{"id":27835,"date":"2019-11-15T10:49:02","date_gmt":"2019-11-15T10:49:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27835"},"modified":"2021-08-11T08:42:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T08:42:35","slug":"non-devi-cambiare-devi-solo-smettere-di-uscire-con-gli-stronzi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-devi-cambiare-devi-solo-smettere-di-uscire-con-gli-stronzi\/","title":{"rendered":"Non devi cambiare, devi solo smettere di frequentare gli stronzi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tutte noi abbiamo un tipo. Che ci piaccia o meno ammetterlo, in qualche modo gravitiamo sempre verso lo stesso tipo di uomo, ogni volta. <\/span><\/p>\n

Be that an ambitious hard-worker who doesn\u2019t really have the time to nurture a loving relationship with you or be that a well-built guy who looks like he was made to break hearts with that gorgeous face and the body of a Greek god. <\/span><\/p>\n

And that\u2019s exactly what always happens. <\/span>Ti spezza il cuore.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Did you ever start to wonder how come after every break-up you always end up disappointed in the entire male species, crying yourself to sleep, spending days eating Ben & Jerry\u2019s and listening to Coldplay\u2019s saddest songs? <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Potrebbe essere il fatto che semplicemente, inconsciamente, scegliete sempre il ragazzo che non \u00e8 giusto per voi?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019re probably going back in time now, and recollecting your past relationships and seeing a recurring pattern. You never realized this before, and you always thought that there was something wrong with you, but now, you are probably starting to realize that it\u2019s really not you. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s your unconscious desire to go after guys who make you feel so loved for a full whole minute and then <\/span>spezzare il cuore<\/span><\/a> con la stessa velocit\u00e0 con cui l'hanno vinta.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now is the time to realize you need to break that vicious pattern and realize why it was there in the first place. That way, you will be able to go for guys that are more suitable for you and won\u2019t make you feel like you<\/span> necessit\u00e0 di cambiare<\/span><\/a> anything about yourself\u2014<\/span>a parte la scelta degli uomini.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Chiedetevi perch\u00e9 vi rivolgete ai ragazzi che frequentate. <\/i><\/b>There is always a reason, whether it\u2019s visible or not. Maybe it has something to do with how you see yourself, and you are projecting this on the guys you date? <\/span><\/p>\n

Forse risuonano con voi a un livello pi\u00f9 profondo di cui non siete nemmeno consapevoli, per cui gravitate sempre verso di loro?<\/span><\/p>\n

Di solito le persone scelgono cose con cui hanno familiarit\u00e0 e che sentono subito di poter gestire. Questo ci fa sentire sicuri e non c'\u00e8 niente di male in questo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Could it be that you are looking for someone who is just like your dad, because he was the only male figure you had in your life who you looked up to? And in theory, it should work, but in practice, it\u2019s much more problematic.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Whatever the case is, now that you are aware of that recurring pattern, it\u2019s time to break it, and venture out and try to find someone completely different from what you would normally go for. You\u2019ll never know if you don\u2019t try! <\/span><\/p>\n

It can only be better, so give it a chance. Don\u2019t fear the unknown, it may turn out to be just the thing for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Chiedetevi che cosa sentite di meritare. In un modo o nell'altro, parlate a voi stessi, sia nella vostra testa che a voce alta, e il modo in cui il vostro dialogo interiore funziona con il modo in cui scegliete i vostri uomini. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Si scelgono quelli che sembrano familiari, quelli che funzionano meglio con il proprio modo di pensare, parlare e sentire.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Maybe you simply believe you only deserve a certain type of guy in your life, so you\u2019re not letting yourself break out of that unhealthy circle in which you keep coming back to the same guy, just in a different form.<\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s time you start making changes in your dating life before you end up with the wrong guy in the long run. It\u2019s time to stop letting these men make you feel insufficient and inadequate, simply because you are afraid of making a different choice!<\/span><\/p>\n

Uscite dal vostro <\/i><\/b>zona di comfort<\/i><\/b><\/a> e guardate oltre! Il mondo \u00e8 pieno di ragazzi che potrebbero essere il vostro uomo. Devi solo avere il coraggio di vederli!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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We all have a type. Whether we like to admit it or not, somehow we always gravitate towards the same type of men, every single time. Be that an ambitious hard-worker who doesn\u2019t really have the time to nurture a loving relationship with you or be that a well-built guy who looks like he was…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":27836,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27835","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/matthew-t-rader-1148748-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27835","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=27835"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27835\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/27836"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=27835"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=27835"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=27835"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}