{"id":27510,"date":"2020-04-09T09:19:38","date_gmt":"2020-04-09T09:19:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27510"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:28:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:28:00","slug":"bel-tentativo-ma-non-tornero","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/bel-tentativo-ma-non-tornero\/","title":{"rendered":"Bel tentativo, ma non torner\u00f2"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>Come ci si sente ora che non ci sono pi\u00f9 per te? <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><em>Does it hurt like it hurt me while I was suffering and you didn\u2019t give a damn about me?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>You thought that I would stay, that this time wouldn\u2019t be any different from all those times when I waited for you, petrified that you would cheat on me with someone while you were having fun outside.<\/p>\n<p>Pensavi che non sarei mai cambiata, che non avrei mai aperto gli occhi e che sarei sempre stata accecata dal tuo amore.<\/p>\n<p>But I did change. I couldn\u2019t stand you neglecting me and finding me only when it was convenient for you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76658\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-woman-in-white-shirt-sitting-on-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste in camicia bianca seduta sul divano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-woman-in-white-shirt-sitting-on-sofa.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-woman-in-white-shirt-sitting-on-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-woman-in-white-shirt-sitting-on-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I couldn\u2019t stand that the man I was madly in love with didn\u2019t give a damn about me.<\/p>\n<p>Mi rifiuto di essere quella che aspetta, quella che piange e quella che implora un po' di amore.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Sapete perch\u00e9? <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 mi merito che tutto questo avvenga in modo naturale. Merito di essere inseguita. Merito di essere amata. Merito di prendermi cura di me.<\/p>\n<p>And most of all, I deserve someone who will see how much I can love. And sorry to burst your bubble but that man isn\u2019t you.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Quindi, bel tentativo, ma non torner\u00f2. <\/i><\/b>Non ho intenzione di tornare nel buco nero da cui sono uscito a malapena.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/dont-bother-coming-back-once-you-walk-away\/\"> Non torner\u00f2 <\/a> to you because you didn\u2019t know to cherish all that I gave you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76659\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-end-of-bed-while-man-laying.jpg\" alt=\"donna triste seduta in fondo al letto mentre l&#039;uomo \u00e8 sdraiato\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-end-of-bed-while-man-laying.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-end-of-bed-while-man-laying-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/sad-woman-sitting-on-the-end-of-bed-while-man-laying-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>E la cosa pi\u00f9 affascinante \u00e8 che non ti \u00e8 mai passato per la testa che tutto il mio amore e i miei sacrifici sarebbero stati pi\u00f9 che sufficienti per qualcun altro.<\/p>\n<p>Non avresti mai pensato che un altro uomo avrebbe visto che tipo di persona sono e che si sarebbe innamorato di me.<\/p>\n<p>No, pensavi che sarei sempre stata tua, non importa quanto male mi avessi trattato.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>But I won\u2019t! And I want to figure that out once and for all. I don\u2019t want your kisses and hugs because it is too late for them now. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want your toxic hands around my waist because they make me feel sick. I don\u2019t need you to tell me that you love me because I don\u2019t trust you anymore.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76660\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-comforting-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che consola una donna triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-comforting-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-comforting-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/man-comforting-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In tutto questo casino che hai fatto delle nostre vite, ho imparato una lezione preziosa. Ho imparato che l'unica persona a cui dovrei dare amore \u00e8 me stessa.<\/p>\n<p>E giuro su Dio che non succeder\u00e0 a nessun altro, soprattutto a te. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>From now on, I decided to put myself first because you were on a pedestal for far too long and you didn\u2019t even deserve it.<\/p>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 il momento dei grandi cambiamenti e io li accoglier\u00f2 tutti.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t go back to the old things that hurt me. I will erase all the <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/letting-toxic-people-go-is-an-act-of-self-love\/\"> persone tossiche <\/a> dalla mia vita, compreso te. E non permetter\u00f2 mai a nessuno di trattarmi come hai fatto tu.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76661\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/lonely-woman-watching-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"donna sola che guarda il lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/lonely-woman-watching-the-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/lonely-woman-watching-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/lonely-woman-watching-the-lake-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>So, don\u2019t try to win me back because I will pretend I don\u2019t hear you. I am busy making my own life perfect and the last thing I need is one toxic man.<\/p>\n<p>I just want to burn the bridges between the two of us and I don\u2019t want to see you in my life anymore.<\/p>\n<p>You had a diamond but you didn\u2019t know how to cherish it. Now, be satisfied with stones because you don\u2019t deserve anything better.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>E io?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>I will do what you never knew how\u2014madly and deeply fall in love with myself!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-76663\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Nice-Try-But-I-Am-Not-Coming-Back-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Bel tentativo, ma non torner\u00f2\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Nice-Try-But-I-Am-Not-Coming-Back-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Nice-Try-But-I-Am-Not-Coming-Back-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Nice-Try-But-I-Am-Not-Coming-Back-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Nice-Try-But-I-Am-Not-Coming-Back-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How does it feel now that I am no longer there for you? Does it hurt like it hurt me while I was suffering and you didn\u2019t give a damn about me? You thought that I would stay, that this time wouldn\u2019t be any different from all those times when I waited for you, petrified&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":76662,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27510","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Nice-Try-But-I-Am-Not-Coming-Back.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27510","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27510"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27510\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/76662"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27510"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27510"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27510"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}