{"id":2810,"date":"2019-07-25T11:14:09","date_gmt":"2019-07-25T11:14:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2810"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:25:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:25:10","slug":"6-cose-che-gli-uomini-fanno-sentire-come-se-tu-fossi-pazzo-uno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-cose-che-gli-uomini-fanno-sentire-come-se-tu-fossi-pazzo-uno\/","title":{"rendered":"6 cose che gli uomini fanno per farti sentire come se fossi tu quella pazza"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sono pazzo?<\/em>\u2014This is probably the question you\u2019ve been asking yourself over and over.<\/p>\n

Why is that? You\u2019re probably in a situation where your partner is making you believe you\u2019re a bit \u2018coocoo\u2019. From all his talk, you are left to believe that you are the main source of all your problems. You are left with the thought that everything descends from you\u2014you are the \u2018queen bee\u2019 of the nuthouse you\u2019re living in.<\/p>\n

Quando in realt\u00e0 le cose non stanno proprio cos\u00ec.<\/p>\n

After all that talk about you being crazy, you start to believe you\u2019re actually crazy and that was his goal all along.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know why that kind of men do it and what the catch is. Maybe they are making you think you\u2019re crazy just to gain control over you.<\/p>\n

They are feeding you with toxic thoughts to make you surrender to them and let them take control over your life completely\u2014because you are not able to trust your own judgment anymore.<\/p>\n

Simply put, they are \u2018gaslighting\u2019 you. \u2018Gaslighting\u2019 is a psychiatric term when false information is presented to the victims, making them doubt their own memories and therefore, their sanity.<\/p>\n

Si tratta di una forma di abuso emotivo che ha l'effetto di rendere le vittime ansiose, confuse e dubbiose dei propri ricordi e delle proprie percezioni.<\/p>\n

Here are the things men do to make you believe you\u2019re the crazy one.<\/p>\n

1. He\u2019s making you do something you know is not right<\/span><\/h2>\n

He\u2019s asking you to do something for him and you know, deep in your bones, that it\u2019s not a right thing to do. And you tell him that.<\/p>\n

All you\u2019re left with is him convincing you that every woman would do that \u2018something\u2019 (including everything else) for her man.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s guilt-tripping you by making you believe you\u2019re the only one that seems to have a problem with that \u2018something\u2019 he\u2019s asked you to do.<\/p>\n

In the end, you\u2019re starting to think you\u2019re totally paranoid\u2014something is seriously wrong with you, but NOTIZIE FLASH!<\/strong><\/em>\u2014it\u2019s not. This is his way of making you believe you\u2019re the crazy one.<\/p>\n

2. He\u2019ll purposely bring out stuff just to hurt you<\/span><\/h2>\n

Ogni volta che lo cogliete in una situazione ambigua in cui deve dare delle spiegazioni, trover\u00e0 un modo per trovare qualcosa che vi \u00e8 successo e che \u00e8 in qualche modo collegato all'argomento.<\/p>\n

Dopo di che, rimarrete con quel pensiero che vi ha ficcato in faccia, sentendovi fottuti a tutti i livelli. Vi dimenticherete completamente di quello che volevate chiedergli.<\/p>\n

For example, if you caught him texting a girl you don\u2019t know and confronted him about it, he would remind you how your parents cheated on each other.<\/p>\n

You see, the fact your parents cheated on each other has nothing to do with the current situation, but somehow he manages to bring that up and make you feel like you\u2019re the crazy one.<\/p>\n

3. He\u2019s telling you that you\u2019re too emotional<\/span><\/h2>\n

Qualcuno ha visto il vostro partner con una strana ragazza o donna. La prima cosa da fare \u00e8 chiedergli cosa diavolo sta succedendo.<\/p>\n

Of course, you won\u2019t get a straight answer.<\/p>\n

Otterrete un \u2018Baby, you\u2019re a bit paranoid\u2019<\/em> talk because he\u2019s the \u2018perfect\u2019 life companion who would never hurt you.<\/p>\n

Vi verr\u00e0 da pensare che siete voi quelli paranoici e troppo emotivi che prendono le cose troppo sul serio.<\/p>\n

No matter that you know he might be cheating on you and you are a hundred percent positive it\u2019s true\u2014you will doubt your decision and your sanity because he makes you do it.<\/p>\n

4. He\u2019ll make fun of you in front of your friends<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\n

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He will tell a \u2018story\u2019 of you acting crazy to your friends. But here\u2019s the catch\u2014he\u2019ll take something that was serious (something you were truly upset about) and he will tell it in a funny way, thus making you look \u2018silly\u2019.<\/p>\n

Quando vedrete che tutti i vostri amici ridono della storia che ha raccontato, dimenticherete quanto vi sentivate male e quanto eravate arrabbiati.<\/p>\n

Maybe you even start to question yourself and the fact whether you are sane or not\u2014whether it was worth getting upset about or not (and it was).<\/p>\n

5. Iniziate a mentire<\/span><\/h2>\n

Maybe this happens after you realize what he\u2019s doing to you. So, in order to avoid emotional abuse, you start lying about things\u2014just to save yourself from unnecessary arguments and yelling because you can\u2019t take it anymore.<\/p>\n

You were never a liar. You don\u2019t have that kind of past, but now it\u2019s an everyday thing to you.<\/p>\n

6. He\u2019s making you doubt your own memory<\/span><\/h2>\n

He\u2019s always saying you misinterpreted his words and that he didn\u2019t say what you think he said.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s always saying one thing and if you catch him lying, he is telling you another. But here\u2019s the problem.<\/p>\n

Quegli uomini sono cos\u00ec bravi a mentire e trovano sempre il modo di mettere le cose al loro servizio.<\/p>\n

He is ready to make you believe he\u2019s never on Facebook and you do believe him\u2014and then you see him scrolling Facebook tomorrow and the day after and after.<\/p>\n

But you don\u2019t do anything about it because he will make you believe that\u2019s not true.<\/p>\n

The whole point behind this \u2018Gaslighting\u2019 thing is that you just stop trying. You\u2019ve endured so much emotional abuse. You\u2019ve been told you\u2019re crazy or that you\u2019re imagining things. You don\u2019t trust your judgment and you\u2019re doubting your actions.<\/p>\n

You stop trying and you let him make you believe you\u2019re the one that has the problem\u2014but you\u2019re not. He is\u2014you are just a victim.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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