{"id":27674,"date":"2020-07-13T10:51:25","date_gmt":"2020-07-13T10:51:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27674"},"modified":"2022-02-06T16:51:21","modified_gmt":"2022-02-06T16:51:21","slug":"22-cose-che-solo-le-donne-che-sono-state-usate-emotivamente-da-un-narcisista-possono-capire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/22-cose-che-solo-le-donne-che-sono-state-usate-emotivamente-da-un-narcisista-possono-capire\/","title":{"rendered":"22 cose che solo le donne che sono state usate emotivamente da un narcisista potranno capire"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>1. Ci vuole un sacco di tempo <b>tempo per guarire<\/b> because you can\u2019t avoid the aftermath of dating a narcissist. It\u2019s impossible to avoid the pain, and you know it, so you accept it.<\/p>\n<p>2. Il vostro <b>l'autostima va a rotoli<\/b>. You feel completely lost. After a narcissist is done with you, you feel simply put, like a piece of shit\u2014unable to continue your life, unable to recognize yourself.<\/p>\n<p>3. Prima che lui entrasse nella vostra vita, eravate una ragazza normale, ma dopo che lui ha finito con voi, voi <b>perdere la dignit\u00e0<\/b>Si perde il senso di ci\u00f2 che si era una volta.<\/p>\n<p>4. Cercate di nascondere il vostro dolore. Cercate di nascondere il fatto che qualsiasi cosa in questo mondo vi tocchi, ma fallite ogni volta. <b>You\u2019re extremely vulnerable,<\/b> and you can\u2019t hide it.<\/p>\n<p>5. Tu <b>sentirsi invisibili<\/b> perch\u00e9 ti ha convinto di essere una nullit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>6. I vostri occhi dicono la verit\u00e0 su come vi sentite. Potete sfoggiare un sorriso falso, ma i vostri occhi sono pieni di dolore.<\/p>\n<p>7. <b>You don\u2019t smile anymore<\/b> because you want to but because you have to. You know people are worried about you, so you smile to ease them. You haven\u2019t smiled sincerely for a long time. And that is just a price you have to pay for <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/ecco-come-un-narcisista-si-prende-gioco-di-voi-e-come-affrontarlo-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Affrontare un narcisista<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>8. <b>Siete sorvegliati.<\/b> You don\u2019t want to talk about what happened. Building emotional walls around yourself is the only thing you can do to feel safe. You need protection, and for now, you\u2019re the only person who can do that.<\/p>\n<p>9. Dating a narcissist doesn\u2019t come without a cost. You are <b>depresso e ansioso<\/b> all the time, and you weren\u2019t like that at the beginning. That is a side-effect you get from being in a toxic relationship.<\/p>\n<p>10. Tu <b>can\u2019t go through the healing process alone<\/b>. Solo gli amici pi\u00f9 sinceri resteranno in questo periodo. Solo le persone che si preoccupano sinceramente per voi vi sosterranno senza sosta. Accettate il loro aiuto: sar\u00e0 pi\u00f9 facile.<\/p>\n<p>11. Tu&nbsp;<b>don\u2019t believe in the good in people<\/b> anymore. Because you\u2019ve fallen into his trap, you don\u2019t trust anyone. The only thing you see when you look around is people who want to hurt you. The only thing you see is him, wherever you go.<\/p>\n<p>11. <b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/conoscete-il-mio-nome-non-la-mia-storia-quindi-pensate-prima-di-giudicare\/\">You don\u2019t need to be judged<\/a>.<\/b> You know you\u2019ve made a mistake. All you need now is understanding and patience. The pain won\u2019t just go away, and anyone who says, \u201dGet it over with already!\u201d has no idea what you\u2019re going through.<\/p>\n<p>12. You still can\u2019t swallow what happened to you. You still don\u2019t believe it. It all seems like a <b>brutto sogno<\/b> from which you\u2019re going to wake up any minute now.<\/p>\n<p>13. <b>\u00c8 necessaria l'approvazione.<\/b> You need encouragement. It\u2019s hard to snap out of the reality that you\u2019ve lived in for so long. It\u2019s hard not to wait for something bad to happen. You\u2019ve lived your life that way, and it\u2019s impossible to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/e-tempo-di-premere-il-pulsante-di-reset\/\">premere il pulsante di reset<\/a> nel giro di un giorno o due.<\/p>\n<p>14. <b>You don\u2019t trust people.<\/b> The person you were connected the most with is the person who failed you the most. Every time you meet someone new, you\u2019re doubtful. Every time someone does something nice for you, you wait for the price you have to pay.<\/p>\n<p>15. At the moment, you don\u2019t know how to love. You\u2019re bruised, and love is something so distant to what you know.&nbsp;<b>You\u2019re afraid to like anyone, let alone to actually feel love<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>16. Cercate di evitare la sofferenza emotiva, quindi <b>ti scusi<\/b> all the time. You\u2019re sorry even when you don\u2019t have to be sorry. When dating a narcissist, that was all you had to say to save yourself from being punished. You had to be the bad guy. You&#8217;re apologizing for the smallest thing because you\u2019re still so insecure.<\/p>\n<p>17. Tu <b>nascondere i propri sentimenti<\/b> because you\u2019re scared you\u2019re going to pay a price for feeling something. The more you showed your feelings in your relationship with a narcissist, the worse he treated you.<\/p>\n<p>18. You\u2019re <b>paura di apparire appiccicosi, dipendenti o eccessivamente emotivi.<\/b> Cos\u00ec si sceglie di prendere la strada pi\u00f9 facile e si imbottigliano i propri sentimenti. Tieni tutto per te.<\/p>\n<p>19. One day, you\u2019ll want to be left alone with your thoughts, and the next day, that lonesomeness will suffocate you. Your <b>l'umore cambier\u00e0&nbsp;<\/b>entro poche ore.<\/p>\n<p>20. You need someone to be there for you. Someone to convince you\u2019re going to be fine. You are a <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/10-lezioni-che-ha-dovuto-imparare-prima-di-diventare-una-donna-forte\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">donna forte<\/span><\/a>, almeno una volta, ma per ora, <b>avete bisogno di qualcuno che vi protegga<\/b> finch\u00e9 non ti rimetterai in piedi. Finch\u00e9 non tornerai ad essere te stesso.<\/p>\n<p>21. Avete bisogno di qualcuno che <b>mantenere le promesse<\/b> they\u2019ve told you. You need someone who\u2019ll finally put you first after you\u2019ve been dwelling at the bottom for so long. You need to be important; you need to feel alive.<\/p>\n<p>22. Don\u2019t be scared. There is a good girl hiding beneath that scared face. There is a girl who can love with all of her heart. But, <b>she\u2019s scared now<\/b>. Aiutatela mostrandole che tutte le cose brutte alla fine passano. Ci vuole solo tempo. Molto tempo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-27677 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Walk-Away-From-Him-Even-If-It-Hurts-4-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"22 cose che solo le donne che sono state usate emotivamente da un narcisista potranno capire\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Walk-Away-From-Him-Even-If-It-Hurts-4-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Walk-Away-From-Him-Even-If-It-Hurts-4-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/This-Is-Why-You-Need-To-Walk-Away-From-Him-Even-If-It-Hurts-4.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. It takes a hell of a long time to heal because you can\u2019t avoid the aftermath of dating a narcissist. It\u2019s impossible to avoid the pain, and you know it, so you accept it. 2. Your self-worth goes down the drain. You feel completely lost. After a narcissist is done with you, you feel&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":27676,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27674","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/pietra-schwarzler-463523-unsplash.jpg",800,530,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. 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