{"id":27901,"date":"2020-03-16T09:08:24","date_gmt":"2020-03-16T09:08:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=27901"},"modified":"2022-05-22T23:06:25","modified_gmt":"2022-05-22T23:06:25","slug":"una-lettera-alla-mia-migliore-amica-che-mi-ispira","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-lettera-alla-mia-migliore-amica-che-mi-ispira\/","title":{"rendered":"Una lettera al mio migliore amico: Tu mi ispiri"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Caro amico,<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t think you really see how special and awe-inspiring you are, and I am here to remind you of that.<\/p>\n<p>Sono qui per dirvi che le donne come voi sono cos\u00ec rare e preziose e che mi sento davvero benedetta ad avervi nella mia vita.<\/p>\n<p>You inspire me because you are not afraid to be yourself. And I know you weren\u2019t born that way. I know that life has beaten and bent you. I know it took you a long time to learned to truly love yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Hai dovuto <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/costruire-la-fiducia-di-base-nella-vita-di-successo-incontri\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">costruire la vostra fiducia in voi stessi<\/a> from scratch. But you managed. Somewhere down the line, you realized that it\u2019s not about being perfect\u2014it\u2019s about being you. It\u2019s about accepting yourself.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You taught me that you don\u2019t always have to be strong. You are allowed to have a meltdown from time to time. You are allowed to break into pieces. That\u2019s OK as long as you keep picking yourself up. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Not giving up on yourself is what it\u2019s all about, and it doesn\u2019t matter how long it takes. It\u2019s the end result that counts.<\/p>\n<p>Mi ispiri perch\u00e9 non importa quante palle curve ti abbia tirato la vita, hai sempre trovato i momenti per sorridere.<\/p>\n<p>Anche nei momenti pi\u00f9 bui, mantenete una mente positiva. Godete sempre dei piccoli frammenti di luce che vi arrivano.<\/p>\n<p>You know that there are always some good days just around the corner, waiting for you, waiting for your loved ones, and it\u2019s only a matter of time before you get there.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Trasformate un giorno ordinario in straordinario. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Avete un grande senso dell'umorismo. Siete in grado di far ridere un'intera stanza senza fare alcuno sforzo. C'\u00e8 qualcosa di radioso in voi che fa s\u00ec che le persone gravitino intorno a voi.<\/p>\n<p>You are intelligent, driven and passionate in whatever you do. When you hit a roadblock, you just keep on persisting until you make it. And I\u2019m lucky just to witness that.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Vedervi sognare in grande mi ispira a fare lo stesso.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/friendship\/8-cose-che-dovresti-dire-al-tuo-migliore-amico-in-questo-momento\/\">8 cose che dovresti dire al tuo migliore amico in questo momento<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-77381 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/business-woman-having-a-call-while-sitting-at-desk.jpg\" alt=\"donna d&#039;affari che riceve una telefonata mentre \u00e8 seduta alla scrivania\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/business-woman-having-a-call-while-sitting-at-desk.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/business-woman-having-a-call-while-sitting-at-desk-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/business-woman-having-a-call-while-sitting-at-desk-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are brave enough to leave your comfort zone and reach for more. You don\u2019t allow your fears to hold you down. You say you\u2019ve done that for years and that it is time to change your ways.<\/p>\n<p>I couldn\u2019t agree more. I will try to do the same. I want more for myself. I want to try new things and follow new adventures.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>All the problems and all the love troubles I\u2019m experiencing seem less when I share them with you.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Grazie per aver ascoltato il mio dramma pi\u00f9 e pi\u00f9 volte. So che di tanto in tanto mi ripeto.<\/p>\n<p>Ma in qualche modo mi capisci. Sai quali sono le cose giuste da dire. A volte mi conosci meglio di quanto io conosca me stesso.<\/p>\n<p>Grazie per avermi sopportato. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/grazie-per-il-vostro-sostegno-durante-il-nostro-periodo-di-perdita\/\">Grazie per tutto l'amore e il sostegno<\/a> you\u2019ve been giving me all these years.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Mi hai insegnato che non tutto deve avere una risposta.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/friendship\/lettera-aperta-il-migliore-amico-merita-il-mondo\/\">Lettera aperta al mio migliore amico: Ti meriti il mondo<\/a><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m an overthinker, and I don\u2019t do well with things that are left unsaid. I don\u2019t do well with relationships that have loose ends. I hate not having closure. But I guess that\u2019s inevitable.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve been there, and you know. There\u2019s no point in thinking about \u2018what ifs\u2019 and people who chose to disappear from one\u2019s life without saying a word.<\/p>\n<p>Continuate a ricordarmi che persone come quelle non sono degne del mio tempo e questo rende l'intero processo di andare avanti un po' pi\u00f9 facile.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for soothing my thoughts. Thank you for showing me by example how it\u2019s done. And though these things are never painless, they\u2019ve started hurting a bit less.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Grazie per avermi ricordato che merito di pi\u00f9. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You make me believe it myself. I\u2019ve had my fair share of toxic relationships that have made me think I am not good enough. But in your eyes, there\u2019s no one as good as me.<\/p>\n<p>There is nothing about me that you would change. You just push me to be the best version of myself. You just keep repeating, \u201cMore self-love baby girl, more self-love.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And you are right. I need to love myself more. I need to demand the same respect back that I\u2019m giving to someone or I will end up heartbroken again.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Thank you for being brutally honest even when I don\u2019t want to hear it<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t sugarcoat anything. I can count on you to give me a reality check when I need one.<\/p>\n<p>Mi tenete sempre con i piedi per terra e mi ricordate che devo <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/riprendersi-il-cuore-e-ascoltare-il-cervello\/\">portare il mio cervello con me quando seguo il mio cuore<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You will tell me if someone\u2019s stringing me along or making a fool out of me because I\u2019m caught in the love mist and unable to see that for myself.<\/p>\n<p>Sapete che sar\u00e0 doloroso sentirlo, ma state solo cercando di risparmiarmi un dolore ancora pi\u00f9 grande in futuro.<\/p>\n<p>There are many more similar situations. I don\u2019t even want to count them because it would take forever.<\/p>\n<p>But the point is, you have my back. You protect me even when I don\u2019t even realize I need protection.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You make my life better. You make everyone\u2019s life better.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/una-lettera-accorata-a-una-sposa-nel-giorno-del-suo-matrimonio\/\">Una lettera sincera alla sposa nel giorno del suo matrimonio<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-77383 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/female-friends-hugging-outside.jpg\" alt=\"amiche femminili che si abbracciano all&#039;aperto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/female-friends-hugging-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/female-friends-hugging-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/female-friends-hugging-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You are amazingly charismatic, and you have this unique gift to lift other people\u2019s spirits up. You are kind, compassionate and selfless.<\/p>\n<p>Siete un angelo sulla Terra, venuto al mondo con lo scopo di aiutare gli altri.<\/p>\n<p>Vi preoccupate prima degli altri e poi di voi stessi. Siete sempre quelli che danno di pi\u00f9, si impegnano di pi\u00f9 e amano di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Sadly, that\u2019s something people take advantage of too often\u2014especially those you\u2019ve cared for the most. Those you let into your heart. The men of your life who didn\u2019t know how to appreciate you. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Hanno dato per scontata la vostra bont\u00e0. Si sono abituati alla tua comprensione della natura e hanno continuato a pensare che avresti continuato a perdonarli per l'eternit\u00e0. Pensavano di poter andare e venire come volevano.<\/p>\n<p>They never could have pictured this new woman you have become. The empowered woman who doesn\u2019t let anybody treat her like crap. The woman who respects herself and demands to be respected back.<\/p>\n<p>Dentro di te ci sono dei confini che nessuno pu\u00f2 oltrepassare. Hai alzato i tuoi standard anche se sei ancora una ragazza a bassa manutenzione.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t need fancy dinners and expensive gifts. You need someone who will laugh with you while you take something from a food stand, and someone to gift you his free time and attention.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Il ragazzo che finir\u00e0 per essere il vostro per sempre sar\u00e0 cos\u00ec fortunato ad avervi. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>He will have a woman by his side who knows what is truly important in life, the one who doesn\u2019t sweat the small stuff, the one who is loyal to the bone.<\/p>\n<p>Avr\u00e0 una forte e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/la-migliore-relazione-della-vostra-vita-sara-quella-con-la-ragazza\/\">independent woman who doesn\u2019t need him<\/a> but wants him in her life. And if he\u2019s smart, he\u2019ll appreciate you even more for it.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>I know that you can\u2019t see yourself through my eyes. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>You are so modest that you don\u2019t even realize how amazing and unique you are. You believe that everyone has a heart like yours.<\/p>\n<p>Ma l'ho scritta lo stesso, solo per mostrarvi di che pasta siete fatti. Solo per dirti che mi ispiri e mi fai desiderare di essere la versione migliore di me stesso.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve touched my life in ways I can\u2019t even explain. You are my rock. You are the one I share my happiness with. I am so blessed to have you in my life.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Grazie per l'amore. Grazie per l'amicizia. Grazie per essere voi.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Credo che questo tipo di amicizie siano rare. Sono qualcosa di fuori dal mondo. Sono qualcosa per cui ringraziare Dio e non dare mai per scontato.<\/p>\n<p>Credo davvero che le amicizie come la nostra siano per sempre. Vedi, la vita accade, le cose cambiano, le persone vanno e vengono, le relazioni finiscono, ma un migliore amico \u00e8 qualcuno che rimane al tuo fianco per l'eternit\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/friendship\/paragrafi-sul-migliore-amico\/\">33 Paragrafi sulla migliore amica per rendere la tua migliore amica follemente felice<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-77385 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/A-Letter-To-My-Best-Friend-You-Inspire-Me-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Una lettera al mio migliore amico: Tu mi ispiri\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/A-Letter-To-My-Best-Friend-You-Inspire-Me-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/A-Letter-To-My-Best-Friend-You-Inspire-Me-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Friend, I don\u2019t think you really see how special and awe-inspiring you are, and I am here to remind you of that. I am here to tell you that women like you are so rare and precious and that I feel truly blessed to have you in my life. 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