, in modo che sappia che siete il vero affare.<\/p>\n

Se lo fate, le possibilit\u00e0 di essere una quasi-fidanzata diminuiranno notevolmente.<\/p>\n

6. Scegliete i ragazzi sbagliati<\/h2>\n

Maybe you choose someone who is far away from being your equivalent, and you realize it too late. If you\u2019re a creative soul, you can never function with someone who is too conservative or reserved.<\/p>\n

You should choose your potential partners wisely because if you don\u2019t, there\u2019s a chance that you\u2019ll end up being an almost girlfriend without even knowing why. You shouldn\u2019t be too picky either.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to give a chance to everyone, but your heart is the one which will choose the right one.<\/p>\n

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