{"id":28311,"date":"2020-03-23T10:08:02","date_gmt":"2020-03-23T10:08:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28311"},"modified":"2022-01-05T15:19:01","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T15:19:01","slug":"una-lettera-di-addio-alluomo-che-non-voglio-lasciare-andare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-lettera-di-addio-alluomo-che-non-voglio-lasciare-andare\/","title":{"rendered":"Lettera di addio all'uomo che non voglio lasciare andare"},"content":{"rendered":"

Per tutta la vita sono stata una ragazza forte e coraggiosa, ma quando si tratta di amore, in qualche modo perdo completamente il mio potere.<\/p>\n

Mi trasformo in una ragazza che vuole solo strisciare in un buco e lasciare che qualcun altro faccia il lavoro duro per lei.<\/p>\n

And I am not doing that because I am a coward but because I can\u2019t stand watching people while I am telling them things they don\u2019t want to hear.<\/p>\n

And that is why I am doing this right now. That is the reason I am writing this letter. I can\u2019t look you in the eye and tell you that I am leaving.<\/p>\n

So che saresti deluso, distrutto e che andresti in pezzi. So che mi pregheresti di restare con te, dicendomi che cambierai.<\/p>\n

So che mi racconterai di nuovo le stesse vecchie bugie e, quel che \u00e8 peggio, ti creder\u00f2 e ti accetter\u00f2 di nuovo.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I am writing this break-up letter far away from you. I want to calm my thoughts and to think straight.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to hurt you, especially after so many things that we went through together. But I don\u2019t want you in my life anymore.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t stand putting you first while you never do that for me.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t stand fighting for your attention while you easily give it to the first girl you meet.<\/p>\n

I can\u2019t convince you that you should sometimes listen to what I have to say because, hey, I know what is best for you.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to decide instead of me. I don\u2019t want you to think that I would be incapable of doing big things without you.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to tell me what I should and shouldn\u2019t do. I am big enough to know what can benefit me and what is not so good for me.<\/p>\n

And that is what you did throughout the whole relationship. You didn\u2019t behave like we are equals. You didn\u2019t behave like I was an adult.<\/p>\n

Hai sempre avuto una strana voglia di essere il dominatore, quello che decide e che ha la decisione finale.<\/p>\n

E sapete cosa?<\/p>\n

I am sick and tired of that! I don\u2019t want to be with someone who doesn\u2019t even think I am worthy.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want a man who will mold me into someone he would like to fall in love with.<\/p>\n

I want you to fall in love with the real me. I want you to accept the real me and not ever having it cross your mind to change anything about me\u2014not even a single bit.<\/p>\n

Sto chiedendo troppo? Sto chiedendo l'impossibile?<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t think so, especially after everything I did for you. I\u2019m not asking too much because if it was real love, you would have known my wishes by just looking at me.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Ma tu non sei mai stato capace di farlo.<\/p>\n

Non hai mai visto oltre il mio corpo. Non hai mai voluto conoscermi pi\u00f9 a fondo.<\/p>\n

Volevate solo una persona che facesse bene al vostro ego, che ascoltasse i vostri desideri e che si divertisse con voi.<\/p>\n

E sono diventata tutto ci\u00f2 che volevi. Ho perso me stessa per troppo tempo solo per poterti rendere felice.<\/p>\n

And I came to the breaking point where I couldn\u2019t even recognize myself anymore.<\/p>\n

I changed so much just so you would like me more that I forgot to love myself. The girl I see in the mirror isn\u2019t that happy and positive girl anymore.<\/p>\n

She is far from happy because she doesn\u2019t listen to her heart. Instead, she listens to someone else who isn\u2019t even good for her.<\/p>\n

Ascolta l'uomo che pensa sia il suo per sempre felici e contenti <\/a>. Ma non lo \u00e8. E non lo sar\u00e0 mai.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why this rottura<\/a> lettera \u00e8 cos\u00ec dolorosa per me. E so che sarebbe ancora pi\u00f9 doloroso se vi dicessi tutto questo di persona.<\/p>\n

I know that I wouldn\u2019t be so strong and that you would convince me to go back to you. And that is the last thing I want to do.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Oggi \u00e8 il giorno in cui ti lascio andare, non importa se lo vuoi o no. Ho ascoltato i tuoi desideri per tanto tempo e ora \u00e8 il mio turno.<\/p>\n

Ho bisogno che tu rispetti il mio unico desiderio, quello che ti scrivo in questa lettera. Voglio che rispettiate la mia decisione come io ho sempre rispettato la vostra.<\/p>\n

I want you to finally let me go because this is not love anymore; it is just a bad compromise. And I can\u2019t live like this any longer.<\/p>\n

If you are wondering if there is another man behind this whole story, just know that there isn\u2019t. I am still madly in love with you, but you are ruining me like nobody did before.<\/p>\n

You are hurting me even if I love you, and you don\u2019t want to change.<\/p>\n

Non mantenete le vostre promesse come se non significassero nulla per voi e ripetete sempre le stesse cose.<\/p>\n

And I am smart enough to see that by doing all that, you don\u2019t really love me.<\/p>\n

Tu ami solo l'idea di me. Ami il fatto di avere qualcuno con cui bere il caff\u00e8 del mattino, qualcuno che ti terr\u00e0 al caldo nelle fredde notti d'inverno e qualcuno con cui poterti mettere in mostra.<\/p>\n

Sadly, I was that person but not anymore. So please don\u2019t call me and beg me to give you another chance because I gave you too many of them.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t text me and don\u2019t try to find me.<\/p>\n

Anche se ti sto lasciando, non \u00e8 una cosa facile da fare. Ho passato troppo tempo con te per poterti dimenticare con cos\u00ec poco preavviso.<\/p>\n

So, please don\u2019t reach out. Don\u2019t make it harder for both of us.<\/p>\n

Sapevi che prima o poi sarebbe successo qualcosa del genere. Ed \u00e8 meglio che sia successo ora, perch\u00e9 possiamo ancora trovare la nostra vera corrispondenza.<\/p>\n

In the end, I just want you to know that I don\u2019t hate you. I guess heaven sent you into my life for some reason.<\/p>\n

Maybe to make me stronger, to teach me that real love can\u2019t be found on every corner and to show me that sometimes it is better to be alone than in a bad company.<\/p>\n

Ed \u00e8 quello che far\u00f2 adesso. Sar\u00f2 sola, libera da te e totalmente concentrata su me stessa.<\/p>\n

Maybe in losing you, I will find what I have always been seeking \u2013 maybe I will find myself.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Christine is the author of \u2018 Guardare negli occhi l'ansia e la depressione <\/a>\u2019 , a book that will change the way you fight anxiety and depression.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Lettera<\/p>\n

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