{"id":29078,"date":"2020-08-29T08:04:42","date_gmt":"2020-08-29T08:04:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29078"},"modified":"2021-12-20T16:17:33","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T16:17:33","slug":"7-cose-da-fare-quando-lui-non-risponde-agli-sms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-cose-da-fare-quando-lui-non-risponde-agli-sms\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cose da fare quando lui non risponde al messaggio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vi piace un ragazzo e volete fare qualcosa. Sembra che anche tu gli piaccia.<\/p>\n

First, you try to find the courage to be the first one to send a text. And you do, but sadly, you\u2019re not getting a text back.<\/p>\n

Like sending the text isn\u2019t stressful enough. On top of that, you don\u2019t even get a reply.<\/p>\n

Come affrontarlo e cosa fare?<\/b><\/p>\n

Questa situazione pu\u00f2 sembrare banale, ma ci\u00f2 che fate dopo \u00e8 di grande importanza. La vostra risposta a questa situazione gli mostra che tipo di persona siete, e potrebbe anche decidere se uscire con voi o meno solo in base a quello che farete dopo.<\/p>\n

Gli SMS hanno cambiato l'intera situazione degli appuntamenti. Ora che la comunicazione \u00e8 troppo disponibile, ci aspettiamo che la persona che ci piace ci risponda all'istante.<\/p>\n

We know that all of us keep our phones on us all the time, and it\u2019s almost impossible that a text got unnoticed within half an hour.<\/p>\n

Before phone and texting, if you hadn\u2019t heard from him all day, that was completely normal. Today, that causes panic!<\/p>\n

1. Don\u2019t send one text after another<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s painful when you don\u2019t get a text back right away, especially because most of us come up with the worst case scenario as to why he didn\u2019t text back.<\/p>\n

But sending one text after the other is not going to solve the problem. It will probably make it even worse. Don\u2019t send too many texts, and don\u2019t send texts to his friends because he is not texting you back.<\/p>\n

It will make you look desperate and maybe even a bit crazy. It\u2019s definitely a turn-off, especially if the guy you texted really couldn\u2019t text you back for some reason. Imagine his reaction after seeing the phone loaded with your texts? I wouldn\u2019t be expecting him to text back. Not after that scenario.<\/p>\n

2. Inviare un testo normale<\/h2>\n

If you can\u2019t endure not getting a text and you have to send another one to see what\u2019s going on, I mean if you really can\u2019t stop yourself from not sending a text, then at least go with a casual text.<\/p>\n

I personally would never send text after text, especially if I hadn\u2019t heard from him after more than two days. Everyone can misplace their phone for a few hours, but when days are in the equation, then I wouldn\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n

But once again, if you absolutely have to, then send a casual text. Don\u2019t send mad, threatening texts because you never know what is going on and what\u2019s the real reason he hasn\u2019t texted you back. You can only guess.<\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t assume he\u2019s lost interest<\/h2>\n

Don\u2019t start panicking and imagine the worst case scenario\u2014that he\u2019s not that into you<\/span><\/a>. You don\u2019t know the real reason why he didn\u2019t text you back, and there are so many of them.<\/p>\n

Maybe something important came up, and he didn\u2019t have the time to tell you. Maybe he got held up at work or the most usual reason of them all\u2014he ran out of battery. So, before starting to panic, think about whether it\u2019s possible something else happened, and wait for a few hours.<\/p>\n

4. Non toccare il telefono<\/h2>\n

DO NOT TOUCH YOUR PHONE! You\u2019ll be freaking out. You\u2019ll stare at your phone. You\u2019ll turn it on a million times hoping that the next time, you\u2019ll see a text on the screen. But no! What should you do when he doesn’t text back<\/a>? Simple. Don\u2019t text him.<\/p>\n

Imagine if he had an emergency and wasn\u2019t around his phone. What happens when he sees the follow-up messages which were clearly the product of your panic state? That guy will never send you another text in his life.<\/p>\n

So, resist your urges, and don\u2019t text him immediately after he didn\u2019t text you back.<\/p>\n

5. Rivolgersi a un amico<\/h2>\n

But be careful, don\u2019t complain to your mutual friend. Be very careful who you talk to. While you\u2019re trying not to bomb him with texts because he didn\u2019t text you back, talk to a friend. It will be easier for you to hear advice from someone close to you.<\/p>\n

If not that, at least you\u2019ll preoccupy your mind\u2014at least for a while. You\u2019ll make the time go faster, and those two days are going to pass like 2 hours. Just once again, don\u2019t talk to your mutual friends because it\u2019s most likely your misery will reach him.<\/p>\n

He’ll see how desperate you are which is even more of a turnoff for a man.<\/p>\n

6. Mantenere intatta la propria autostima<\/h2>\n

You look at this guy you\u2019re interested in like a prize. And when you feel that prize is getting away from you, you panic because you want it too bad. But instead of inseguendolo<\/span><\/a>, dovreste guardare in profondit\u00e0 in voi stessi.<\/p>\n

You have to realize that you are someone\u2019s prize, too. You have to have so much self-respect and self-esteem because you are worthy of the chase, not chasing someone else.<\/p>\n

Basically, if a guy doesn\u2019t respond to your text in two days, there is only one possible outcome to this situation – he is not interested in you, and he doesn\u2019t want to talk to you. You can send as many texts as you want, but nothing will change his mind.<\/p>\n

By following up on one text after another, you\u2019re only making damage for yourself. You can only feel worse and less worthy because someone rejected you. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, be the one who gets chased, not the one who chases.<\/p>\n

7. Infine, passare a<\/h2>\n

If he doesn\u2019t react, if he shows no interest whatsoever, seriously, move on. You don\u2019t need validation from anyone. You don\u2019t need to seek attention because there is a man out there who will give you attention without you asking for it.<\/p>\n

If he is not going to respect you enough to answer you, even if that answer is \u2018no\u2019, you deserve to get something. If he is not going to do that, you know you\u2019re dealing with a cowardly man who probably has commitment issues to begin with.<\/p>\n

Anyhow, move on and cut your losses. You\u2019ve probably dodged a bullet anyway.<\/p>\n

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