But, I\u2019m sorry to disappoint you that guys don\u2019t work that way.<\/p>\n
If you demand or beg him to change, your requests will be ignored. Guys don\u2019t like to be begged or ordered what to do or how to behave, but they like to be inspired and subtly given advice on something that bothers you.<\/p>\n
Think of them like puppies. If you promise him that you will give him a treat each time he does something good, he will be more than happy to work on himself. I know it sounds weird, but that\u2019s how guys function as well.<\/p>\n
Per ottenere i risultati desiderati, \u00e8 necessario creare un ambiente positivo e stimolante che lo induca sottilmente a cambiare senza nemmeno rendersene conto.<\/b><\/p>\n Quando si tratta di convincerlo a cambiare senza essere violenti, una delle cose pi\u00f9 importanti \u00e8 offrire prima suggerimenti e poi dargli consigli.<\/p>\n Se lo fate, non sar\u00e0 in grado di scartarlo perch\u00e9 offrire suggerimenti non \u00e8 un'imposizione, e avr\u00e0 una migliore visione e comprensione della situazione.<\/p>\n After that, when he\u2019s accepted the situation, you give him advice (solution on how to overcome it). And if he doesn\u2019t like your advice, let him think and contemplate about it until he finds a proper solution for it.<\/p>\n Questo approccio gli far\u00e0 capire, incoraggiandolo a cambiare e a trovare una soluzione.<\/p>\n Per incoraggiare, intendo dare un feedback per qualcosa di buono che ha fatto. Il feedback pu\u00f2 essere sotto forma di parole o di premio.<\/p>\n No guy can resist this, and if he sees that you\u2019re noticing his efforts, he will be more than happy to continue improving himself.<\/p>\n If a guy notices that you\u2019re rewarding his work and you\u2019re showing him that his actions have made you happy, he will be encouraged to keep up the good work, so that you continue rewarding him.<\/p>\n That way he will not even be aware that he\u2019s changing because he\u2019s doing it subconsciously.<\/p>\n Il modo pi\u00f9 efficace per ispirarlo a iniziare a lavorare su se stesso \u00e8 iniziare a lavorare su di s\u00e9. Sappiate che i ragazzi prendono a modello il vostro comportamento senza nemmeno rendersi conto di farlo.<\/p>\n So, the best way to inspire him to change himself is to find something that you\u2019ve always wanted to change about yourself and start working on it.<\/p>\n When he sees that you\u2019re giving your best to accomplish it, he will be inspired to do the same if only to prove you that he can. And when a guy becomes determined to achieve something, believe me, nothing will stop him.<\/p>\n I don\u2019t mean that you should ignore him or act like you don\u2019t care about him. Instead, you should limit the amount of affection you\u2019re showing him and limit your conversations, and he will instantly know that something\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\n Questo non lo far\u00e0 arrabbiare, ma evocher\u00e0 la sua curiosit\u00e0 e vorr\u00e0 sapere qual \u00e8 stata la causa scatenante di tale comportamento.<\/p>\n Quando glielo direte, sar\u00e0 felice di averlo finalmente saputo e comincer\u00e0 a fare qualcosa per riconquistarvi. Ma attenzione a non esagerare, perch\u00e9 si otterr\u00e0 un effetto contrario.<\/p>\n It is important to set your boundaries and to stick to them. If he knows exactly what you\u2019re expecting of him and your relationship, he will know that he will have to work on himself if he wants to keep you.<\/p>\n L'errore pi\u00f9 grande che potreste commettere \u00e8 quello di chiudere un occhio se fa qualcosa che sa che gli avete detto espressamente di non tollerare.<\/p>\n If you let this happen once, you will not be able to control it anymore. He has to see that you\u2019re serious about your boundaries and decisions, and if he is not willing to cooperate, there will be certain consequences.<\/p>\n Always remember to acknowledge his efforts if you see that he\u2019s trying. It doesn\u2019t matter if he fails at it because trying is what will make him succeed. So, don\u2019t forget to tell him that you see how hard he is trying, and you really appreciate it.<\/p>\n1. Offrire suggerimenti, quindi dare consigli<\/span><\/h2>\n
2. Incoraggiarlo<\/span><\/h2>\n
3. Ispirarlo<\/span><\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Allontanarsi per qualche tempo<\/span><\/h2>\n
5. Stabilite i vostri confini<\/span><\/h2>\n
6. Riconoscere i suoi sforzi<\/span><\/h2>\n
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