{"id":27667,"date":"2018-11-13T10:13:13","date_gmt":"2018-11-13T10:13:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27667"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:08:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:08:39","slug":"6-situazioni-in-cui-non-bisogna-dire-ti-amo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-situazioni-in-cui-non-bisogna-dire-ti-amo\/","title":{"rendered":"6 situazioni in cui non si dovrebbe dire \"ti amo\""},"content":{"rendered":"

It seems like saying \u201cI love you.\u201d at any given time is a good idea. And it usually is, especially when you are in a serious relationship or marriage. People need to be reminded of how they feel for each other every now and then.<\/p>\n

But when you are saying \u201cI love you.\u201d for the first time, it should really be special, and the timing should be right.<\/p>\n

You can really mess things up in saying \u201cI love you.\u201d in certain situations. Keep reading and see in which ones:<\/p>\n

1. Quando \u00e8 troppo presto nella relazione<\/h2>\n

This goes without saying but there is such a thing like saying \u201cI love you\u201d too soon. Saying it on a first date or in the first few months is not a good idea. In that period, it\u2019s easy to confondere la lussuria con l'amore<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Ci si pu\u00f2 innamorare facilmente, ma amare davvero qualcuno richiede tempo. Bisogna togliersi gli occhiali rosa e amare quella persona con tutti i suoi difetti e le sue virt\u00f9.<\/p>\n

So be careful. Wait a while to build a relationship and be sure in what you feel. An \u201cI love you.\u201d that comes is said at the wrong time (like too early) can pretty much ruin a potentially good relationship and make your partner run for the hills.<\/p>\n

2. Quando si \u00e8 ubriachi<\/h2>\n

Le emozioni si intensificano quando si \u00e8 sotto l'effetto dell'alcol, soprattutto se si \u00e8 una di quelle persone carine che quando sono ubriache amano tutti e tutto. Quello che dite potrebbe non rispecchiare quello che provate.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, il vostro partner potrebbe non prendervi sul serio o potrebbe pensare che lo diciate solo a causa del liquore che avete nel sangue.<\/p>\n

Saying \u201cI love you.\u201d for the first time should be a magical experience you will treasure in your memory for a long time.<\/p>\n

The bottom line is if \u201cI love you.\u201d is not something you would say sober, you shouldn\u2019t say it while drunk either.<\/p>\n

3. Quando si \u00e8 vulnerabili<\/h2>\n

La vulnerabilit\u00e0 pu\u00f2 facilmente cambiare la prospettiva. I sentimenti di tristezza, disillusione e solitudine possono facilmente farvi dire quelle tre paroline senza che le pensiate davvero.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, potreste pensare di amare qualcuno perch\u00e9 vi manca stare con qualcuno, chiunque, e vi manca la sensazione di appartenere a qualcuno.<\/p>\n

But saying \u201cI love you.\u201d without actually meaning it or in the phase where your relationship hasn\u2019t had time to grow will make the whole thing worse.<\/p>\n

4. Quando uno dei due inizia una nuova relazione dopo averne terminata una a lungo termine<\/h2>\n

Quando si termina un relazione a lungo termine<\/span><\/a>Siete pieni di bagagli emotivi e di sentimenti irrisolti del passato. Potrebbe volerci molto tempo prima di tornare in contatto con i vostri veri sentimenti.<\/p>\n

Dovete rallentare e fare una pausa nelle dichiarazioni emotive finch\u00e9 non siete sicuri dei vostri sentimenti.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, se \u00e8 lui ad aver avuto di recente una brutta rottura o una lunga relazione finita male, dategli tempo. Prendetela con calma. Non c'\u00e8 bisogno di affrettarsi a dire quello che si prova. Lasciate che anche lui ci arrivi.<\/p>\n

5. When he\u2019s going through some stuff<\/h2>\n

La vita non \u00e8 tutta arcobaleni e farfalle. A volte \u00e8 davvero caotica, ingiusta e dolorosa. Se il vostro partner sta attraversando un periodo difficile, come problemi familiari, di lavoro o la morte di una persona a cui era molto legato, dovreste assolutamente aspettare a dire come vi sentite.<\/p>\n

For starters, it\u2019s not good timing. They need you just to be there and support them through difficult times.<\/p>\n

They need to see that you care but there is no need to say, \u201cI love you.\u201d for the first time at this point because they might think you are saying it just because you feel sorry for them.<\/p>\n

6. Quando si sente di doverlo dire<\/h2>\n

Forse \u00e8 stato lui a dirlo per primo e ora vi sentite in dovere di replicare, anche se non siete ancora a posto o state ancora capendo come stanno le cose.<\/p>\n

Saying how you feel shouldn\u2019t feel like an obligation; it should be instinctive and pure. You should only say it when you feel it\u2019s time.<\/p>\n

You should say it when you feel like you are going to go crazy with all those emotions locked on the inside. That\u2019s when it\u2019s real. That\u2019s when you should definitely say \u201cI love you.\u201d<\/p>\n

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