{"id":28905,"date":"2018-11-27T08:19:19","date_gmt":"2018-11-27T08:19:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28905"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:57:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:57:51","slug":"accettiamo-lamore-che-pensiamo-di-meritare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/accettiamo-lamore-che-pensiamo-di-meritare\/","title":{"rendered":"Accettiamo l'amore che pensiamo di meritare"},"content":{"rendered":"

Dopo una recente rottura, ho iniziato a riflettere su cosa avessi sbagliato. Mi sono venute in mente diverse domande. Domande come: <\/span>Gli ho mostrato troppo affetto e l'ho spaventato? Mi sono aspettata troppo da lui? Sono semplicemente <\/span><\/i>difficile da amare<\/span><\/i><\/a>?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

E poi ho capito che nulla di tutto ci\u00f2 era vero. L'unica verit\u00e0 \u00e8: <\/span>Accettiamo l'amore che pensiamo di meritare.<\/b> Che cosa significa? Significa che ci stiamo involontariamente limitando quando si tratta di amore. Diamo pi\u00f9 di quanto siamo in grado di dare e riceviamo meno di quanto meritiamo.<\/span><\/p>\n

Why do we fall in love with people who don\u2019t deserve us?<\/b><\/p>\n

Why do we choose someone when we subconsciously know that he\u2019s not a good choice for us? Why do we always hope that the person will change or that we will change them? We fool ourself to believe that this is the right thing to do. <\/span><\/p>\n

We choose to enjoy small loves because we think we will never experience the big one. We waste great amounts of our time on someone who is not worthy of one second. And we realize all of this when it\u2019s too late.<\/span><\/p>\n

We think we don\u2019t deserve better and that is why we settle for people who treat us badly.<\/b><\/p>\n

We accept other people\u2019s lies, manipulations and their toxic behavior just because we think we don\u2019t deserve better than that. But this is not true. We deserve much, much better and greater things than we are settling for. We deserve someone who will be there for us when we are scared.<\/span><\/p>\n

Meritiamo qualcuno che ci tratti con rispetto e ammirazione. Meritiamo qualcuno che pensi sempre a noi perch\u00e9 siamo parte del suo essere. E non dovremmo mai smettere di crederci. <\/span>People who treat us badly don\u2019t deserve us! <\/b>E questa \u00e8 l'unica verit\u00e0.<\/span><\/p>\n

We think we\u2019ll never be good enough.<\/b><\/p>\n

We think we have to be perfect in order to be loved by another human being. How cruel of us to think that. We think we\u2019ll never be good enough because we don\u2019t allow ourself to fail. If we don\u2019t allow ourself to fail, we will never be able to improve ourself. We are good enough.<\/span><\/p>\n

Siete abbastanza bravi!<\/span><\/a> If they don\u2019t like you the way you are, they certainly don\u2019t deserve you. You should never change only to fit the definition of perfect. You are not perfect and that is more than okay. You are good enough for everyone else but you\u2019re not good to yourself. Be good to yourself!<\/span><\/p>\n

Pensiamo di essere indegni di essere amati.<\/b><\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have to worry that you\u2019re unworthy of love because real love is not picky. Real love appreciates all of our quirks, flaws and imperfections and turns them into perfection. We are not unworthy of love, we are just giving our love to the wrong people who are not able to reciprocate.<\/span><\/p>\n

Love should be easy, like a summer breeze, but we keep making it hard for ourself. We keep giving second chances when we know we shouldn\u2019t. We keep hoping that they will change when we know they won\u2019t. We keep giving our heart even though we know that it will be broken. We forget that we deserve to be loved. And we forget to love ourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Meritate di essere amati.<\/b><\/p>\n

You deserve to feel free of all the troubles you\u2019ve gone through and you deserve to experience the essence of true love. You deserve someone who will never stop reminding you how beautiful you truly are, inside and out.<\/span><\/p>\n

Amare se stessi.<\/b><\/p>\n

Dovete essere orgogliosi di voi stessi e accettare solo l'amore che vi solleva, che vi ispira e vi fa diventare la versione migliore di voi stessi. Accettate l'amore che \u00e8 allegro e pieno di vita. Accettate l'amore che rimane.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Accettiamo<\/p>\n

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After a recent break-up, I started contemplating what I did wrong. Different questions were coming to my mind. Questions like: Did I show too much affection to him and scare him? Did I expect too much of him? Am I simply hard to love? And then I realized that none of it was true. The…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":28906,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28905","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/timothy-paul-smith-181500-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28905","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28905"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28905\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/28906"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28905"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28905"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28905"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}