{"id":27476,"date":"2020-11-08T12:12:41","date_gmt":"2020-11-08T12:12:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27476"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:45:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:45:06","slug":"non-si-meritava-lo-strazio-che-le-hai-procurato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-si-meritava-lo-strazio-che-le-hai-procurato\/","title":{"rendered":"Non si meritava lo strazio che le hai procurato"},"content":{"rendered":"

Le relazioni finiscono. Le persone si allontanano l'una dall'altra. Si disinnamorano o si stancano dell'altra persona. Tutto questo fa parte della vita.<\/span><\/p>\n

E lei lo capisce. Capisce che a un certo punto hai smesso di amarla. O forse hai <\/span>non l'ho mai amata abbastanza<\/span><\/a> ma ti ci sono voluti anni per capirlo?<\/span><\/p>\n

She understands that you obviously didn\u2019t see a future with her and that you didn\u2019t want to stay by her side any longer. <\/span>So, she doesn\u2019t blame you for leaving her.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ma lei ti incolpa per il modo in cui l'hai fatto. Ti incolpa per tutte le cose che le hai fatto prima di allontanarti definitivamente dalla sua vita. Ti incolpa per tutto il dolore che le hai causato, anche se poteva essere evitato.<\/b><\/p>\n

Lei ti rimprovera di averle spezzato il cuore e di averla fatta a pezzi. Perch\u00e9 sa benissimo che era l'ultima cosa che si meritava.<\/b><\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t deserve you treating her the way you did. She didn\u2019t deserve you not being man enough and not taking responsibility for your actions. She didn\u2019t deserve the fights, the emotional abuse and the fact that you tried to make her feel guilty for everything that went wrong between the two of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t deserve you taking her for granted or treating her like your backup plan, nor you counting on the fact she\u2019d always be someone you could go back to, when everyone else left you or if everything else failed.<\/span><\/p>\n

This girl didn\u2019t deserve you abandoning her when she needed you the most. She didn\u2019t deserve to waste years on you when you knew all along that you could never be the man she deserved to have by her side.<\/span><\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t deserve you cheating on her or lying to her. And she certainly didn\u2019t deserve you emotionally scarring her for life.<\/span><\/p>\n

She didn\u2019t deserve you <\/span>convincing her that she wasn\u2019t meant to be loved<\/span><\/a> and losing all faith and trust in everyone around her. She didn\u2019t deserve you spiritually killing her or making her doubt herself and her worth.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sapete bene che questa ragazza vi ha dato tutto quello che aveva, senza chiedere nulla in cambio. Sapete che portava il suo cuore sulla manica e che vi amava come nessun altro nella vostra vita potr\u00e0 mai fare.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sapete che era pronta a smuovere le montagne per il vostro bene, mentre voi non avete mai mosso un dito per lei. Che \u00e8 stata lei a fare tutti gli sforzi e i sacrifici. L'unica che ha lottato per questa relazione, mentre tu eri pronto a rinunciarvi cos\u00ec facilmente.<\/span><\/p>\n

E questo \u00e8 il modo in cui l'hai ripagata?<\/b> Da <\/span>allontanarsi senza dire una parola<\/span><\/a>? Non dandole una chiusura?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c8 stato cos\u00ec che l'hai ringraziata per tutte le cose buone che ha fatto per te?<\/b> Lasciandola a chiedersi cosa sia andato storto e cosa avrebbe potuto fare per evitare che tu te ne andassi?<\/span><\/p>\n

Era cos\u00ec che le dimostravi la tua gratitudine per tutto quello che ti aveva dato?<\/b> Facendole passare tutte queste sofferenze? Tenendola sveglia di notte, pensando a tutto il male che le hai causato?<\/span><\/p>\n

Couldn\u2019t you have been the bigger person and showed her some more respect? Couldn\u2019t you at least have acted like you appreciated all of her love even if you stopped feeling it back? Couldn\u2019t you have chosen to be a mature man instead of being a selfish asshole?<\/b><\/p>\n

Ma indovinate un po'? Si rialzer\u00e0 da questo dolore. E quando questo accadr\u00e0 e quando finalmente vi vedr\u00e0 per quello che siete veramente, non potrete pi\u00f9 tornare indietro.  <\/span><\/p>\n

She will pick up the pieces of her crushed heart and everything you did will just make her stronger. All the pain you made her go through will empower her to become the best possible version of herself. And that is when she\u2019ll realize that you breaking her heart was actually the best thing that could have ever happened to her.  <\/span><\/p>\n

So apparently, even though you are the one who left, she is the one who won. And you know why? Because she will be happy again and you\u2019ll forever remain the same piece of shit you\u2019ve always been.<\/b><\/p>\n

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