{"id":29117,"date":"2018-11-29T12:02:51","date_gmt":"2018-11-29T12:02:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29117"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:24:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:24:49","slug":"uscire-con-un-manipolatore-ti-incasinera-la-testa-anche-dopo-la-rottura","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/uscire-con-un-manipolatore-ti-incasinera-la-testa-anche-dopo-la-rottura\/","title":{"rendered":"Uscire con un manipolatore ti incasiner\u00e0 la testa anche dopo la rottura"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s tricky being able to spot a manipulator before he finds a way to your heart and messes with your mind. I was unfortunate enough to be in a relationship with one for a long time, before I finally found the courage to liberarsi<\/a> da lui e dai suoi giochi mentali tossici.<\/p>\n

It was a draining process. It took me some time to cope with the aftermath of breaking it off and healing my body and soul after the horrendous experience I went through with him. He changed how I saw myself afterward and made me so much more guarded. But that\u2019s not the half of it\u2026<\/p>\n

Ecco tutti i modi in cui uscire con un manipolatore mi ha completamente incasinato la testa, anche molto tempo dopo la rottura.<\/p>\n

1. Ho dato la colpa a me stesso per non aver visto i segnali<\/h2>\n

Manipulators are masters of their craft! They hide their true self sooo well behind those seemingly honest eyes and deceptive smile! There is no way you can see through that immediately, because they just work their magic on you and you\u2019re hooked! Thank goodness I found my way out of it in time\u2026 but I still can\u2019t forgive myself for letting him hook me that easily. Am I that naive and trustworthy? He really messed with my mind… They are truly the worst people to invite into your life and I am so much more careful now.<\/p>\n

2. Ho perso la voglia di uscire per un po' di tempo<\/h2>\n

I have become so much more guarded now and since my ex was such a lying, scheming, conniving manipulator, I don\u2019t have the courage to open myself up to anyone right now! I barely got over him, how can I risk getting so hurt again? He turned me into the biggest cynic, though I am desperately trying to change this, for my own good! I know that there are good guys out there, who won\u2019t try and play tricks on me and who will love me with a pure heart. But my ex has made me question everything and everyone now. I just don\u2019t know how to trust again. And can you blame me?<\/p>\n

3. Lascio che influisca sulla mia attuale vita sentimentale<\/h2>\n

I went through such a painful experience, my heart was broken, my mind was played and my body was so tired… And every time I try to get myself to aprire<\/a> to someone, I find myself flinching and refusing to let myself be vulnerable. I just can\u2019t get myself into that kind of a situation again and I don\u2019t know if I\u2019ll ever be able to trust anyone with my heart again. I have become insecure and protective of myself. All thanks to the guy I let in so easily… I\u2019m not ready to make a similar mistake again.<\/p>\n

4. Mi arrabbio tantissimo solo a pensarci<\/h2>\n

The thing I hate the most about dating him is how mad I get at the thought of him. I am normally a very laid-back girl and I let bygones be bygones\u2026 but there is something about him that just makes me so angry, that I have to make myself stop thinking about him and preoccupy myself with something different. I hate how he\u2019s messed with my head so much that he has turned me into this uneasy person that I know I\u2019m not! But I\u2019m not going to let him beat me. I am going to get my old self back and I will never again pay a single thought to him. He\u2019s not going to be the end of me.<\/p>\n

5. La mia fiducia in me stesso ha subito un duro colpo<\/h2>\n

Manipulators will use all kinds of mind tricks to get to their partner. One of their favorites is \u2018negging\u2019, and it usually means they will insult their partner, only to follow it with a compliment, which will make them seek the manipulator\u2019s approval. This is exactly what he did to me. I can finally say it and not break down. My confidence took a real hit due to his manipulative ways and I\u2019ll never forgive him for that. I don\u2019t recognize myself anymore, he really did a number on me. Luckily, I surround myself with amazing people, like my family and friends, and they give me the confidence boost I need and I am beyond thankful for them. Otherwise, it would be really hard tornare indietro<\/a> alla ragazza che ero un tempo.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s tricky being able to spot a manipulator before he finds a way to your heart and messes with your mind. I was unfortunate enough to be in a relationship with one for a long time, before I finally found the courage to break free from him and his toxic mind games. It was a…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":29118,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29117","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/dreamstime_s_50127241-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29117","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=29117"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29117\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29118"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=29117"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=29117"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=29117"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}