{"id":27819,"date":"2020-10-15T08:48:55","date_gmt":"2020-10-15T08:48:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27819"},"modified":"2022-06-06T15:42:24","modified_gmt":"2022-06-06T15:42:24","slug":"5-motivi-per-cui-le-donne-forti-attraggono-narcisisti-e-psicopatici","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-motivi-per-cui-le-donne-forti-attraggono-narcisisti-e-psicopatici\/","title":{"rendered":"5 motivi per cui le donne forti attraggono narcisisti e psicopatici"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nessuno \u00e8 resistente al fascino di un sociopatico. Nella societ\u00e0 c'\u00e8 l'idea sbagliata che solo le donne forti siano in grado di resistere agli uomini tossici.<\/p>\n<p>Si ritiene che le qualit\u00e0 delle donne forti le rendano immuni a questo tipo di uomini.<\/p>\n<p>Ebbene, questo non \u00e8 vero. Le donne forti non sono una sorta di robot disumani privi di empatia e compassione.<\/p>\n<p>They feel as any other woman does. So why would it be easier for them to resist a toxic man\u2019s charm?<\/p>\n<p>Innamorarsi di narcisisti e psicopatici non ha nulla a che vedere con l'intelligenza, l'istruzione o l'indipendenza.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve met dozens of women of all profiles, from common everyday ladies to highly educated women, who have fallen prey to such men.<\/p>\n<p>Nessuno di loro fa eccezione quando si tratta di amare un manipolatore emotivo.<\/p>\n<p>I manipolatori, i narcisisti e gli psicopatici hanno ancora pi\u00f9 probabilit\u00e0 di essere attratti da queste donne forti. Trovano le loro qualit\u00e0 desiderabili perch\u00e9 hanno pi\u00f9 materiale su cui lavorare.<\/p>\n<p>Queste donne offrono pi\u00f9 energia positiva da drenare.<\/p>\n<p>Ecco i principali motivi per cui le donne forti attraggono narcisisti e sociopatici:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Sanno come farvi sentire speciali<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123931\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant.jpg\" alt=\"coppia all&#039;appuntamento al ristorante\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/couple-on-date-at-restaurant-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s extremely hard for strong women to find people they connect with instantly and when they do, they think that it\u2019s fate, that it\u2019s meant to be.<\/p>\n<p>But for a person with toxic tendencies, it\u2019s not fate. It\u2019s all a part of the plan.<\/p>\n<p>Perch\u00e9 i narcisisti e i sociopatici fingono di essere esattamente ci\u00f2 che voi volete che siano. A loro piacciono le stesse cose che piacciono a voi.<\/p>\n<p>Si comporteranno esattamente come volete voi. Fondamentalmente, faranno di tutto pur di entrare in contatto con voi.<\/p>\n<p>Quando finalmente riescono ad attirare la vostra attenzione e vi fanno credere di essere la vostra persona per sempre, inizia il terrore.<\/p>\n<p>They know you\u2019re in it for real now, and you won\u2019t back down that easily.<\/p>\n<p>Lotterete per loro perch\u00e9 ci tenete.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Cercano intelligenza e successo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123933\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader.jpg\" alt=\"donna leader sicura di s\u00e9\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/self-confident-woman-leader-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re probably targeted because you are successful and intelligent. They see you as a trophy they must have.<\/p>\n<p>The fact that you\u2019re successful or wealthy makes you even more desirable.<\/p>\n<p>Vi rendono un bersaglio e, in realt\u00e0, avete poco o nulla a che vedere con il fatto che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-motivi-per-cui-anche-le-donne-forti-chiudono-le-relazioni-difficili\/\">si finisce per uscire con un narcisista o un sociopatico<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>They want everything you have to become theirs, so they can brag about their \u2018win\u2019.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La loro audacia \u00e8 attraente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123934\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee.jpg\" alt=\"uomo tatuato seduto in un bar a bere caff\u00e8\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/tattooed-man-sitting-in-cafe-drinking-coffee-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il fatto \u00e8 che pi\u00f9 un uomo \u00e8 narcisista, pi\u00f9 sar\u00e0 attraente per le donne.<\/p>\n<p>La sua audacia e il suo atteggiamento un po' presuntuoso danno l'impressione che sappiano cosa vogliono e che lo otterranno.<\/p>\n<p>When the center of their attention is you and you know you are wanted, it flatters you, and you feel special. Don\u2019t be ashamed\u2014it\u2019s true, and every woman feels it.<\/p>\n<p>So, it\u2019s so easy to fall under their spell because they project everything you want to see in a man&#8230;at first.<\/p>\n<p>In seguito, cambiano le loro strisce e mostrano chi sono veramente.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sono abili manipolatori<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123936\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia felice e amici che ballano in discoteca\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-and-their-friends-dancing-in-disco-club-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Possono ingannare chiunque. Sono abili manipolatori sotto mentite spoglie.<\/p>\n<p>Lo fanno in modo cos\u00ec professionale e aspettano un tempo considerevole per mostrare chi sono veramente.<\/p>\n<p>They stay hidden until a later stage in the relationship when you get too much involved, and you can\u2019t get out.<\/p>\n<p>Allora vi hanno gi\u00e0 in pugno e vi usano come fonte di approvvigionamento.<\/p>\n<p>Le conseguenze sono terribili. Quello che si deve passare per superare un narcisista, al momento, pu\u00f2 far s\u00ec che non ci si fidi pi\u00f9 di nessuno.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re dealing with getting over a narcissist, read my new book <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/dp\/B07KGDMNY3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"> \u201cOn Getting Over A Narcissist\u201d here <\/a> and hopefully, you\u2019ll find answers based on my painful experience.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sono affascinanti e sicuri di s\u00e9<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-123935\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia felice al bar che si gode il cocktail\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/Happy-couple-at-the-bar-enjoying-the-cocktail-party-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This is the thing when you see a charming man\u2014you\u2019re going to fall for him&#8230;and even more so, if the man is confident.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t want a needy<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-segni-mortali-di-un-uomo-immaturo\/\"> uomo immaturo<\/a> by your side. You want someone who\u2019ll know how to take care of themselves.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s the bait which catches you. That\u2019s the road you take, and although the road had warning signs all over, you couldn\u2019t (or didn\u2019t want to) see them.<\/p>\n<p>Quando un narcisista affascina la sua vittima, la seduce e alla fine la prosciuga.<\/p>\n<p>Shy, strong, outgoing, introverts, empaths&#8230;any kind of a woman can be a target of a narcissist or a psychopath.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98171\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-pinterest-2.jpg\" alt=\"5 motivi per cui le donne forti attraggono narcisisti e psicopatici\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-pinterest-2.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-pinterest-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-pinterest-2-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98170\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 motivi per cui le donne forti attraggono narcisisti e psicopatici\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No one is resistant to a sociopath\u2019s charm. There is a misconception in society that only strong women are able to resist toxic men. It is believed that the qualities of strong women make them immune to this type of men. Well, that is just not true. Strong women are not some kind of inhumane&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":123937,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27819","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse &amp; trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/5-Reasons-Why-Strong-Women-Attract-Narcissists-And-Psychopaths-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse &amp; trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse &amp; trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27819","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27819"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27819\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/123937"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27819"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27819"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27819"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}