{"id":29016,"date":"2020-09-28T11:43:04","date_gmt":"2020-09-28T11:43:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29016"},"modified":"2022-01-18T00:00:29","modified_gmt":"2022-01-18T00:00:29","slug":"8-cose-che-ti-insegna-la-perdita-dellamore-della-tua-vita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-cose-che-ti-insegna-la-perdita-dellamore-della-tua-vita\/","title":{"rendered":"8 cose che ti insegna la perdita dell'amore della tua vita"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tutte le vostre speranze e i vostri sogni erano legati a quell'unica persona, e perderla \u00e8 come se aveste perso tutto. Sembra la fine della vita come la conoscete.<\/p>\n

Perdere l'amore della propria vita<\/a> is something you can\u2019t prepare yourself for. It\u2019s one of the worst things that can happen to you. It\u2019s like part of your heart was taken away from you, and you are never getting it back.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s unbelievably hard. Pain can be overwhelming and excruciating. But a heartbreak is a lesson on its own, a lesson we don\u2019t want to learn, but we don\u2019t get to have any say in it.<\/p>\n

Le relazioni sono fatte per due, e non appena una delle due parti se ne va, non vi resta altra scelta che imparare dal vostro dolore.<\/p>\n

When it first happens you are telling yourself that you are OK, but you really aren\u2019t<\/h2>\n

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La vostra prima reazione \u00e8 quella di essere forti. Perdere l'amore della propria vita non \u00e8 qualcosa da cui ci si pu\u00f2 riprendere da un giorno all'altro.<\/p>\n

Anche le persone pi\u00f9 forti vengono schiacciate quando il loro cuore viene strappato dal petto. Nessuno pu\u00f2 sopravvivere in piedi.<\/p>\n

Feel your feelings. Admit that you are not OK and that it\u2019s going to take you a long time before you can honestly say you are back on your feet.<\/p>\n

Let it hurt. It\u2019s supposed to hurt. You are supposed to cry and grieve over your loss. It will make the healing process a bit easier.<\/p>\n

Healing is a process which can\u2019t be rushed<\/h2>\n

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Proverete l'intero spettro di emozioni che vanno dalla rabbia, alla tristezza, alla disperazione, alla paura per il futuro, fino alla totale insensibilit\u00e0. <\/p>\n

Avrete anche delle giornate positive, in cui vi sentirete positivi e forti. Sono questi i giorni che vi ricaricano e vi danno la spinta necessaria per andare avanti.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t expect that healing will happen in just a few days or months. Sometimes it takes a long time, and we are all different when dealing with our pain, especially if they were the hard love (this is one of the I tre amori della vita<\/a>). <\/p>\n

You\u2019ll miss them for a great while, and that\u2019s something you can\u2019t help<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Sono stati una parte importante della vostra vita e ve li ricorderete costantemente. Le lacrime arriveranno da sole ogni volta che vedrete qualcosa che vi far\u00e0 pensare a loro e i vostri pensieri saranno il vostro peggior nemico.<\/p>\n

Anche se la relazione era destinata a finire e non eravate del tutto felici, la vostra mente riproporr\u00e0 tutti i momenti felici vissuti insieme al vostro ex, ignorando quelli brutti.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t look at this as a sign you should do the impossible to get back together. Remind yourself that you shouldn\u2019t chase after anyone who ti ha lasciato solo<\/a> e ha scelto di non far parte della vostra vita.<\/p>\n

Love is worth the fight, but it should never be begged for, and that\u2019s a huge difference.<\/p>\n

I social media sono il vostro nemico<\/h2>\n

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You are going to go through your exe\u2019s social media accounts. You will investigate every little clue in order to find some closure or the real reason why this person left you.<\/p>\n

But in the end, you will realize that you are just hurting way more this way. You will never get the answers you want if they weren\u2019t decent enough to tell you in person what it\u2019s all about.<\/p>\n

Your heart won\u2019t be at ease if you keep seeing their happy faces or even pictures with somebody they could have pi\u00f9 di un'amicizia<\/a> con.<\/p>\n

Try to resist the urge to check up on your ex. Don\u2019t go through their social media accounts. Don\u2019t ask your mutual friends about them. It will only make you feel worse and more hurt.<\/p>\n

Smetterete di sognare ad occhi aperti che voi due torniate insieme<\/h2>\n

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It\u2019s only natural that you will have these desires at the beginning. You will be nostalgic about that person and about all those amazing moments you shared together.<\/p>\n

Con il passare del tempo, per\u00f2, vi renderete conto che il vostro ex appartiene al passato per un motivo. Vi renderete conto che meritate di meglio e che, anche se ci tenevate profondamente, era solo un grande capitolo della vostra vita. Non \u00e8 cos\u00ec che finisce la storia.<\/p>\n

You choose your life; you don\u2019t settle for it<\/h2>\n

\"ritratto<\/p>\n

We can\u2019t influence other people\u2019s behavior. We can\u2019t stop bad things that happen to us, but we can choose the way we deal with things.<\/p>\n

Possiamo passare giorni a letto e molto tempo a piangere per il corso sbagliato che ha preso la nostra vita, oppure possiamo alzarci e fare le nostre scelte.<\/p>\n

We can get up every day with a mindset that things will work out in the end. We can fight our pain and do things that shift our focus from our brokenness to empowering ourselves. If you do that, you will discover soon enough it\u2019s the way to happiness.<\/p>\n

Imparate che avete abbastanza forza per iniziare una nuova vita senza di loro.<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Dopo un certo periodo di tempo in cui il vostro amore perduto era l'unica cosa a cui riuscivate a pensare, vi renderete conto che dovete andare avanti nonostante il dolore. Vi renderete conto che anche voi siete importanti.<\/p>\n

You will want to change your life. Your essence will and should always be the same. You will want to welcome newness in your life. You don\u2019t need constant reminders of what you had and lost.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you might start with simple things like changing your hair or the way you dress, hitting the gym and finding a way to sweat out the pain, etc.<\/p>\n

Ma anche voi vorrete cambiare la vostra vita in grande stile. Andrete alla ricerca di qualcosa che vi appassiona. Metterete alla prova i vostri limiti e uscirete dalla vostra zona di comfort.<\/p>\n

Conoscerete nuove persone e avrete una nuova prospettiva di vita. Lascerete questo dolore con la vittoria personale di essere la versione migliore di voi stessi.<\/p>\n

Losing the love of your life doesn’t mean that you lost your chance for true love<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Non c'\u00e8 dubbio che l'amore che avete provato fosse reale e forse pensavate che quella persona fosse l'amore della vostra vita, mentre in realt\u00e0 era solo il vostro pi\u00f9 grande amore fino a quel momento.<\/p>\n

You will love again. As impossible as that sounds at the initial phases of your heartbreak, it\u2019s true. The one that is the real love of your life will be there to stay forever.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why the expression we use is a \u2018forever person\u2019\u2014love with them never ends.<\/p>\n

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