{"id":29154,"date":"2020-09-30T10:29:32","date_gmt":"2020-09-30T10:29:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=29154"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:46:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:46:20","slug":"6-segnali-allarmanti-del-fatto-che-il-vostro-ragazzo-ha-bisogno-di-stare-da-solo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-segnali-allarmanti-del-fatto-che-il-vostro-ragazzo-ha-bisogno-di-stare-da-solo\/","title":{"rendered":"6 segnali allarmanti del fatto che il vostro ragazzo ha bisogno di stare da solo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hai notato qualcosa di diverso nel tuo ragazzo ultimamente? Si \u00e8 comportato improvvisamente in modo distante e ogni volta che cerchi di parlargli sembra assente?<\/p>\n<p>Si infastidisce facilmente per le cose di cui prima rideva e voi vi sentite impotenti non sapendo cosa fare e come raggiungerlo.<\/p>\n<p>The biggest problem with guys is that they won\u2019t tell you when something bothers them because they are taught to find solutions on their own and to keep things to themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Hanno difficolt\u00e0 ad aprirsi con voi perch\u00e9 temono di essere giudicati o di apparire vulnerabili di fronte a voi.<\/p>\n<p>And that is why he\u2019ll choose to stay silent instead of telling you that he just needs some time for himself.<\/p>\n<p>Ma dimentica che le sue azioni dicono molto su come si sente e che potete essere sempre un passo avanti a lui se prestate attenzione a questi 6 segnali allarmanti che indicano che ha bisogno di stare un po' da solo.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He\u2019s feeling down all the time<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-105231\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/the-man-lowered-his-head-as-the-woman-lay-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"l&#039;uomo abbass\u00f2 la testa mentre la donna giaceva a letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/the-man-lowered-his-head-as-the-woman-lay-in-bed.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/the-man-lowered-his-head-as-the-woman-lay-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/the-man-lowered-his-head-as-the-woman-lay-in-bed-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/the-man-lowered-his-head-as-the-woman-lay-in-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/the-man-lowered-his-head-as-the-woman-lay-in-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It is completely normal to feel down sometimes but if he\u2019s constantly in a bad mood and when you ask him for a reason, he tells you that he doesn\u2019t know, this might mean that he needs some alone time in order to recharge.<\/p>\n<p>Another indicator is if he\u2019s no longer enjoying the activities the two of you used to enjoy before. This means he has some barriers that are preventing him from relaxing and enjoying spending time with you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He\u2019s making excuses<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-105235\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sitting-by-the-window-drinking-pizza.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo seduto alla finestra che beve pizza\" width=\"800\" height=\"536\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sitting-by-the-window-drinking-pizza.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sitting-by-the-window-drinking-pizza-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sitting-by-the-window-drinking-pizza-768x515.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sitting-by-the-window-drinking-pizza-150x101.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sitting-by-the-window-drinking-pizza-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se vi rendete conto che il vostro ragazzo \u00e8 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/smettere-di-trovare-scuse-uomo-tratta-come-merda\/\">trovare scuse<\/a> every time you ask him to go for a drink or something else, it is the ultimate sign that he needs alone time. Don\u2019t confuse this with his affection toward you.<\/p>\n<p>This has nothing to do with you and you shouldn\u2019t be offended if he starts making excuses all of a sudden. Just be patient and leave him be for some time and he\u2019ll come back to you rejuvenated.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Trascorre molto tempo con i suoi amici<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-105285\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-with-friends-is-standing-next-to-a-car.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo con amici \u00e8 in piedi accanto a un&#039;automobile\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-with-friends-is-standing-next-to-a-car.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-with-friends-is-standing-next-to-a-car-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-with-friends-is-standing-next-to-a-car-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-with-friends-is-standing-next-to-a-car-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-with-friends-is-standing-next-to-a-car-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When a guy feels like he\u2019s suffocating in a relationship, he\u2019ll start spending a lot of time with his friends. His friends will become his shelter from the things that might bother him and that is why he\u2019ll spend more time with them than he\u2019s spending with you.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/lei-non-e-bisognosa-e-solo-follemente-innamorata-di-te\/\">essere troppo bisognosi<\/a> or you\u2019re not giving him some space for himself? Think about the possible reason that might have caused this sudden change of behavior.<\/p>\n<p>Also, don\u2019t forget to give him some time with his friends because it is his way of dealing with things. And don\u2019t forget that this is just temporary.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He\u2019s not that interested in sex<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-105286\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-quarrels-with-a-woman-in-bed.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo litiga con una donna a letto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-quarrels-with-a-woman-in-bed.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-quarrels-with-a-woman-in-bed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-quarrels-with-a-woman-in-bed-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-quarrels-with-a-woman-in-bed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-quarrels-with-a-woman-in-bed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If a guy is not interested in sex, you can be sure that something\u2019s going on with him.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s probably lost his will for sex due to being overly annoyed or irritated by some trivial things. He simply cannot be relaxed because his subconscious is telling him that he needs some alone time to come to his senses.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He\u2019s delaying his replies<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-105287\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sits-and-keys-on-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo siede e digita al telefono\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sits-and-keys-on-the-phone.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sits-and-keys-on-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sits-and-keys-on-the-phone-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sits-and-keys-on-the-phone-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-sits-and-keys-on-the-phone-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve noticed that it takes him more time than usual to text you back, it means he needs some space.<\/p>\n<p>Vi lascer\u00e0 aspettare la sua risposta non perch\u00e9 vuole punirvi, ma perch\u00e9 non riesce a combattere l'impulso di farvi sapere in modo sottile che vuole stare da solo.<\/p>\n<p>I know it\u2019s hard not to get mad when something like this happens but try to respect his decision and he\u2019ll appreciate you even more. Next time you find yourself waiting for him to reply, simply ignore it and give him some space.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ferisce involontariamente i vostri sentimenti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-105288\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"un uomo urla a una donna\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/a-man-yells-at-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If he\u2019s constantly looking for arguments (for no apparent reason) and only to get rid of his rage, you\u2019ll know it\u2019s time to intervene and pull away.<\/p>\n<p>He might even say something insulting to you just because he\u2019s desperate to have his alone time.<\/p>\n<p>I know it would be much simpler if he decided to say this to you (instead of making a scene) but that\u2019s just how guys work. You can never know what\u2019s on their mind until their actions show it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-105289 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Alarming-Signs-Your-Boyfriend-Needs-Alone-Time-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"6 segnali allarmanti del fatto che il vostro ragazzo ha bisogno di stare da solo\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Alarming-Signs-Your-Boyfriend-Needs-Alone-Time-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Alarming-Signs-Your-Boyfriend-Needs-Alone-Time-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Alarming-Signs-Your-Boyfriend-Needs-Alone-Time-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Alarming-Signs-Your-Boyfriend-Needs-Alone-Time-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Alarming-Signs-Your-Boyfriend-Needs-Alone-Time-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you noticed anything different about your boyfriend lately? Has he been acting distant all of a sudden and whenever you try to talk to him, he seems absent? He gets easily annoyed at the things that he used to laugh at before and you feel helpless not knowing what to do and how to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":105229,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29154","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/6-Alarming-Signs-Your-Boyfriend-Needs-Alone-Time-e1603106771689.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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