{"id":28914,"date":"2020-05-27T08:59:26","date_gmt":"2020-05-27T08:59:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28914"},"modified":"2021-12-21T10:26:35","modified_gmt":"2021-12-21T10:26:35","slug":"al-mio-ex-ecco-perche-ti-ho-bloccato","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/al-mio-ex-ecco-perche-ti-ho-bloccato\/","title":{"rendered":"Al mio ex: ecco perch\u00e9 ti ho bloccato"},"content":{"rendered":"

Non voglio che tu arrivi nella mia vita quando ne hai voglia e rovini tutto. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I am in a good place now. I\u2019ve finally found peace, and I don\u2019t want you to tamper with that.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve already taken me to enough roller coaster rides. I don\u2019t need one more.<\/p>\n

I blocked you because I want to let you know that I am not available anymore. I won\u2019t jump to see you when you send me a drunken testo a tarda notte<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t be ecstatic from happiness because you remembered I exist. I don\u2019t want to be that girl anymore. I won\u2019t be a doormat you can step on.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to have an insight into my life. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to think about what to post or not to post on my social media out of fear you\u2019ll see it.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to feel like I\u2019m sending you some hidden messages through the posts I share.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to know where I am and am I seeing anybody. I don\u2019t want you to know anything about me. You lost that right as soon as you took an exit lane out of my life.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to know what\u2019s going on in your life. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to see the new girl you are dating. I don\u2019t need to see where you have been and what are you up to these days.<\/p>\n

You became my past by your own choice, and it\u2019s best I leave you there. There\u2019s no point in keeping tabs on each other. That\u2019s not the way to let somebody go.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be tempted to check up on you. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

If I hadn\u2019t ti ha bloccato<\/a>So che ci sarebbero stati momenti in cui avrei sfogliato i vostri account sui social media, alla ricerca di Dio sa cosa.<\/p>\n

At those moments, I would be stricken by nostalgia or I would be just curious. I really can\u2019t tell which, but I know it wouldn\u2019t do me any good.<\/p>\n

Avevo bisogno di ricordare chi ero prima che tu entrassi nella mia vita. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve forgotten about that girl. I\u2019ve forgotten her smile. I\u2019ve forgotten what happiness looks like. Intentionally or unintentionally, you took the parts of me I treasured the most.<\/p>\n

You took my self-esteem. You took my inner peace. You took my happiness. It\u2019s time I get them back.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s time I hit the restart button on my life and ritrovare me stesso<\/span><\/a>, and I can\u2019t do that if you keep popping up at my news feed.<\/p>\n

Devo fare pace con il fatto che non cambierai mai. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Rimarrai sempre come sei. Non mi apprezzerai mai.<\/p>\n

Mi darai sempre per scontata. Mi calpesterai sempre.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to grant you access into my life anymore. I won\u2019t allow you to keep going in and out of my life. I won\u2019t allow you to hurt me again. I\u2019ve had enough.<\/p>\n

I blocked you because I don\u2019t need strangers in my life. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Non ti ho mai conosciuto, anche se mi importava cos\u00ec tanto di te. Non sei mai stato onesto su nulla. Dicevi che non avresti mai fatto nulla per ferirmi, ma mi pugnalavi alle spalle. Mi hai fatto piangere e soffrire.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t care how I felt about what your actions did to me, and I don\u2019t need someone like that in my life.<\/p>\n

Non sei pi\u00f9 una persona familiare e vicina al cuore. Ora non sei altro che un perfetto sconosciuto.<\/p>\n

I blocked you because I know deep down that I don\u2019t need you anymore. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 di cui ho bisogno \u00e8 me stesso. E ora so di essere sufficiente. Bloccarti \u00e8 stata la cosa migliore che abbia mai fatto.<\/p>\n

Bloccare \u00e8 la pace nella mia mente. Il blocco \u00e8 met\u00e0 della salute. Bloccare \u00e8 una vita pi\u00f9 felice e pi\u00f9 sana. Bloccare \u00e8 amore per se stessi, e io ne ho bisogno di pi\u00f9 nella mia vita.<\/p>\n

\"Al<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I don\u2019t want you to show up in my life when you feel like it and mess everything up. I am in a good place now. I\u2019ve finally found peace, and I don\u2019t want you to tamper with that. You\u2019ve already taken me to enough roller coaster rides. I don\u2019t need one more. I blocked…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":28915,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29630],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-28914","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-no-contact"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29630,"label":"no contact"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/evstratov.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29630,"name":"no contact","slug":"no-contact","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29630,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Sometimes silence speaks louder than words. Mastering the art of the No contact rule will save you a lot of trouble, so what are you waiting for?","parent":29627,"count":30,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29630,"category_count":30,"category_description":"Sometimes silence speaks louder than words. Mastering the art of the No contact rule will save you a lot of trouble, so what are you waiting for?","cat_name":"no contact","category_nicename":"no-contact","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28914","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=28914"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/28914\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/28915"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=28914"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=28914"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=28914"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}