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<\/p>\nWe\u2019ve all sworn not to be like this. We\u2019ve all sworn that we won\u2019t forget our friends once we fall in love and we\u2019ve mocked those doing so for way too long. <\/b><\/p>\n
Questo si \u00e8 ritorto contro di noi.<\/p>\n
All'inizio volevo bruciare tutte le nostre foto e cancellare quelle che avevo nella mia galleria. Volevo cancellare quel periodo della mia vita perch\u00e9 il futuro non riservava nulla a noi due.<\/p>\n
Aveva trovato la sua vera anima gemella e per me non c'era pi\u00f9 n\u00e9 tempo n\u00e9 luogo.<\/p>\n
But the fact that we didn\u2019t hang around as we used did couldn\u2019t change the fact that we had so many amazing and exciting moments together. That can\u2019t be erased.<\/p>\n
I spent so much time thinking, \u201c Who else am I going to call my best friend?\u201d.<\/b><\/p>\n
We\u2019ve been friends for so long and I had plenty of people around, but you know how it goes\u2014there is this one really best friend; others are just people I hang around with.<\/p>\n
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Era sempre l\u00ec, credo.<\/b> Era l\u00ec per le notti selvagge. Era l\u00ec per curare il mio cuore spezzato.<\/p>\n
She was there for Netflix and chill\u2014the only one I let change my favorite show until she wasn\u2019t anymore. It felt kind of empty.<\/p>\n
I ricordi erano ovunque.<\/b> I ricordi sono ancora ovunque. C'era il nostro posto preferito per mangiare dopo una serata fuori.<\/p>\n
C'era il nostro gelato speciale per un cuore spezzato e abbiamo ballato la nostra canzone preferita. Credo che da amici siamo diventati estranei con i ricordi.<\/p>\n
Boohoo for me\u2014I know I am not the only one out there to live these things. It\u2019s just awkward when people ask me about her and why they don\u2019t see us together any longer. It\u2019s a little too obvious, don\u2019t you think? <\/i><\/p>\n
She was no longer up for wild nights out. She wasn\u2019t always available and most of her plans contained her new boyfriend as well.<\/p>\n
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See, I felt betrayed, left alone, played and what not. We had our plan\u2014we had our mantra that we lived until she fell in love.<\/p>\n
And still she had me in her plan. She did, but it wasn\u2019t the only two of us and it somehow felt awkward. So, we fell apart.<\/p>\n
Vedi anche:<\/strong> Ecco come una relazione tossica ha ucciso il mio migliore amico<\/p>\n Ho iniziato a pensare all'amicizia che avevamo e alle amicizie in generale.<\/b><\/p>\n I realized most of our friendships are formed when we\u2019re in our 20s and when life is scary as hell. It\u2019s mostlyfriendships out of need.<\/b><\/p>\n We need someone who\u2019ll share our deprivation. We need someone who\u2019ll share the same feelings as we do. We need somebody who\u2019ll understand us and we need to be taken care of.<\/p>\n When our whole world is falling apart, we need someone to tell us it\u2019ll be alright\u2014basically, we need our soulmates. Someone in whose life we\u2019re reflected.<\/p>\n La seconda cosa che ho capito \u00e8 che i nostri amici sono davvero le nostre anime gemelle, ma solo per un po'.<\/b><\/p>\n Perch\u00e9 quando esci, trovi un ragazzo con cui passare le notti, che era l'obiettivo principale della tua uscita.<\/p>\n We might fool ourselves and think we go out to have fun, but it\u2019s only fun if there are cute guys around us.<\/p>\n Love is what we\u2019re constantly searching for.<\/b> Che ci piaccia o meno ammetterlo, abbiamo bisogno dell'amore per funzionare.<\/p>\n Abbiamo bisogno di infilarci nel letto con un uomo che amiamo e di avere qualcuno a cui appoggiare la testa. Questo tipo di intimit\u00e0 \u00e8 un livello completamente nuovo e, dopo qualche anno, lo capisco.<\/p>\n Capisco che sia andata avanti e abbia trovato qualcuno di speciale nella sua vita. Era l\u00ec quando avevo davvero bisogno di lei e poi \u00e8 andata avanti.<\/p>\n That\u2019s the way things should go. I know now if I was her, I\u2019d do the same thing. I\u2019d choose the love of my life over her as well. I would plan my days with him, my vacations, trips and what not.<\/p>\n Because he\u2019d be mine forever, and he\u2019d be the one I\u2019d like to see myself with in future. I get it now.<\/p>\n I\u2019m just sorry that I spent so much time angry when I should\u2019ve been happy for her. She deserved to be loved, not to be held back by me. <\/b><\/p>\n It hurt like hell to lose my best friend over a guy, but I know now that\u2019s the way things should go. I just wish I knew this earlier.<\/b><\/p>\n We\u2019ve all sworn not to be like this. We\u2019ve all sworn that we won\u2019t forget our friends once we fall in love and we\u2019ve mocked those doing so for way too long. That backfired horribly. At first, I wanted to burn all our photos and delete those I had in my gallery. 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