{"id":28054,"date":"2021-10-20T11:18:35","date_gmt":"2021-10-20T11:18:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28054"},"modified":"2022-01-10T00:40:16","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T00:40:16","slug":"12-motivi-per-cui-non-ti-scrive-mai-per-primo-ma-risponde-sempre-quando-gli-mandi-un-messaggio","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/12-motivi-per-cui-non-ti-scrive-mai-per-primo-ma-risponde-sempre-quando-gli-mandi-un-messaggio\/","title":{"rendered":"Non mandargli un messaggio e ti mander\u00e0 un messaggio: 20 motivi per cui non ti manda mai un messaggio per primo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So che vorresti urlare e chiedergli di dirti perch\u00e9 si comporta cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p>I know you feel confused and frustrated because you don\u2019t know why he never texts you first even when he&#8217;s clearly present on social media. And you have every right to feel this way.<\/p>\n<p>Avete il diritto di chiedervi: <i>Why doesn&#8217;t he text <\/i><i>Prima io<\/i><i>? Sta cercando di giocare <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-giochi-mentali-che-gli-uomini-fanno-alle-donne-prima-di-una-rottura-e-come-affrontarli\/\"><i>giochi mentali<\/i><\/a><i> con me o \u00e8 interessato ma non \u00e8 un granch\u00e9 come <\/i><i>texter<\/i><i>?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Qualunque sia il motivo, la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 questa: <b>Don&#8217;t <\/b><b>mandagli un messaggio<\/b><b> e vi mander\u00e0 un messaggio.<\/b> Che cosa significa? Continuate a leggere per scoprirlo!<\/p>\n<h2>Perch\u00e9 non dovreste mai mandargli un messaggio per prima<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69931 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-talking-outside-on-stairs-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"coppia che parla fuori sulle scale tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-talking-outside-on-stairs-sunset.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-talking-outside-on-stairs-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/couple-talking-outside-on-stairs-sunset-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t need a relationship expert to tell you that when a guy likes you, he WILL make an effort. It doesn&#8217;t matter what internal issues are stopping him \u2013 he will find a way to initiate a conversation with you.<\/p>\n<p>Granted, perhaps texting isn&#8217;t his way of showing affection. But, if you notice that he isn&#8217;t doing much of anything else either, then he doesn&#8217;t really love you.<\/p>\n<p>Prima smetti di mandargli messaggi. <b>If you notice that he doesn&#8217;t reciprocate, reject him once and for all. You&#8217;ve had enough <\/b><b>crepacuore<\/b><b>.<\/b> Ora, imparate ad amare di pi\u00f9 voi stessi.<\/p>\n<h2>Why Doesn&#8217;t He Text Me First? 20 Possible Reasons<\/h2>\n<p>It can be hard to determine why a man doesn&#8217;t text you first, so if you&#8217;re not entirely sure, take a look at the following relationship advice.<\/p>\n<p>Here are 20 possible reasons a guy doesn&#8217;t text you first:<\/p>\n<h3>1. Ha altre priorit\u00e0 al momento<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/a03d70e-aobu5qeavnv3scpi04.hop.clickbank.net\/?tid=HASE_ALIC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-103533 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/His-Secret-Obsession-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1202\" height=\"677\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/His-Secret-Obsession-3.jpg 1202w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/His-Secret-Obsession-3-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/His-Secret-Obsession-3-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/His-Secret-Obsession-3-768x433.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/His-Secret-Obsession-3-150x84.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1202px) 100vw, 1202px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>This one means he\u2019s interested in you, but he has some other priorities at the moment and after he\u2019s done with them, he will get back to you.<\/p>\n<p>Altre priorit\u00e0 sono il lavoro, la famiglia, gli animali domestici, gli amici o cose del genere.<\/p>\n<p>The most confusing part is that he won\u2019t tell you what is going on in his life because he doesn\u2019t want you to worry about him.<\/p>\n<p>Per questo motivo continuer\u00e0 a rispondervi e non vi far\u00e0 mai mettere in dubbio la sua felicit\u00e0 o le sue intenzioni.<\/p>\n<p><b>He\u2019s aware of the fact that he cannot make you his priority (for the time being) until he\u2019s done with whatever he is doing and resets his list of priorities.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you sense that this might be the case, you can simply try asking him what is going on in his life and if there\u2019s anything he would like to share with you.<\/p>\n<p><i>If he keeps refusing to tell you anything, reassuring you that everything\u2019s fine with the two of you but he just needs some time for himself, it means you shouldn\u2019t worry because he will be back in no time.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>2. He\u2019s interested in you, but also in others<\/h3>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 simile al primo, ma la differenza principale \u00e8 che le sue priorit\u00e0 sono le sue potenziali ragazze e non altre cose di cui potrebbe occuparsi.<\/p>\n<p><b>I ragazzi a volte stabiliscono le priorit\u00e0 in base a quanto sei difficile da ottenere.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>And in their mind, if you\u2019re playing hard to get, you must be a good catch (which doesn\u2019t necessarily have to be the case).<\/p>\n<p><i>If these potential girls don\u2019t <\/i><i>mandagli un messaggio<\/i><i> first, he will make them his priorities because if they don\u2019t <\/i><i>mandagli un messaggio<\/i><i> first, it means they\u2019re hard to get, and he will have to win them over.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>He will subconsciously multiply his efforts in trying to win them, and that is why he\u2019ll <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/an-open-letter-to-the-man-who-took-his-woman-for-granted\/\"><i>darvi per scontati.<\/i><\/a><\/p>\n<p>He will not text you first because he knows that you\u2019ll be the one texting him first, and that is why he doesn\u2019t bother. But, this doesn\u2019t mean <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-segnali-strazianti-del-suo-disinteresse-per-te\/\">non \u00e8 interessato a te<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>He is, but he\u2019s also interested in others as well, and it will take some time until he realizes exactly what he is doing and how he wants it to end.<\/p>\n<h3>3. He\u2019s unsure about his feelings for you<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69932 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/bussines-man-on-balcony-outside.jpg\" alt=\"uomo d&#039;affari sul balcone esterno\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/bussines-man-on-balcony-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/bussines-man-on-balcony-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/bussines-man-on-balcony-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quando un ragazzo non \u00e8 sicuro dei suoi sentimenti per voi, si ritirer\u00e0, e il ritiro significa che ha bisogno di tempo per digerire i suoi sentimenti e ammettere a se stesso se gli piacete o meno.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps he\u2019s been hurt before and now he\u2019s afraid of <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/emotivamente-vulnerabile\/\">vulnerabilit\u00e0 emotiva<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>He doesn\u2019t want to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-motivi-per-cui-non-si-apre-con-te\/\">aprirsi a voi<\/a> because he\u2019s afraid you\u2019ll take advantage of him like someone else in his past might have done to him.<\/p>\n<p><i>Per questo motivo cercher\u00e0 di non mandarvi un messaggio per primo, perch\u00e9 se lo facesse lo renderebbe ancora pi\u00f9 confuso e a disagio.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Ma, quando si <\/i><i>mandagli un messaggio<\/i><i> first, he will try to ignore it, only to realize that he cannot, and if he doesn\u2019t <\/i><i>ti rispondo con un messaggio<\/i><i>, roviner\u00e0 tutto.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Decide quindi di rispondervi con un messaggio, ma il giorno dopo si ritrova di nuovo a riflettere sui suoi sentimenti verso di voi.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s an endless circle of confusion, unsaid feelings and anticipation.<\/p>\n<p><b>La cosa migliore da fare \u00e8 chiedergli di persona quali sono le sue intenzioni o dargli un ultimatum per rinsavire e per <\/b><b>ti rispondo con un messaggio<\/b><b> when he\u2019s ready to.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>4. He doesn\u2019t like texting, but he likes you<\/h3>\n<p><i>So che sembra una contraddizione. Come pu\u00f2 piacergli e non amare i messaggi con me? La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che molti ragazzi sono <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-sono-bravi-a-mandare-messaggi\/\"><i>Non sono bravo a mandare messaggi.<\/i><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Gli SMS sono visti come un modo per condividere semplici informazioni, organizzare appuntamenti, riunioni o per messaggi di emergenza quando non \u00e8 possibile chiamare la persona.<\/p>\n<p>I was absolutely freaking out the first time I dated a guy who liked me but wasn\u2019t that into texting.<\/p>\n<p><b>Era un incubo essere sempre <\/b><b>l'uno<\/b><b> che ha dovuto mandare un messaggio per rimanere in contatto.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>And when I asked him why this was so, he simply told me that he\u2019s not that into texting which has nothing to do with spending time with me.<\/p>\n<p>So, he liked me and liked spending time with me but couldn\u2019t find a way to get over that texting-phobia thing.<\/p>\n<p>Se vi dice questo, sappiate che \u00e8 100% vero e che dovreste accettarlo cos\u00ec com'\u00e8.<\/p>\n<p><b>If you try to force him to change, he will feel pressured to be something he\u2019s not. Just leave him be, and with time it will get better. I promise you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Besides, it&#8217;s not on you to chase him. Once he starts missing you, he will come back. Don&#8217;t text him and he will text you!<\/p>\n<h3>5. He\u2019s too busy to think of texting you first<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69934 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/jealous-girl-looking-at-happy-couple.jpg\" alt=\"Ragazza gelosa che guarda la coppia felice\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/jealous-girl-looking-at-happy-couple.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/jealous-girl-looking-at-happy-couple-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/jealous-girl-looking-at-happy-couple-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Forse il vostro uomo \u00e8 un gran lavoratore e l'unica cosa a cui riesce a pensare \u00e8 il suo lavoro e le cose che deve fare durante la giornata.<\/p>\n<p><b>These guys don\u2019t have time for texting, but if they really like you, they will always make sure to find some time to <\/b><b>ti rispondo con un messaggio<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t \u2018ignore\u2019 you because they want to. It\u2019s due to the nature of their job, schedule, and meetings.<\/p>\n<p><i>Per questo motivo, egli sar\u00e0 sempre <\/i><i>ti rispondo con un messaggio<\/i><i> perch\u00e9 apprezza i vostri sforzi per <\/i><i>mandagli un messaggio<\/i><i> prima, ma <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-si-sente-un-uomo-quando-ferisce-una-donna\/\"><i>si pente di averti ferito<\/i><\/a><i> because he\u2019s not as good at multitasking as you are.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>If a guy is doing one thing, he will not be able to think about anything else until he accomplishes the thing he\u2019s just started. If he\u2019s deep into his job, chances are he will erase the possibility of texting you first, but will never hesitate to text you back when he\u2019s finally \u2018relieved of duty\u2019.<\/p>\n<h3>6. He\u2019s playing hard to get<\/h3>\n<p>S\u00ec. Alcuni ragazzi usano questa tattica solo perch\u00e9 stanno cercando di fare i difficili con te.<\/p>\n<p>He wants to feel desired by you and to make you work hard to win him, and that is why he\u2019s deliberately avoiding texting you first. But, he will never fail at responding.<\/p>\n<p><i>Si assicurer\u00e0 sempre di rispondere per darvi un po' di s\u00e9 e farvi tornare per averne ancora. Inquietante, lo so.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>But that\u2019s just how some men function. They want you to do all the work while he\u2019s laying back, waiting to enjoy the fruits of your hard work.<\/p>\n<p><b>The truth is, if he\u2019s playing hard to get, it means he\u2019s not that interested in the <\/b><b>primo posto<\/b><b>. The only person he\u2019s interested in is himself.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>By doing this, he\u2019s trying to appease his egocentric self and make you feel less important or valuable. Always be careful with men like this.<\/p>\n<h3>7. He doesn\u2019t text you first because he knows you\u2019re going to text him first<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69935 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Man-standing-next-to-trees-during-the-day.jpg\" alt=\"Uomo in piedi accanto agli alberi durante il giorno\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Man-standing-next-to-trees-during-the-day.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Man-standing-next-to-trees-during-the-day-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Man-standing-next-to-trees-during-the-day-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Some guys are just lazy when it comes to texting. They don\u2019t play hard to get, and they have time to text you first, but they simply refuse to do it because they know you will be the one who will text first.<\/p>\n<p>E si attengono ad esso. Si attengono a questo regime egoisticamente pigro e lasciano che sia tu a fare tutto il lavoro.<\/p>\n<p><b>Potresti piacergli, potresti essere <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/11-cose-inconsce-che-gli-uomini-fanno-quando-si-innamorano-perdutamente-di-una-donna\/\"><b>innamorata di te<\/b><\/a><b>, but he will never text you first because he doesn\u2019t even think of doing it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s too preoccupied with waiting for you to text him first, and he thinks this is the right thing to do.<\/p>\n<p><b>He knows that whatever he does, you will always reach him first, and that is why he feels comfortable with the fact that he&#8217;s not doing anything.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Try ignoring him for some time, and I\u2019m sure he will realize that there\u2019s something wrong with his behavior. Don&#8217;t text him and he will text you first \u2013 I guarantee it.<\/p>\n<p>Dopotutto, bisogna essere in due per ballare il tango e non uno solo.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Ha paura di impegnarsi<\/h3>\n<p>Se non ti scrive mai per primo, ma risponde volentieri ai tuoi messaggi, forse ha solo paura di impegnarsi.<\/p>\n<p><b>Quando un ragazzo ha paura di impegnarsi, si comporter\u00e0 in modo confuso e vi infastidir\u00e0 in modo sottile, ad esempio non mandandovi prima un messaggio.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>There are many reasons why a guy would be afraid to commit. It might be because he is overwhelmed by your emotions, he doesn\u2019t want to lose his freedom or he feels like you\u2019re too into his personal space.<\/p>\n<p>Ora probabilmente penserete: <i>Se questo \u00e8 il motivo, allora perch\u00e9 si preoccupa di rispondere ai miei messaggi?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c8 perch\u00e9 <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/15-segnali-rivelatori-del-fatto-che-lui-sta-combattendo-i-suoi-sentimenti-per-te\/\"><b>sta combattendo i suoi sentimenti per lei<\/b><\/a><b>. L'altra parte del suo cervello gli sta dicendo che dovrebbe <\/b><b>ti rispondo con un messaggio<\/b><b> to see where it&#8217;s all going.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>La cosa migliore da fare \u00e8 lasciarlo riflettere e soppesare tutti i pro e i contro della sua decisione di partecipare o meno alla vostra vita.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-motivi-per-cui-molti-uomini-soffrono-di-problemi-di-impegno\/\">Problemi di impegno<\/a> sono davvero stancanti e si ha la sensazione che qualsiasi cosa si faccia non sia sufficiente. \u00c8 difficile costringerlo, attraverso gli sms, a impegnarsi con te e a iniziare a mandarti messaggi per primo.<\/p>\n<p>Lo far\u00e0 solo quando sar\u00e0 pronto, ed \u00e8 per questo che dovreste lasciarlo in pace per il momento.<\/p>\n<h3>9. He\u2019s afraid he\u2019s not good at texting<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69936 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-man-texting-on-his-phone.jpg\" alt=\"uomo infelice che messaggia al cellulare\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-man-texting-on-his-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-man-texting-on-his-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-man-texting-on-his-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i>Non tutti i ragazzi sono sicuri e diretti quando si tratta di mandare messaggi.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Alcuni ragazzi hanno seri problemi con questo aspetto, al punto da essere ansiosi di mandarvi un messaggio per primi.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Per questo motivo scelgono l'opzione pi\u00f9 sicura di tutte, ovvero quella di lasciarvi mandare un messaggio per primi. Poi, si limiteranno a rispondere e a sperare per il meglio.<\/p>\n<p><b>In their mind, it is easier and safer to follow your intentions and topics regarding conversation than to overthink about you becoming upset if they text you about something you\u2019re not interested in.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Riconoscerete questo tipo di ragazzo se le sue risposte sono molto brevi o se usa solo emoji, e se la sua personalit\u00e0 vi dice che potrebbe essere il tipo di ragazzo che \u00e8 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-non-essere-unautrice-di-messaggi-secchi\/\">un'autrice di testi asciutti<\/a>, especially if he really likes you &#8211; the pressure will be even higher.<\/p>\n<p>Dovreste in qualche modo cercare di incoraggiarlo a essere pi\u00f9 aperto con voi e, una volta che inizier\u00e0 a sentirsi in grado di dirvi qualsiasi cosa o di chiedervi consigli, diventer\u00e0 pi\u00f9 disinvolto.<\/p>\n<p>RELATIVO: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-risponde-ai-messaggi\/\">14 cose intelligenti da fare quando lui non risponde ai messaggi per giorni<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>10. Vuole giocare in modo casual<\/h3>\n<p>A differenza del gioco duro, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-segnali-che-dimostrano-che-lui-vuole-rimanere-casual\/\">giocare con disinvoltura <\/a>is another type of \u2018game\u2019. Playing casual means he doesn\u2019t want to feel obliged to text you first or to text you when you expect him to.<\/p>\n<p>Vuole che tu rimanga disinvolta e che non conti quante volte lui ti ha mandato un messaggio per primo o quante volte tu gli hai mandato un messaggio per prima.<\/p>\n<p><b>Obviously, he\u2019s not into any kind of relationship, but this doesn\u2019t mean that he\u2019s not into you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Potrebbe essere interessato a te, ma potrebbe anche voler giocare con disinvoltura con te.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe he\u2019s been in a few relationships before you, and now he wants to chill for some time until he gets bored of it.<\/p>\n<p><b>Egli sar\u00e0 sempre <\/b><b>ti rispondo con un messaggio<\/b><b> because apparently, he wants to stay in touch with you but also wants you to know that he\u2019s not ready for anything big.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Vuole solo passare dei bei momenti con te e se la cosa si trasforma in qualcosa di pi\u00f9 grande, potrebbe anche cambiare idea sul fatto di rimanere occasionale e iniziare a mandarti messaggi per primo invece di aspettare che sia tu a farlo.<\/p>\n<p>But, don&#8217;t you ever do it! Don&#8217;t text him and he will text you because he loves the chase!<\/p>\n<h3>11. He\u2019s not interested in you<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69937 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-walking-with-bag.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che cammina con borsa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-walking-with-bag.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-walking-with-bag-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-walking-with-bag-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Il motivo per cui alcuni ragazzi <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perche-mi-manda-messaggi-se-non-e-interessato-13-reasons-why\/\">text you even if they&#8217;re not interested in you<\/a> is that they&#8217;re too polite.<\/p>\n<p><i>This one is really annoying because why would he waste your time replying to your texts when he\u2019s not interested in the <\/i><i>primo posto<\/i><i>?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Additional clues are if he is replying with \u2018yes or no\u2019 or he\u2019s constantly making excuses when you propose a second date night, movie night or something similar.<\/p>\n<p><b>It is a clear sign that he is not interested in you but will keep responding because he thinks it\u2019s the right thing to do.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Evidentemente non \u00e8 diretto o ha solo paura di deludervi.<\/p>\n<p>Qualunque sia il motivo, \u00e8 davvero ingiusto quando qualcuno vi d\u00e0 false speranze.<\/p>\n<p>Again, you can try to quit texting for a while to see if something\u2019s going to change.<\/p>\n<p>In caso contrario, sapete che ora \u00e8. <b>It\u2019s time to leave him alone and text someone else who will be more than happy to reply to your texts and even text you first.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>12. \u00c8 un introverso<\/h3>\n<p>Se il vostro uomo \u00e8 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uscire-con-gli-introversi-14-cose-fondamentali-da-sapere-prima-di-uscire-con-loro\/\">un introverso<\/a>, chances are he\u2019s unable to text you first because his introvert nature is not letting him.<\/p>\n<p>A differenza degli estroversi, gli introversi fanno fatica a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.truity.com\/blog\/introvert-heres-why-opening-can-feel-oversharing\" rel=\"noopener\">aprirsi a qualcuno<\/a> e prendere l'iniziativa.<\/p>\n<p>Per questo motivo scelgono di rimanere inattivi fino a quando qualcuno non bussa alla loro porta o non scrive loro un messaggio.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c8 davvero difficile incolpare un introverso per questo, perch\u00e9 non \u00e8 colpa sua.<\/p>\n<p><b>Vivono in questo mondo con la paura di essere giudicati per tutto ci\u00f2 che fanno. E pi\u00f9 si interessano a voi, pi\u00f9 diventano ansiosi.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quindi, decidono di aspettare che sia tu a mandare il messaggio per primo, invece di farlo, perch\u00e9 sono troppo ansiosi.<\/p>\n<p><b>They get too anxious even when they have to reply to your text because they are afraid they are going to mess it up. And they don\u2019t want to mess it up.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>They want you to understand that they have issues with opening up to you, and if they respond with some weird texts, it is because they\u2019ve been contemplating too much about how to properly respond.<\/p>\n<p><i>Per decifrare il <\/i><i>motivo reale<\/i><i> non ti manda mai un sms per primo (ma risponde sempre quando tu <\/i><i>mandagli un messaggio<\/i><i>), dovreste anche prestare attenzione ai tratti della sua personalit\u00e0, alle sue intenzioni, al suo passato, <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-suo-linguaggio-del-corpo-dice-di-lui\/\"><i>linguaggio del corpo<\/i><\/a><i>, ecc.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>Questi possono sembrare dettagli banali e superflui, ma credetemi, vi aiuteranno a vedere il quadro generale che si cela dietro il concetto di non inviare messaggi per primi.<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>13. He&#8217;s just playing with you<\/h3>\n<h2><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69938 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looking-thoughtful-while-holding-glasses.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che guarda pensieroso con gli occhiali in mano\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looking-thoughtful-while-holding-glasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looking-thoughtful-while-holding-glasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looking-thoughtful-while-holding-glasses-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/h2>\n<p><i>Does he send you &#8216;<\/i><i>buongiorno<\/i><i>&#8216; and &#8216;<\/i><i>buonanotte<\/i><i>&#8216; texts only to suddenly <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/i-veri-motivi-per-cui-gli-uomini-scelgono-il-vile-atto-del-ghosting\/\"><i>fantasma<\/i><i> voi<\/i><\/a><i> per il prossimo <\/i><i>un paio di giorni<\/i><i>? Avresti mai avuto <\/i><i>conversazioni di testo<\/i><i> if it weren&#8217;t for your strenuous efforts?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>If you are the only one keeping these conversations alive, then it&#8217;s not because he has bad texting habits.<\/p>\n<p>Potrebbe essere il tipo di uomo che scrive bene i messaggi solo quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-segni-che-sta-usando-lego-boost\/\">ha bisogno di un'iniezione di ego<\/a> o il sexting.<\/p>\n<p><b>If a man isn&#8217;t consistent in his efforts, then he&#8217;s probably there because you make him feel good, not because he actually <\/b><b>ti ama<\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Yes, don&#8217;t text him and he will text you \u2013 but what&#8217;s the point?<\/p>\n<p>See this as the big deal that it is and move on. Don&#8217;t waste your time on someone who doesn&#8217;t appreciate you for who you really are.<\/p>\n<h3>14. He doesn&#8217;t want to hurt your feelings<\/h3>\n<p><i>Not all men are players. Not all men are going to text you just so they can have fun. Some actually see you as a human being with feelings they don&#8217;t want to hurt.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>He wants you to see straight away that he&#8217;s not interested in you because he doesn&#8217;t want to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-cose-da-fare-quando-vi-sta-prendendo-per-i-fondelli\/\">ti prende per i fondelli<\/a>. <b>He knows that even if he is just polite, you will get your hopes up unnecessarily. So, he simply doesn&#8217;t reach out to you at all.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You shouldn&#8217;t be angry with him. Quite frankly, respect that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-vantaggi-di-uscire-con-un-uomo-maturo-2\/\">he&#8217;s mature<\/a> abbastanza da non giocare con te e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-superare-una-relazione\/\">andare avanti<\/a> a qualcuno che ti vuole davvero.<\/p>\n<h3>15. \u00c8 ancora innamorato della sua ex<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69939 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-typing-on-his-phone.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che scrive al telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-typing-on-his-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-typing-on-his-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-typing-on-his-phone-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Some men are perfectly aware of it, and others only feel it subconsciously, but the truth is that many men can&#8217;t commit to someone new because <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/talking-apes\/202001\/why-some-people-cant-stop-thinking-about-their-exes\" rel=\"noopener\">they can&#8217;t stop thinking about their ex<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><i>Rabbrividisce ancora al solo nominarla? Conserva ancora i suoi regali? Ha ancora le sue foto sul suo profilo?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>In caso affermativo, questo potrebbe essere il vostro spunto. <b>Cercare di <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/devi-lasciarlo-andare\/\"><b>lasciarlo andare<\/b><\/a><b> perch\u00e9 vi meritate qualcuno che abbia in mente solo voi.<\/b><\/p>\n<h3>16. He doesn&#8217;t think you feel the same<\/h3>\n<p>Questo \u00e8 un classico perch\u00e9 gli uomini sono davvero sprovveduti quando si tratta di capire se vi piacciono o meno.<\/p>\n<p><b>You could be giving him the most obvious hints, but alas, he just won&#8217;t see them for what they are.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>Quindi, se notate che <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/meriti-un-messaggio-di-risposta-e-queste-altre-6-cose-se-lui-e-davvero-interessato-a-te\/\"><i>he&#8217;s into you<\/i><\/a><i> but, somehow, can&#8217;t seem to make a move, he probably thinks you won&#8217;t reciprocate. What can you do?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>La cosa migliore da fare \u00e8 dirgli direttamente quello che provate per lui. Tuttavia, se questo vi spaventa, potete semplicemente descrivere il vostro uomo perfetto davanti a lui. Parlate costantemente delle sue caratteristiche positive e di come vi piacerebbe avere una persona cos\u00ec come partner.<\/p>\n<p>Once he sees that he is what you&#8217;re looking for, you will have <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/fai-queste-6-cose-flirtanti-per-aiutarlo-a-fare-la-prima-mossa\/\">lo ha aiutato a fare la prima mossa<\/a>, and eventually, he\u2019ll ask you out on a first date.<\/p>\n<h3>17. In realt\u00e0 \u00e8 molto timido<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69940 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed.jpg\" alt=\"uomo infelice in pigiama sul letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/unhappy-man-in-pajamas-on-bed-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Yes, shy men do exist. It doesn&#8217;t matter if he has a tendency to talk a lot in front of you. <b>Potrebbe trattarsi solo di chiacchiere nervose. Potrebbe essere ancora timido quando si tratta di affrontare i suoi sentimenti per te.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>Ha un <\/i><i>tempo difficile<\/i><i> mantenere il contatto visivo? Il suo <\/i><i>migliori amici<\/i><i> tease him whenever you&#8217;re around? Do you sense that he&#8217;s uncomfortable every time he speaks to you <\/i><i>faccia a faccia<\/i><i>?<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Se s\u00ec, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/piaci-a-un-ragazzo-timido\/\">gli piaci<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Try to make it easier for him. Don&#8217;t give him one-word answers, but rather be truly interested in whatever he has to say. Show him how much you care about him, and you will see how he will relax in no time.<\/p>\n<h3>18. \u00c8 stato deluso in passato<\/h3>\n<p>A man&#8217;s behavior can tell you a lot about his past. If you see that he&#8217;s having a hard time committing to you or saying &#8221;I love you,&#8221; then that means that he was really hurt by a woman in his past. He shouldn&#8217;t be judged for it.<\/p>\n<p>If you notice that he still has feelings for her, that&#8217;s a different matter and a major red flag. <b>But, if he&#8217;s merely hesitant to open up to you because he believes each relationship is doomed, be <\/b><b>l'uno<\/b><b> per convincerlo del contrario.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Dimostrategli nel migliore dei modi che non siete qui per giocare, ma per amarlo sinceramente e per formare un rapporto di fiducia con lui. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/le-5-fasi-della-frequentazione-che-creano-una-relazione-damore-e-duratura\/\">relazione d'amore<\/a> con lui.<\/p>\n<p><i>Scegliete le parole con attenzione e in modo strategico (per un buon scopo), ma lasciate anche che il vostro comportamento parli per voi. Lo incoraggerete a inviare finalmente quel <\/i><i>primo testo<\/i><i>!<\/i><\/p>\n<h3>19. \u00c8 troppo insicuro per fare una mossa<\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69941 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looking-at-phone-unhappy.jpg\" alt=\"uomo che guarda il telefono infelice\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looking-at-phone-unhappy.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looking-at-phone-unhappy-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-looking-at-phone-unhappy-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uomini-con-scarsa-autostima\/\"><i>Uomini con bassa <\/i><i>autostima<\/i><\/a><i> exist too. So, if he still hasn&#8217;t made the <\/i><i>prima mossa<\/i><i>, potrebbe essere <\/i><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/9-segni-di-paura-del-rifiuto\/\"><i>paura del rifiuto<\/i><\/a><i>! Potrebbe pensare che sei troppo brava per lui.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>When he thinks about his own looks and personality, he keeps finding flaws and reasons for you not to be with him. If a man is this insecure, I am sure you can understand why he hasn&#8217;t texted you yet.<\/p>\n<p><b>So, if you&#8217;re really interested in a relationship with him, show him how worthy he is of you. Show him that he&#8217;s just your type and that all his flaws are utterly adorable.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Credetemi, quel messaggio apparir\u00e0 sul vostro telefono prima di quanto pensiate!<\/p>\n<h3>20. He doesn&#8217;t want to be seen as desperate<\/h3>\n<p>He seemed so interested the last time you saw him, and now it&#8217;s as if you don&#8217;t exist. He can&#8217;t devote any of his free time to sending even one text.<\/p>\n<p><b>This is because he doesn&#8217;t want to appear overly eager to impress you as he thinks that it will drive you away.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i>Gli uomini hanno un ego molto fragile e il pensiero che lei lo rifiuti dopo che si \u00e8 impegnato molto \u00e8 per lui inaccettabile.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Quello che dovreste fare \u00e8 mostrargli quanto apprezzate ogni piccola cosa che fa. Dimostrategli che nessuno dei suoi sforzi passa inosservato.<\/p>\n<p>He will start acting differently after this encouragement, that&#8217;s for sure.<\/p>\n<h2>Don&#8217;t Text Him And He Will Text You&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-69942 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-sitting-on-roof-and-looking-at-city.jpg\" alt=\"uomo seduto sul tetto che guarda la citt\u00e0\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-sitting-on-roof-and-looking-at-city.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-sitting-on-roof-and-looking-at-city-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/man-sitting-on-roof-and-looking-at-city-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Yes, show him how much you like him to encourage him to make a move, but never be the only one who tries. Don&#8217;t text him and he will text you first.<\/p>\n<p>Il migliore <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/consigli-per-gli-appuntamenti-con-le-donne\/\">consigli per gli incontri<\/a> anyone could ever give you is to never make an effort for a man who doesn&#8217;t do the same for you.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-cose-che-luomo-non-amera-mai-veramente\/\"><b>Un uomo che veramente <\/b><b>ti ama<\/b><\/a><b> volont\u00e0 <\/b><b>testo doppio<\/b><b> e assicuratevi di non mettere mai in dubbio i suoi sentimenti per voi.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know you want to scream and demand from him to tell you why he\u2019s been acting this way. I know you feel confused and frustrated because you don\u2019t know why he never texts you first even when he&#8217;s clearly present on social media. And you have every right to feel this way. You have&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":69946,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28054","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/12-Reasons-He-Never-Texts-You-First-But-Always-Responds-When-You-Text-Him.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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