{"id":28965,"date":"2020-10-27T13:35:01","date_gmt":"2020-10-27T13:35:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=28965"},"modified":"2021-11-29T21:39:50","modified_gmt":"2021-11-29T21:39:50","slug":"come-fare-una-mossa-con-una-ragazza-e-farla-tua","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-fare-una-mossa-con-una-ragazza-e-farla-tua\/","title":{"rendered":"Come provarci con una ragazza (e farla tua)"},"content":{"rendered":"

So, you really like this girl and you feel like you should make the first move but you\u2019re not sure how to do it. You don\u2019t want to do something that will scare her away from you because every step you take is equally important. And that is when the anxiety kicks in.<\/p>\n

Si diventa ansiosi per le cose pi\u00f9 banali, ad esempio: Devo sedermi sul suo lato destro o sinistro? Devo chiederle se posso tenerle la mano? Dovrei indossare questo profumo? <\/i> By contemplating all of this, you forget the most important thing, which is almost the only thing you\u2019ll ever need to fare una mossa con una ragazza<\/a> e cio\u00e8: di essere rilassati.<\/b><\/p>\n

Think of it this way\u2014if you\u2019re not relaxed, she will sense it and she will not feel comfortable, which instantly ruins your chances of kissing her or something more. If a girl is not comfortable around you, you cannot proceed to other steps that will make her approve your actions and enjoy them.<\/p>\n

Rimanere rilassati.<\/p>\n

The first step to making a move on a girl is to stay relaxed. If you\u2019re thinking about asking her out, approaching her at a party or at school, if you\u2019re thinking about hugging and kissing her, the first thing that should come to your mind is to chill. I know the pressure is high and the more you like the girl, the harder it is to stay relaxed.<\/p>\n

But try to understand that if you stay relaxed, the chances that she\u2019s going to reject your invitation become really low. Be cool. Act like you don\u2019t really care about her (even though you know it\u2019s a lie) but if a woman senses that you\u2019re not that into her, she will immediately start wondering whether you like her or not and she will be more than happy to date you.<\/p>\n

But if you act like she\u2019s the only girl in the world for you and trattarla come una regina<\/a>, she will most definitely lose interest before you even ask her out. And even if she accepts your invitation, the chances she\u2019s going to friendzone you are really high.<\/p>\n

La fiducia \u00e8 la chiave.<\/p>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Fate finta di niente, rimanete rilassati e questo le dimostrer\u00e0 che siete sicuri di voi stessi e di quello che state facendo. Nessuna ragazza pu\u00f2 resistere a un ragazzo cos\u00ec. La fiducia \u00e8 la vostra amica numero uno quando si tratta di ragazze, quindi cercate di memorizzarla! La fiducia in se stessi vince su tutto. Vi fa apparire dieci volte pi\u00f9 sexy e audaci di quanto non siate in realt\u00e0. <\/p>\n

Now you\u2019re wondering how you can appear confident when you\u2019re being anxious about every single detail and you want everything to be perfect. Congratulations, you\u2019re on to something.<\/p>\n

Do you often wonder how such a beautiful girl could ever date a guy like him? She\u2019s the embodiment of beauty and he looks like just a random guy you meet on the street every day. But that guy knows something you\u2019re about to learn now. That guy knows that even if he doesn\u2019t look that good or he\u2019s not that fiducioso in se stesso <\/a> Pu\u00f2 sempre fingere di esserlo e lei non lo sapr\u00e0.<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s true. If you\u2019re not confident in yourself, you can always fake it. If you pretend that you\u2019re all relaxed and chill, she will buy it and trust me, she will fall for it. Remember that you\u2019re equally worth it, just like the girl you like. Don\u2019t let her beauty overwhelm you and make you feel less worthy of being with her.<\/p>\n

You know it\u2019s not true. I\u2019m sure you have some badass qualities that will make her fall to her knees. Now, when you\u2019ve overcome all of these psychological barriers, you can proceed to the rest of the steps that will help you fare una mossa con la ragazza che ti piace<\/a> (e Fai di lei la tua ragazza<\/a>).<\/p>\n

COME PROVARCI CON UNA RAGAZZA (E FARLA TUA)<\/h3>\n

Chiederle di uscire<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

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Yup. Asking her out is the first step that will get you to your dreamland. Now, the question is not where to ask her out but the question is how to do so. Always pay attention to how you do something and not where you\u2019re going to do it or when. So, you decide whether you feel more comfortable with the casual or the not too casual version.<\/p>\n

You decide whether you want to take her out to the movies or you want to watch one at home. Or if you would rather take her to a museum, why not. Girls love diversity and it\u2019s all about making them feel special. So, you have to pay attention to how you are going to ask her out. Try the following method: Chill. Breathe out, breathe in. Pick up your phone or go to her and simply ask her: Ehi, mi chiedevo se ti andrebbe di andare al cinema stasera? <\/i> Mantenete le cose semplici.<\/p>\n

You see, it\u2019s a simple sentence of thirteen words you need to utter to her. Don\u2019t overcomplicate it because there\u2019s no need for it. If you happen to be at a party and you want to ask her out, just introduce yourself, say something interesting (be humorous) and subtly ask her out by saying: I think we should see that (funny) movie\u2026 <\/i> In questo modo, non subir\u00e0 pressioni e sar\u00e0 felice di accettare il vostro invito.<\/p>\n

Toccatela<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

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By touching, I mean holding hands, hugging her or other cute gestures that simply work any time. So, the two of you are watching a movie and now you have to level up and involve some physical touch in order to show her your affection. When you feel it\u2019s the right moment for touching or holding her hand, don\u2019t hesitate to do it. It\u2019s all about feelings.<\/p>\n

If your brain is telling you that it is time to do it, then listen to it and act accordingly. If you don\u2019t listen to your gut, you will most likely end up confusing her and making the whole thing awkward. And you don\u2019t want awkwardness. Awkwardness is for newbies. You want to send her the message that you apprezzarla <\/a> and you will not rush her into anything if she\u2019s not ready for it.<\/p>\n

By holding her hand, giving her a hug, and touching her from time to time, you\u2019re preparing her for what is about to come. And if you skip these steps of light physical touch, you will never be able to get to some intense touching (if you catch my drift).<\/p>\n

Baciarla<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

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The biggest dilemma of all is: When is the right time to kiss her? Well, the right time is when you FEEL is the right time. And it can never be otherwise. Once you feel that the moment has come, lean in, close your eyes and kiss her slowly. You don\u2019t want to rush things! Kiss her slowly, then look into her eyes and try to smile (if you can).<\/p>\n

After that, you can kiss her some more but make sure that she\u2019s enjoying it. If she looks like she\u2019s not in the mood for kissing, you should consider aborting the mission immediately. If that happens, then wait for some other time when she will be ready. But always kiss her like you really mean it. Don\u2019t make her question your intentions or sense that you\u2019re a little bit insecure about what you\u2019re doing. Do it like a boss and she will fall for you instantly.<\/p>\n

Allontanarsi e poi continuare<\/h2>\n

\"l'uomo<\/p>\n

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I know this sounds weird because why would you pull away now that you\u2019ve gone this far? Well, women are not as simple as men. You need to make them want more. So, when you start kissing her, when you feel it\u2019s time to stop doing so, pull away (but make sure the transition looks natural) and then observe her body language and her intentions. If she seems like she wants more, then give her more (but not yet).<\/p>\n

Wait a little bit longer until she is at boiling point and then start kissing her again and include some touching as well. In this phase, she will be unable to resist you because she\u2019s waited for you for so long (when you really want someone, seconds feel like hours). And that is when you\u2019ve won.<\/p>\n

Ora potete fare tutto quello che volete perch\u00e9 lei non potr\u00e0 dire di no. Rimanere calmi e rilassati vi render\u00e0 pi\u00f9 desiderabili ed \u00e8 per questo che lei vorr\u00e0 di pi\u00f9 da voi e l'unica cosa di cui dovete preoccuparvi ora \u00e8 assicurarvi di dargliela.<\/p>\n

Always check that she\u2019s comfortable with what you\u2019re doing<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

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There\u2019s a fine line between being pushy and being passionate. And it\u2019s all in her mind. If she\u2019s in the mood, she will see you as someone who is kissing her passionately and with care and she will enjoy it. But if she\u2019s not in the mood, she will see you as someone who is pushing her to do things she doesn\u2019t really enjoy doing at that moment.<\/p>\n

And you don\u2019t want that. So, always make sure that she\u2019s comfortable with what you\u2019re doing. If her body language and gestures are not telling you anything about how she feels, try simply asking her: Ti piace quando faccio questo\/quello? <\/i> If she confirms and you can see it in her eyes that she\u2019s being sincere, you have the green light to continue with whatever you were doing.<\/p>\n

But if you sense that she could be lying only to appear polite, try changing tactics and include some variations. Try to be creative in everything you do and if you\u2019re not creative by nature, you can always Google it and try to memorize some of it. Also, don\u2019t make it look like you\u2019re trying hard to appease her because that is not hot.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re trying really hard to meet her needs and by that you\u2019re neglecting yours, it will not be good. Physical contact, holding hands, kissing, and having sex are all about mutual initiation and consent. If you don\u2019t skip any of these, I guarantee you that you will make a move on her like a boss and Fai di lei la tua ragazza<\/a>.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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