{"id":2853,"date":"2020-08-26T07:30:52","date_gmt":"2020-08-26T07:30:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2853"},"modified":"2021-08-11T09:55:56","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T09:55:56","slug":"5-motivi-per-cui-e-impossibile-rimanere-fwb-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-motivi-per-cui-e-impossibile-rimanere-fwb-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"5 motivi per cui \u00e8 impossibile rimanere FWB con il proprio EX"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Isn\u2019t the whole idea of being <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/me-we\/201502\/what-it-really-means-be-friends-benefits\" rel=\"noopener\">amici con benefici<\/a> di non avere legami con nessuno? Fare l'FWB con il proprio ex \u00e8 una missione impossibile.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s all the emotional baggage that you carry which will interrupt your intentions, and you\u2019ll end up catching feelings once again even though you wanted it to be just casual s*x.<\/p>\n<p>There are some major things that\u2019ll ruin your plan.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La famiglia e gli amici ti spediscono ancora<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107910\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/three-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking.jpg\" alt=\"tre amici sono seduti in un caff\u00e8 e stanno parlando\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/three-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/three-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/three-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/three-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/three-friends-are-sitting-in-a-cafe-and-talking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You might think all that there was between the two of you has ended, but people you\u2019re surrounded with might not agree with you. They see it way differently than you do and that\u2019s why they\u2019ll still try and ship you.<\/p>\n<p>Sar\u00e0 impossibile partecipare a cene in comune o altro senza essere continuamente chiamati in causa. Chiunque vi conosca abbastanza percepisce l'energia che c'\u00e8 tra voi e il vostro ex.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You\u2019re Unable To Move On<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107912\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks.jpg\" alt=\"una brunetta triste si siede sul letto e pensa\" width=\"800\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks-768x518.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-sad-brunette-sits-on-the-bed-and-thinks-150x101.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Having somebody besides you (and that somebody is your ex) makes it hard for you to move on. The thing with being FWB with your ex is that you constantly think you have somebody even though you haven\u2019t put a label on it.<\/p>\n<p>You do call yourself \u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/me-we\/201502\/what-it-really-means-be-friends-benefits\" rel=\"noopener\">amici con benefici<\/a>\u2019, but deep down, something is still holding you attached to him and it makes you run and not look back whenever you get a chance for a new hookup.<\/p>\n<p>Even though you\u2019ve broken up, you\u2019re refusing to end whatever there is going on between the two of you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La gelosia \u00e8 inevitabile<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107914 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette.jpg\" alt=\"il ritratto di una bella bruna triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-portrait-of-a-beautiful-sad-brunette-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>There is this feeling of belonging to your ex that stays for a little while even after you have broken up. After a while it should disappear\u2014eventually, it goes away like after not hearing from him\/her for a while or so.<\/p>\n<p>If you don\u2019t cut all strings with your ex, you\u2019ll get again those jealousy outbursts like you had when you were dating because you haven\u2019t given enough time for each other to move on.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You Start Acting Like It\u2019s All Normal<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107915\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-smiling-beautifully-dressed-woman-with-sunglasses-walks-down-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"una donna sorridente e ben vestita con gli occhiali da sole cammina per la strada\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-smiling-beautifully-dressed-woman-with-sunglasses-walks-down-the-street.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-smiling-beautifully-dressed-woman-with-sunglasses-walks-down-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-smiling-beautifully-dressed-woman-with-sunglasses-walks-down-the-street-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-smiling-beautifully-dressed-woman-with-sunglasses-walks-down-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-smiling-beautifully-dressed-woman-with-sunglasses-walks-down-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Where is the line you can\u2019t cross? You might agree on your terms of \u2018dating\u2019, but I can bet you it\u2019ll all be forgotten once you get too used to each other.<\/p>\n<p>Late night talks, joint dinners, jokes only the two of you get and you\u2019ll end up holding each other\u2019s hand and you\u2019re back to square one.<\/p>\n<p>Or\u2026<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Everything&#8217;s A Competition<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-107916\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-romantic-couple-walking-barefoot-on-the-beach-at-sunset.jpg\" alt=\"una coppia romantica che cammina a piedi nudi sulla spiaggia al tramonto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-romantic-couple-walking-barefoot-on-the-beach-at-sunset.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-romantic-couple-walking-barefoot-on-the-beach-at-sunset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-romantic-couple-walking-barefoot-on-the-beach-at-sunset-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-romantic-couple-walking-barefoot-on-the-beach-at-sunset-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/a-romantic-couple-walking-barefoot-on-the-beach-at-sunset-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Who\u2019s the one that will move on first and who\u2019ll be the sucker to be played in the end?<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s all about the feelings and one of you has a bit more affection towards the other or it might be that in the end, the winner is the one that breaks the heart of the other.<\/p>\n<p>Qualcuno pagher\u00e0 per tutti gli errori commessi nella relazione e qualcuno uscir\u00e0 senza un graffio.<\/p>\n<p>The bottom line would be this: If friends with benefits is something you wish to have, then it\u2019s better to try it with somebody new. Reward yourself with a fresh start if you don\u2019t want to end up back with your ex.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/friends-benefits-4-golden-rules-not-cross-line\/\">Amici con benefici: 4 regole d'oro per non superare il limite<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-107921 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-Its-Impossible-To-Stay-FWB-With-Your-EX-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"5 motivi per cui \u00e8 impossibile rimanere FWB con il proprio EX\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-Its-Impossible-To-Stay-FWB-With-Your-EX-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-Its-Impossible-To-Stay-FWB-With-Your-EX-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-Its-Impossible-To-Stay-FWB-With-Your-EX-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-Its-Impossible-To-Stay-FWB-With-Your-EX-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/5-Reasons-Why-Its-Impossible-To-Stay-FWB-With-Your-EX-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Isn\u2019t the whole idea of being friends with benefits to not have any strings attached? Playing FWB with your ex is a mission impossible. It\u2019s all the emotional baggage that you carry which will interrupt your intentions, and you\u2019ll end up catching feelings once again even though you wanted it to be just casual s*x&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2853","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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